Awww...

[Ciao Bella]

during one of the very rare occassions my partner came shopping with me, we happened upon another wheeler who parked himself right outside a women's dress shop and what was he holding on to? A precious little baby ... must've been about a month old Beautiful sight ....

[Inigo Montoya]

Awwww.... there's something about a man and a baby.... awww

[Ciao Bella]

hey Clover, love the signature! LOL tooo funny ... mind if I borrow it for my facebook?

[Inigo Montoya]

Not at all... I can't remember where I stole it from in the first place. ;D

Were you the one who had the tagline about "Selfish is a stupid word"?

[Ciao Bella]

yep, that was moi - it was a line from one of Lily Brett's books

[Inigo Montoya]

Thank you! I couldn't remember!

[Dee Dee]

Ohh, a wheeler AND a baby - it doesn´t get any better than that :-)

I need to go and nurse my mothering instincts ...

[ρɦoeɳix]

Aaaw, what a beautiful picture that would make!

[Dee Dee]

Aug 9, 2009 0:05:05 GMT -5 Ciao Bella said:

yep, that was moi - it was a line from one of Lily Brett's books

Isabelle, I´ve been wondering about the meaning of "selfish is a stupid word" - what does it mean exactly (Well, I know what it means literally, but ...)

[Ciao Bella]

Hey DD I highly doubt if I'll have the guts to video the players ( I have a hard enough time trying to look nonchalant and concentrate on having conversations with some of the guys I know LOL) but I will keep the dev community in mind should I decide to make this a profit-making venture LOL

Now, What Lily Brett meant to say is that most of the time "selfish" has a really negative conotation, referring to a person who thinks of noone else but themselves. However, we all have to realize that to a very great extent, we do have to think of ourselves, in that we need to realize our own hopes and dreams because nobody else will. It means not feeling guilty for wanting to feel the pleasures that we are entitled to. It means taking care of ourselves and loving ourselves before we can and are able to even love somebody else. It means we have to be comfortable with us. Did any of that make sense? Someone once told I should have become a counselor instead of a bank officer hahahahahaha

[Dee Dee]

Dec 5, 2009 18:19:54 GMT -5 Ciao Bella said:

Hey DD I highly doubt if I'll have the guts to video the players ( I have a hard enough time trying to look nonchalant and concentrate on having conversations with some of the guys I know LOL) but I will keep the dev community in mind should I decide to make this a profit-making venture LOL

Now, What Lily Brett meant to say is that most of the time "selfish" has a really negative conotation, referring to a person who thinks of noone else but themselves. However, we all have to realize that to a very great extent, we do have to think of ourselves, in that we need to realize our own hopes and dreams because nobody else will. It means not feeling guilty for wanting to feel the pleasures that we are entitled to. It means taking care of ourselves and loving ourselves before we can and are able to even love somebody else. It means we have to be comfortable with us. Did any of that make sense? Someone once told I should have become a counselor instead of a bank officer hahahahahaha

That makes sense! I aim to be selfish and to think of others at the same time .

Isa, you could offer your bank clients some counselling on the side?

[Ciao Bella]

Trust me DD, sometimes I do feel like I counsel my clients hahahaha