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Post by crb1979 on Aug 16, 2011 15:53:15 GMT -5
I posted on fetlife a few weeks back about my difficulty finding female devotees. I have enough trouble talking to women etc, so why shouldn't I use my disabilities where I have an advantage. So I was referred here.
I see most here seem to be paralyzed or other forms of disability so I dunno how many amputees are actually on this board.
Anyhoo, a little about myself. On April 19th, 1990 I was severely burned in an explosion when I was 10 years old. I received 3rd degree burns to 98% of my body and amputations below knee and below elbow. I use a power chair for mobility and prosthetic hooks for my hands. I have been single for the past 16 years and I still very much would like to start a family, but first things first. Lol dont wanna scare anyone away..
I'm a very positive person despite all I've been through. I do believe I'm a stronger person because of it and I try to inspire others to enjoy life, appreciate what they have, and just keep the faith.
I hope to make friends on here and welcome any questions anyone may have..
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Post by Dee Dee on Aug 16, 2011 16:15:45 GMT -5
Hi and welcome!
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Post by Inigo Montoya on Aug 16, 2011 17:26:55 GMT -5
Welcome  Best of luck finding what you want. |
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Post by BA on Aug 16, 2011 19:27:00 GMT -5
Welcome crb. I think you will find good company here.
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Post by faith on Aug 16, 2011 19:50:44 GMT -5
Good to have you here.
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Post by devogirl on Aug 16, 2011 21:35:06 GMT -5
Welcome to the board. Despite the name, we welcome guys with any kind of physical disability, and you are definitely not the only amputee here.
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Post by alibara1 on Aug 17, 2011 8:53:05 GMT -5
WElcome from me too CRB, enjoy PD!! huggs Ali
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Post by Dee Dee on Aug 17, 2011 10:55:18 GMT -5
Hi crb! Is that lab in your picture a service dog? I was going to ask the same question, he or she looks like a service dog with the jacket service dogs usually are wearing. Such a cute dog . And is the guy your brother? |
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Post by crb1979 on Aug 18, 2011 15:43:44 GMT -5
Yes that's my service dog from CCI. Canine companions for independence. A somewhat older picture though, it's from 2004. And yes that's my younger brother. He was burned also. I must add that my dog Jaycee passed away on April 9th.
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Post by Dee Dee on Aug 18, 2011 17:58:03 GMT -5
I am sorry about the dog but hopefully you will get a new one one day . How does he help you in daily life? |
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Post by crb1979 on Aug 18, 2011 18:23:31 GMT -5
For me my dog helped mostly with dropped items. But they can do many things. Open doors, turn lights off/on, pick things up, retrieve items, carry items, etc.
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Post by Dee Dee on Aug 18, 2011 18:33:31 GMT -5
That´s amazing. How does one get a canine helper? Are they expensive? Do you regard him mostly as a service dog or is he a friend too? P.S.: I love dogs . |
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Post by dentelle on Aug 18, 2011 19:55:39 GMT -5
Welcome to the board |
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Post by Dee Dee on Aug 19, 2011 9:58:44 GMT -5
DD there area a couple of places across the country that train these does. I got mine from NEADS.org here in Massachusetts. The price I had to raise for my dog was $9500. Most of that comes from corporation and private donations. To get a dog you need to sign up with a group. They will meet with you and find out what your needs are and how active you are in your day to day life. Then with NEADS.org you go on a waiting list until they match you with a dog with a personality that will be compatible with you. With my new dog I was on the wait list for 10 months. It can be longer but people who had a service dog before typically get bumped up a little bit sooner then first timers. In my case we spend 24/7 together, she depends on me for her food, play time, keeping her fit and I depend on her for helping pick up things. Fetching the phone or a blanket while I am doing dialysis. There is also the emotional element. She is like a best friend. I find myself always talking to her, or we go out exploring new places (like the zoo, or going in to the city) So for me I would have to say my service dog is more of a friend then a service animal. A team mate is the best way to put it I guess. Thank you so much for explaining mrbb - give her a hug from me |
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