annie
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Post by annie on May 10, 2010 16:31:42 GMT -5
Yes , and everyone of those posts were in defense of myself and only reactionary. I dare you to find one post i have ever made at any member unprovoked. And i said it was" mainly guys", so that also took out of context. But again, why take the time to respond if it irritates you so much.? Plenty of room elsewhere. And buddy... If you`re narcoleptic it didn`t impede your typing skills (to the other post) Do you double dog dare me? haha. I think you overreact a bit and take things out of context, as with your reply to 'nix's post above, which was not offensive at all and you got mega deffensive. I took the time to respond for a few reasons; I see all these incindiary posts everytime I look at the 10 most recent posts and it just leaves a bad taste in my mouth. I don't go seeking out your posts, and trust me I tried to ignore them for quite a while. However, I really felt a need to voice my opinion, you of all people I think would understand that(or are you the only one allowed to have an opinion?) I think this board has a little more significance to some people, especially devos and I am not a fan of pot stirrers. I think you really just need to simmer down and think before you go on the attack. Everything anyone writes is not a personal assault against you, and sometimes your responses (i.e. redneck, ignorant, and now implying homosexuality, which strikes me as a of bit homophobic move) are just not appropriate for the original "slight". I'm sure you must have something of value to contribute, I just haven't seen it yet. I hope you take this criticism as constructive, as that's how it's intended.
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Post by devnicity on May 10, 2010 17:40:20 GMT -5
Mercy, i am a new member and just posted my intro that i want you to read. Not that i am taking your side, i want to be unbiased as i can. I am pressed for time as i have to go work and just want to quickly tell you that i listened to your music and love it and you have a very sexy singing voice. I am usually SCI attracted but in your case, exception may be made. I just need to know one thing. Are you really in the Vancouver area? Because i live in PoCo, so we might be neighbours. I am sending you a myspace friend request but feel free to PM me and i hope to connect with you soon. And i was really liking your story, don`t stop. Damn, i`m really late for work! talk to you soon
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Post by mercy on May 10, 2010 18:39:31 GMT -5
Yes , and everyone of those posts were in defense of myself and only reactionary. I dare you to find one post i have ever made at any member unprovoked. And i said it was" mainly guys", so that also took out of context. But again, why take the time to respond if it irritates you so much.? Plenty of room elsewhere. And buddy... If you`re narcoleptic it didn`t impede your typing skills (to the other post) Do you double dog dare me? haha. I think you overreact a bit and take things out of context, as with your reply to 'nix's post above, which was not offensive at all and you got mega deffensive. I took the time to respond for a few reasons; I see all these incindiary posts everytime I look at the 10 most recent posts and it just leaves a bad taste in my mouth. I don't go seeking out your posts, and trust me I tried to ignore them for quite a while. However, I really felt a need to voice my opinion, you of all people I think would understand that(or are you the only one allowed to have an opinion?) I think this board has a little more significance to some people, especially devos and I am not a fan of pot stirrers. I think you really just need to simmer down and think before you go on the attack. Everything anyone writes is not a personal assault against you, and sometimes your responses (i.e. redneck, ignorant, and now implying homosexuality, which strikes me as a of bit homophobic move) are just not appropriate for the original "slight". I'm sure you must have something of value to contribute, I just haven't seen it yet. I hope you take this criticism as constructive, as that's how it's intended. Do you not think saying i am presumptive and predetermining my motives as to my psychology behind my words exactly the behavior you are calling me on? And take that in the most playful way, i am not trying to create a rift(in any nasty sense anyway) with you. I do know that members gender choice is not a secret, that is why i wrote boyfriend instead of girlfriend. I was going to say mother, but that was a bit much,even for me. And it was Mother`s Day yesterday, here in Canada anyway. I was trying to do something productive, i don`t know if you bothered reading the story i am trying to supply, but have now been side tracked on. The posts that you brought up were resolved at least a month ago and funny thing, the person i had the redneck debate with is the one who just posted in my defense. So obviously there is no bad blood between us. I see members being sarcastic and undermining each other all the time, mostly in a cajoling way, but they get heated at times too. So when i do that, respond to a post in a sarcastic way, for some reason it`s all of a sudden a big deal and i am `stirring the pot. Well the pot was brought to the table not by me. What can i say? You are entitled to your opinions and i actually put a high value on that, even though i don`t feel i am getting it in return (a generality, i`m not saying you). And in the end, i am not mad,upset or affected by the criticism. I actually am a bit amused. But it has been weighing on me a bit that some members are taking it to heart and getting more emotional over it than it needs be, considering the real problems that are out there. So thank you for the time you spent voicing your opinions, i really admire that you came with a thought out response and had insight to your side of the debate, even though i have to disagree with the observations. ....................................
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Post by mercy on May 10, 2010 18:49:48 GMT -5
Mercy, i am a new member and just posted my intro that i want you to read. Not that i am taking your side, i want to be unbiased as i can. I am pressed for time as i have to go work and just want to quickly tell you that i listened to your music and love it and you have a very sexy singing voice. I am usually SCI attracted but in your case, exception may be made. I just need to know one thing. Are you really in the Vancouver area? Because i live in PoCo, so we might be neighbours. I am sending you a myspace friend request but feel free to PM me and i hope to connect with you soon. And i was really liking your story, don`t stop. Damn, i`m really late for work! talk to you soon Well thank you from the bottom of my heart! I can tell you the timing is of the most immaculate and divine order If you are in PoCo we are very much in the same hood, as in we both live in the greater city region. Anyway, yes, feel free to PM me here and will accept your friend request and look forward to seeing you at myspace. ...................................................... Luv, Mercy
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Post by Lord Chatterley on May 10, 2010 19:04:05 GMT -5
Mercy, i am a new member and just posted my intro that i want you to read. Not that i am taking your side, i want to be unbiased as i can. I am pressed for time as i have to go work and just want to quickly tell you that i listened to your music and love it and you have a very sexy singing voice. I am usually SCI attracted but in your case, exception may be made. I just need to know one thing. Are you really in the Vancouver area? Because i live in PoCo, so we might be neighbours. I am sending you a myspace friend request but feel free to PM me and i hope to connect with you soon. And i was really liking your story, don`t stop. Damn, i`m really late for work! talk to you soon Well thank you from the bottom of my heart! I can tell you the timing is of the most immaculate and divine order If you are in PoCo we are very much in the same hood, as in we both live in the greater city region. Anyway, yes, feel free to PM me here and will accept your friend request and look forward to seeing you at myspace. ...................................................... Luv, Mercy
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Post by Ray T on May 11, 2010 1:14:44 GMT -5
ok where is a palm to face when you need one or 10
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