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Post by Chan on Jan 26, 2006 14:02:02 GMT -5
I know. I was just f*cking with you.
But on a more serious note, yes, it would be fun for -E- to be able to just pick me up and toss me around a bit. Whether it was in a sexual act or not. It makes a girl feel good for a guy to pick her up as if she's nothing, or it does for me at least. I like for my guys to be a little dominating too. -E- being able to easily lift me and pin me down in the heat of the moment would not be a turn off...
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Post by cer221 on Jan 26, 2006 14:19:53 GMT -5
I miss being able to pick up a lady, tear her clothes off, bend her over and more ;D O well at least I could say I did it, but those were the good old days.
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Post by mrjefffurz on Jan 26, 2006 14:35:59 GMT -5
the good ol' days....i actually had a woman lying on her back waiting for me to jump on...ans she was pretty aware of my limitations....but i have always had a little domination streak when called upon,,,and it does bother me that my role is more pasive than i wish...maybe someday,,soon i hope,,i can have a more sustained relationship so she & i can have the time to experiment,,,discover what i REALLY can do,,,,the good ol' days...woof
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Post by paradox on Jan 26, 2006 14:42:22 GMT -5
And wouldn't you miss the occasional time when your guy throws you on the bed, rips off your clothes, and takes you from behind? Wouldn't they be made for by the times I wheeled up behind you, pulled you back onto my knee, kissed your neck and fondled your breasts. Turned you round on my knees and undressed you, kissed you and kissed your nipples and breasts, put my finger on your G spot and my thumb on your clit and made you orgasm again and again. And then didn't even complain about the wet patch on my pants?  Or maybe not? Horses for courses Paradox |
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Post by BA on Jan 26, 2006 15:47:43 GMT -5
Patel, there are lots of ways to enjoy sex with a wheeler. Yes, sometimes the spontaneity can't be there in the same way as before. I think I might miss the "he-man/cave-man" toss about on the bed, floor, etc. or the "stand me up against the wall and do me" thang. However, at my ripe age, part of me doesn't even have the energy for that sort of stuff. I'm more of the "let's do tantra" speed. A nice over-the-lap spank is good for variety and since you guys are often at ass level, a little bite on the butt would be sweet too. Hmmm, just thinking about this is making me all horny.
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Post by Needles on Jan 26, 2006 22:56:37 GMT -5
Woohoo spanking!!! ;D
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Post by Pisti on Jan 27, 2006 0:47:09 GMT -5
Well... If I would have to choose between the above discribed propositions I'd go for that described by paradox... Even with guys who actually would be able to do the throw on the bed,... version.
Maybe I'm old fashioned or just plain boring, but I'm rather into tenderness than pain and spanking and cruelty. The kinkyest torture I ever experienced with a guy has been me tickeling him (and first if all inside his nose) with my hair - over and over again, for hours...
If someone would tear off my or his clothes the first reaction would be to check them if they are OK - and that surely kills the hornyness...
And gents, if you cannot turn me around on your knees just let me know - I can do it by myself - for the humble prize of some more kisses and caresses...
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Post by devogirl on Jan 27, 2006 1:59:35 GMT -5
I have never felt like sex with an SCI guy was limited or somehow lacking something, probably because I was awash in a haze of devo hormones which disengaged my rational thinking. Watching the guy move around in the bed is a huge turn on, so I don't ever think of it as a negative. There are a lot of positions possible if you use your imagination, rough sex is also possible. I have been tossed around by a quad, and we used to wrestle all the time ;D On our first date he grabbed me around the knees and pulled me onto his lap. You don't need a lot of strength if you knock the girl off balance.
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Post by Leilia on Jan 27, 2006 2:21:03 GMT -5
sorry thats * not* visa versa
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Post by devogirl on Jan 27, 2006 2:42:50 GMT -5
It is nice that it's not ever a quickie, where the guy shoots his load, rolls over, and goes to sleep. In fact I have sometimes wondered, if the guy doesn't come, how do you know when you are done? When you reach a point of total exhaustion?
But unlike Leilia I haven't felt like the sex was all about me, I think I focus more on the guy when I have to really be creative and experiment to find out what works for him. Also I have found the reactions I get from the guy once I have found those right moves are way more intense than from an AB guy. But maybe that's just my devo imagination.
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Post by wheelie37 on Jan 27, 2006 5:52:44 GMT -5
I like the occasional bondage and like too be dominated and would love women to do the cave man thing on me  I prefer gentle sex though, gently caressing and kissing from kneck too thighs and back again. Yes we can have intercourse too but i have found a lot of women prefer someone who spends time on them , using their fingers and mouth  |
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Post by dolly on Jan 28, 2006 19:19:07 GMT -5
i think if it's the right person the chemistry and creativity makes up for any limitations.
and the "dev thrill" compensates for any other type of activity that may be somewhat missing.
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Post by bry on Jan 30, 2006 22:52:59 GMT -5
Being with the first and only girl post injury, one of my concerns, was not being able to pick her up, throw her on the bed and go at it. If that's what she liked. Which I think at times a women wants that from her man, but I found out during cunninglus, that I was able to grab her around the thigh and pull her toward me, it satisfied her thirst of being "taken".
Sponaneity, is a big issue post SCI.
How do you Devo's deal with that.
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Post by dibisai on Jan 30, 2006 23:55:47 GMT -5
 All those position and immobility issues are quickly undermined by SCI's wonderful 'oral' abilities. ;D No but seriously... There's always the uneasyness of the first time dis or not.
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Post by wheelie37 on Jan 31, 2006 4:38:35 GMT -5
the condom used to connect the leg bag too your penis can double as a normal condom as in the leg bag tube can be folded next too the penis and can be rode that way so good for spontonaity and also adds a bit of thickness |
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I prefer gentle sex though, gently caressing and kissing from kneck too thighs and back again. Yes we can have intercourse too but i have found a lot of women prefer someone who spends time on them , using their fingers and mouth 
All those position and immobility issues are quickly undermined by SCI's wonderful 'oral' abilities. ;D