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Post by safari4444 on Sept 2, 2008 14:57:57 GMT -5
I was wondering if there are any Devo Dommes??
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Post by southernman on Sept 8, 2008 12:00:10 GMT -5
Whats a devo domme??
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Post by charlene on Sept 9, 2008 4:01:09 GMT -5
It's a female dominant (BDSM).
I do get this question a lot from wheelers. A lot of them think devs are automatically dominant. What do you think?
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southernman
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Post by southernman on Sept 9, 2008 12:12:40 GMT -5
That's a good question charlaine, i have often thought about that myself, what attracts devs to wheelers, and i often come up with the same conclusion that they must like to have control if they want it. lol i get the feeling though that i am about to find out that there are many other reasons beyond that, and i would'nt mind hearing a few responses, just because im curious..
(I have only been a wheeler for about six years so there are alot of things that i still don't know)
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Post by Claire on Sept 9, 2008 13:31:16 GMT -5
Well, that theory doesn't hold true for me. I'm definitely not a domme. BDSM isn't my thing, but regardless of that, it's not about control for me. I don't want to be dominated in any way by any means, but I like a man to respectfully/lovingly take charge.
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Post by rollingbear on Sept 9, 2008 13:38:15 GMT -5
For me, I would hope a woman/man is attracted to a person in a chair by their, humility/strength, courageous outlook after a life altering accident or birth, respect for others and a willingness to allow others to maximize their potential in a safe and enthusiastic environment. Guess good looks doesn't hurt either lol.
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Post by BA on Sept 9, 2008 16:46:13 GMT -5
For me, I would hope a woman/man is attracted to a person in a chair by their, humility/strength, courageous outlook after a life altering accident or birth, respect for others and a willingness to allow others to maximize their potential in a safe and enthusiastic environment. Guess good looks doesn't hurt either lol. Brilliant. Sums it up in a nutshell. I am not a domme either, but I am sure there are some devs out there that are into the BDSM scene and would enjoy meeting a like minded wheeler partner. |
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Post by Claire on Sept 9, 2008 20:14:53 GMT -5
However, I would say that that is how/why *anyone* would be attracted to a person in a chair. But that's not devness. Any woman can feel that about a wheeler. It doesn't make her a dev.
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