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Post by Deleted on Jun 16, 2008 23:53:53 GMT -5
Has anyone been through a break up where there was no fight, no arguing, a little hurt, but then a shrug of the shoulders? So shes moving on, I wouldn't mind finding someone to hang with but I'm not really ready, I have some stuff to see to first to get some balance.
BUT now my hackles raise when ever she enters the place and I get annoyed uber quick. Am I resenting something? Am I going through that whole left behind stuff?
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Post by mrjefffurz on Jun 17, 2008 12:13:32 GMT -5
citing personal experience with the exact situation more than once,,,the answer is YES YOU ARE...and it will take time to get past the way that you feel,,,the only solution i found was avoid contact as much as you can while balancing not letting her presence dictate what you want to do...it will be a juggling act for awhile...best case scenario,,,she starts going somewhere other than the place you share with her...
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Post by Deleted on Jun 17, 2008 15:58:50 GMT -5
Yeah thats what I figured. I thought I was all mature and shit about it. Oh well if there is anything I am good at, its getting someone to leave me the hell alone till I get sorted.
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Post by laurasweetou on Jun 17, 2008 22:03:02 GMT -5
I thought while I was reading this, yeah, I've been thru that with this one guy at work, until I read "hackles", and it wasn't until then I realized that I think I really pissed that guy off. So, I am going to send him an I'm sorry email tomorrow.
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