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Post by Neffie on May 30, 2010 14:06:40 GMT -5
Yeah, I think the other gals are right. I don't think you should feel the need to share apart from on here.
Obviously I am very open but I think part of that comes from the fact that I spend so much time with gay men. When you're surrounded by gayness it's hard to be shy. I don't go shouting that I'm a dev but at the same time people I'm around know that the man I like is a wheeler and it's not a big deal.
There are a couple of friends who know how I feel however and although my my mate Claire said "So you have a fetish basically? Did you take a picture of the ramp outside your door?"
LOL I live in an environment where men trade sexual favours for hotel upgrades and women let themselves be dehumanised by men.
Don't take my advice...
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Post by mariposa on Jun 1, 2010 6:51:48 GMT -5
I have the odd phase of wishing it away, but this is bitter sweet as it usually occurs in the middle of a yearning phase and comes twinned with the frustration of knowing that there's nothing I can do about it (apart from using my imagination).
I have occasionally good sex with my AB bf, it's not that I don't want to be with him, but polishing the peanut is so much more enjoyable and comes with a guaranteed orgasm at the end of it. I don't think that facet would exist in my life if it weren't for my devness; it wouldn't be replaced with something else. I would just be a woman who was slightly interested in sex and that would be a bloody shame. I feel like I get to have my cake and eat it.
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Post by Neffie on Jun 1, 2010 14:57:22 GMT -5
polishing the peanut??? LMFAO!!! LOve it. I call it flicking the bean most of the time!
Yeah I have to say I favour the above but the novelty of actually having a man in the room with me when I orgasm would be quite a thrill! LOL
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Post by BA on Jun 1, 2010 16:19:22 GMT -5
Yeah I have to say I favour the above but the novelty of actually having a man in the room with me when I orgasm would be quite a thrill! LOL Ha! LOVE IT!!!!
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Post by mariposa on Jun 2, 2010 10:55:51 GMT -5
polishing the peanut??? LMFAO!!! LOve it. I call it flicking the bean most of the time! Yeah I have to say I favour the above but the novelty of actually having a man in the room with me when I orgasm would be quite a thrill! LOL It's a beauty, isn't it? You'll get there, Nef, one day...
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Post by Neffie on Jun 5, 2010 15:30:59 GMT -5
as they say in Arabic: fil mish mish
It means in your dreams....unfortunately that's the only place I'll find a wheeler
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