ok i just want to vent for a lil bit

[lavly]

that stuff ruth had posted about the dick head who is writting to her really got to me.

im so over wheelers thinking they have the moral highground and its ok to be rude to us or just be ignoret in the way they speak to devs just cos they know we are devs.

ummm show me a person with out there falts. its not like there angels.

and you know im usaly the one thats like oh being a dev is soo not cool and i have so much gult about it" .. yet i have to say ... when it come to juging scummy ... a wheeler that thinks its ok to throw the dev stuff in my face is way higher on the bad shit to do list , then me being a dev. ( i know that makes no sence but in my head its cristal clear).

we are all trying to be better ppl so that we can be happy. the point of life is to look for happeness.. if there is something wrong with me then i think its the kinder thing to do if you where a wheeler is to help me work that out ... not to make me feel shit about it. how the fuck is that going to help anyone.

sorry ... just need a rant

cheers

[dentelle]

Huggs Lavly

I was creeped out by that person who wrote to Ruth also. Ewww. He was on her FB...

Rob would use his disability to get a lot of things when he thought it would work. But his friends and I didn't pay attention to him.

[ruthmadison]

I'm actually not sure that it's a guy... I really don't know. It is someone who has been following my posts and looking at my facebook, so yeah, it is pretty creepy. What bothers me a lot is the person working hard to associate devness with rape or molestation. Even if I did experience something like that (and no one knows that I did), certainly not all devs have.

[dentelle]

I hope the person just goes away and doesn't bother you again Ruth.

I've been like I have been for forever. I can remember playing with my Barbie dolls and house in Dev situations. My friends never said anything to me..... I have never been molested, raped or anything. Still, I find myself a Dev. I've never talked to anyone about it, I just figured it was just a part of me.

[BA]

Lava, I agree. It's a shameless and cowardly approach this person has taken. It is just another reason why I feel the need to censor myself in a place I once felt pretty safe in. Why would anyone need to take such a low road?