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Post by gmboy18 on Sept 28, 2010 0:21:57 GMT -5
I've asked this question to a few girls and i think the question makes them uncomfortable, so im posting it on here.
I always like to see things from my point of view. for example how some guys find big breast super attractive or how some women like muscular guys. I'm assuming this applies to devs too or am i wrong to think this? so, other than the disabilities it self, what other features do you ladies find attractive? and im not talking about personality cause thats a given, cause even someone that looks like brad pitt can seem unattractive if he has a horrible personality......
just thought i ask here to see if i could get a straight answer and i hope im not out of line with this question......
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Post by gmboy18 on Sept 28, 2010 0:59:55 GMT -5
thank you... yea thats kinda what i was asking, would legs, hands and other body parts do to paralysis that someone might fiind attractive.
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Post by Ath on Sept 28, 2010 1:03:49 GMT -5
I dont think he was asking for the dark side he was comparing it to liking big breasts?
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Post by devine on Sept 28, 2010 1:09:26 GMT -5
I dont think he was asking for the dark side he was comparing it to liking big breasts? Ath, that's not what my devness is about to me. To me it's not that simple and I just can't reduce it to things like big boobs or blonde hair. It just doesn't work out that way. I remember tons of threads about body features, movements and sounds tho. |
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Post by gmboy18 on Sept 28, 2010 1:10:17 GMT -5
its not even about calling anyone out, just trying to find out how a dev would find me attractive. i think the more i know the better a potential relationship with a dev could be. just how you ladies sometimes know more about us than we do about ourselves.
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Post by gmboy18 on Sept 28, 2010 1:24:37 GMT -5
its ok, im not asking anyone to make me feel good. That's what strippers are for...... thats why im asking here and not in person. because most likely we will never meet and I really don't care if I'm involved with a dev or not. But I have considered it.
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Post by BA on Sept 28, 2010 5:40:43 GMT -5
I think gmboy has asked a very valid question, really. What anyone chooses to answer is entirely up to them.
I have tended to do lots of deleting and re-wording myself lately.
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Post by coffeeftw on Sept 28, 2010 6:04:06 GMT -5
Sorry if I sound rude, but it's a dev board and not a wheeler-feel-good-board. This should be in an FAQ. I almost feel like I've invaded and maybe even caused gals to pull back from a site that is about them, not about me. Let wheelers know to read more, post less. lol kidding, but not really. |
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Post by gmboy18 on Sept 28, 2010 6:39:38 GMT -5
Thank you BA, I saw it as a simple question, I'm not here trying to offend anyone or invading Anyones space, I don't see how talking about having sex in a wheelchair is ok and some how this is taboo. I think everything works both ways, if someone asks me a question I will answer it but if I find it offensive I will leave it alone. I was simply comparing and I don't see why we shouldn't when it relates to the board. But do apologize and I did state, to let me know if I was out of line for asking......... I guess I was...... idk
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Post by E on Sept 28, 2010 8:06:05 GMT -5
Seems to me that lately wheelers seem to be calling devs out if they share what they're really into (talking about the darker side of the devness). That's why I'm gonna say: I like muscular guys, hung as hell of course. See, I'm so normal. Actually, in the other thread, besides one guy who has seem to have retracted/altered his opinion, the response to certain dev likes has been pretty decent. No real bashing or shock, per se. I don't think we're ever going to completely get past the "it's like enjoying big boobs" thing, though. I'm trying to accept that. |
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Post by Inigo Montoya on Sept 28, 2010 8:12:46 GMT -5
Seems to me that lately wheelers seem to be calling devs out if they share what they're really into (talking about the darker side of the devness). That's why I'm gonna say: I like muscular guys, hung as hell of course. See, I'm so normal. Actually, in the other thread, besides one guy who has seem to have retracted/altered his opinion, the response to certain dev likes has been pretty decent. No real bashing or shock, per se. I don't think we're ever going to completely get past the "it's like enjoying big boobs" thing, though. I'm trying to accept that. Do you like big boobs? 0.0 |
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Post by Inigo Montoya on Sept 28, 2010 8:23:42 GMT -5
Sorry if I sound rude, but it's a dev board and not a wheeler-feel-good-board. This should be in an FAQ. I almost feel like I've invaded and maybe even caused gals to pull back from a site that is about them, not about me. Let wheelers know to read more, post less. lol kidding, but not really. MWAH! It kinda is... not stated that plainly... over in the "Board Guidelines: New Members Please Read!" And you haven't... well, not me, I can't speak for anyone else, like BA I'm in a delete and modify phase. But you still get a big ole MWAH! for even caring.  gmboy, Let's see... I like broad chests and I have a thing for hands. Can't really explain. (Do other people spend as much time trying to figure out and justify/explain why or how they're attracted to things?) As far as I can tell, I have a tendency to like men who are out of my league physically... because like alluringpariah was saying somewhere (I quoted, posted, then deleted  ) I can't seem to attract ppl that I'm attracted to. Pure suckage. =/ |
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Post by Cake on Sept 28, 2010 8:34:48 GMT -5
I don't think we're ever going to completely get past the "it's like enjoying big boobs" thing, though. I'm trying to accept that. Yeah... But: Why? Oh why?? I'm trying to accept it, too, but I honestly don't get why everyone finds it so hard to see why it's not the same! Why is it that only about four people on this board can see that? Well, I guess four is better than none |
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Post by gmboy18 on Sept 28, 2010 8:50:25 GMT -5
thank you Inigo Montoya.... when i asked the question, thats all i was expecting simple answers. the answers i was expecting were, big arms, or thin guys, legs, hands, idk.... i guess thats why i asked. but i rather ask here where we can be anonymous, instead of ruining a potential relationship with a stupid question.
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Post by Inigo Montoya on Sept 28, 2010 8:58:13 GMT -5
I forgot to add that I like to watch a quad's hands work... which doesn't make any sense...
And gmboy... if the relationship honestly has potential a stupid question shouldn't ruin it.
Sometimes, when I'm still feeling it's possible for me, I take great comfort in something I read, "If it's mean to be nothing you can do will fuck it up. If it's not meant to be nothing you can do will fix it." (That's paraphrased because I'm too lazy to get up and go get the book...)
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) I can't seem to attract ppl that I'm attracted to. Pure suckage. =/