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Post by gmboy18 on Sept 16, 2010 5:05:36 GMT -5
I'm so new to devotees i don't think Ive met one yet. I'm a 26 year old T9 paraplegic from California, when ever i learned the term devotees it was on a dating site for disables and ever since Ive been wanting to learn more about it. I'm glad i finally found this site because before this all i found was sites that focus on women. so the questions is how would i meet any devotees or tips and pointers on the subject because I'm lost.  |
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Post by Inigo Montoya on Sept 16, 2010 7:07:20 GMT -5
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Post by Deleted on Sept 16, 2010 11:06:57 GMT -5
I read this on here all the time, how to approach a wheeler. The same way you would approach any other guy. Just start a conversation, maybe make an observation about something going on or something as simple as asking the time. Then linger enough to keep a conversation. We don't bite. You're going to strike out sometimes, we all do, but that's just how it is with everyone.
I enjoy talking to people. If I didn't, I wouldn't be out in public or at a social gathering.
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Post by devogirl on Sept 16, 2010 19:45:28 GMT -5
Well if you are curious about us you have come to the right place. Look around, read the posts, read the main website. But meeting a devotee has nothing to do with being new to the concept, there just aren't that many of us in the world, so you're unlikely to run into one at random. The odds are slightly higher at disabled sporting events and such, and higher still among nurses, PTs and other health workers, but chances are they will keep it a secret. And we're not your only chance at finding a girlfriend, you know. Among most of the guys here, current or past relationships are/were not with devs.
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Post by gmboy18 on Sept 17, 2010 0:03:34 GMT -5
Thank you, for the most part im just curious because it is still hard to comprehend that someone might be interested for my disability. in a way its kinda flattering. but for serious relationships i think im better off with girls i already know, so far it has worked just fine for me. but the thought of devs still catches my attention, just like most guys the thought of turning someone on is arousing. devogirl now that you mention it PT and nurses have been super nice and a bit flirty, but for the most part i didnt think to much about it since im super flirty too. |
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Post by Dee Dee on Sept 19, 2010 15:09:00 GMT -5
Welcome. Cute avatar . |
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Post by gmboy18 on Sept 21, 2010 1:37:54 GMT -5
thank you devodiva88 the minute i saw this avatar i loved it.
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Post by paraxdreamer on Oct 21, 2010 20:22:40 GMT -5
Thank you, for the most part im just curious because it is still hard to comprehend that someone might be interested for my disability. in a way its kinda flattering. but for serious relationships i think im better off with girls i already know, so far it has worked just fine for me. but the thought of devs still catches my attention, just like most guys the thought of turning someone on is arousing. devogirl now that you mention it PT and nurses have been super nice and a bit flirty, but for the most part i didnt think to much about it since im super flirty too. Hey welcome everyones right! Here's the best place to learn and ask questions were honest!  also could you explain or go into more detail .. " in a way its kinda flattering. but for serious relationships i think im better off with girls i already know" why's do u think that is? |
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Post by gmboy18 on Oct 21, 2010 23:02:22 GMT -5
Thank you, for the most part im just curious because it is still hard to comprehend that someone might be interested for my disability. in a way its kinda flattering. but for serious relationships i think im better off with girls i already know, so far it has worked just fine for me. but the thought of devs still catches my attention, just like most guys the thought of turning someone on is arousing. devogirl now that you mention it PT and nurses have been super nice and a bit flirty, but for the most part i didnt think to much about it since im super flirty too. Hey welcome everyones right! Here's the best place to learn and ask questions were honest! also could you explain or go into more detail .. " in a way its kinda flattering. but for serious relationships i think im better off with girls i already know" why's do u think that is? its flattering because it turns me on, the thought of arousing anyone, even if its just for my chair............ i guess we all have our little sexual triggers. i think i'm better off with girls i already know because of the distance factor. devs or not women are women, i dont think it makes a difference in the end as long as we both understand and care about each other. |
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Post by paraxdreamer on Oct 31, 2010 10:13:28 GMT -5
I think you might learn that even though the dev nature means youir chair is the initial attraction! But if smeone has a goood persnalIty etc then the atraction grows stronger. Isn't that the bases of any relationship? You are atracted to how they look first then you get to know them as a person |
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Post by charlietuna83 on Nov 19, 2010 4:12:08 GMT -5
 . I think I love you
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Post by BA on Nov 21, 2010 8:50:03 GMT -5
Alas, Charlietuna, once you see that the name has gone "white", it means he is no longer a registered member. Remember: "if the name is yellow, get that fellow".
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Post by E on Nov 21, 2010 21:09:20 GMT -5
Alas, Charlietuna, once you see that the name has gone "white", it means he is no longer a registered member. Remember: "if the name is yellow, get that fellow". Love this. |
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Post by jordsbaby on Nov 21, 2010 21:17:44 GMT -5
Alas, Charlietuna, once you see that the name has gone "white", it means he is no longer a registered member. Remember: "if the name is yellow, get that fellow". Seconded  Love this. |
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Post by lavly on Dec 21, 2010 19:02:17 GMT -5
Alas, Charlietuna, once you see that the name has gone "white", it means he is no longer a registered member. Remember: "if the name is yellow, get that fellow". deaddddddddddddddddd lolllllllllllllllllllllllllllll |
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also could you explain or go into more detail .. " in a way its kinda flattering. but for serious relationships i think im better off with girls i already know" why's do u think that is? 
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