Honesty

[dionisia]

Thanks Clover I too hope for that.

Annie, welcome, glad you decided to post, i sure know the feeling. I think most of us are with what Clover and Natasha said. I have told a few of my best friends and they seemd curious and intrigued, surprised...but not really offended. It was awkward to do it but i didnt feel bad about telling them at the moment (it usually happend after i had a few beers of course :S....the only time i regreted telling some of them was when they met him...for some reason i felt on the spot or something...like if they (my friends) thought that i only desired him not loved him)....i guess u can understand the feeling. i am a bit on the paranoid side anyway so it could all have been me. i think it has all to do with self acceptance which its usually hard when you fall out of the norm...whatever that means.
happy weekend to u all!

[princess]

I can't tell my husband. I've thought about it for five years and I've kind of tried, but I can't. I just still feel to weird about it. I do feel like I'm lying, like I can only be truly open about it here, and that makes me feel horrible.