Why

[faith]

Claire-
Is it the paralyzed limbs, or the chair?
I think for me it is both...and maybe add "the lack of feeling". There is something sexy about touching an area that has no feeling.
I think it is a combination of all 3 for me.

And I totally agree about good people here... a great group.

[Claire]

Well, for me, it starts with the paralyzed limbs. They are what elicits that visceral response, and what I think about when I'm fantasizing. But...I am certainly capable of finding a chair in and of itself to be sexy. And a sexy guy will always be sexier if he's in a sexy chair. Rigid ultra-lightweight, please, with a low back, NO handles, and at least 3 degrees camber is a must!

I'm intrigued by your comment about "no feeling". That is totally off the radar for me. I've never even considered that in relationship to devism. But then I've never been with a wheeler, so maybe that's why.