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Post by problemlover on Apr 14, 2008 15:20:28 GMT -5
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Post by BA on Apr 14, 2008 19:24:15 GMT -5
What do you mean by you are re-evaluating your devness? I am curious about that one.
As for what I look for in a wheeler? I would look for nothing different than I would in an able-bodied man. Physical chemistry is a "given".
A gentleman (always), smart, reasonably humble, motivated to always better his situation, family oriented, loyal to a fault and has a way of making other people feel good about themselves.
... and if this describes you, where art thou?
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Post by Claire on Apr 15, 2008 9:47:20 GMT -5
I'm curious too. Once a dev, always a dev!
AB's list seems pretty complete to me. If I were seriously looking for someone else, I would settle for "less than perfect", but if you're really wanting to know the "perfect choice" I would add to ABs list that he makes me laugh, takes care of himself physically (as in keeping himself clean, well groomed, and dresses as if he had a bit of pride in his looks), that he be financially independent, and doesn't still live with his mother. Note that I didn't say he needed to be gorgeous and rich...not the same thing at all.
In any case, none of us are ever likely to find the "perfect wheeler" and most of us could not live up to whatever list the wheelers would make up of the "perfect dev". People are human and flawed and we all need to make allowances for each other's imperfections.
Edited to add:
Actually, I guess I'd have to add that he would need to be able to deal with MY issues. Doh!!
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Post by Deleted on Apr 15, 2008 12:29:43 GMT -5
Gentelman... check
Smart... check
Pretty humble... check
motivated... check
family oriented... check
loyal... check
make people around me feel good... check
funny... check
clean... check
financially independent... working on it
sans mommy... check
I'm really close on this one.
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Post by E on Apr 15, 2008 14:35:21 GMT -5
... and if this describes you, where art thou? Hanging out with unmarried women.  Loyal to a fault. |
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Post by Ouch on Apr 15, 2008 21:51:20 GMT -5
The Perfect Wheeler is...
...me!
(DISCLAIMER: No, ladies, don't get yourself into this mess, lol)
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Post by Claire on Apr 16, 2008 7:31:23 GMT -5
Thanks wind.  Lemme add to that that he can't be young enough to be my son! (Nor old enough to be my father). |
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Post by problemlover on Apr 16, 2008 11:50:26 GMT -5
I guess ppl misunderstood what I meant. The ideal wheeler doesn't exist.Just wondering what were other pple's criteria.
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Post by E on Apr 16, 2008 13:05:26 GMT -5
The ideal wheeler doesn't exist. That's the spirit! |
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Post by Phil on Apr 16, 2008 14:42:04 GMT -5
The ideal wheeler doesn't exist. That's the spirit! LMAO! |
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Post by laurasweetou on Apr 20, 2008 14:49:44 GMT -5
I am with AB and Claire, am I a picky girl?
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Post by Ciao Bella on Apr 22, 2008 1:20:20 GMT -5
I already have my perfect wheeler - perfect for me, that is |
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Post by problemlover on Apr 22, 2008 12:40:46 GMT -5
Whatever Creative E  You know I thought this board was for devos to be able to express whatever they are feeling and there you are always quoting pple and making fun of what pple say. |
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.Just wondering cuz I'm totally reevaluating my devness alltogether.Confused ppl I'm confused!!! 
Lemme add to that that he can't be young enough to be my son! (Nor old enough to be my father). 