Post by girluwant on Dec 27, 2011 17:11:23 GMT -5
Hi all,
I don't know if this is the right place to post this, but I want to introduce myself, even though I'm not looking for a hook-up. I am married to an AB male, who I'm perfectly happy with, but I just discovered this attraction I've always had to wheelers has a name and that there are others like me.
Basically, I'm interested in making friends who understand where I'm coming from. And for all you wheelers out there lurking, wondering what the whole dev thing is about, I just want to let you know that my parents were normal, I grew up in a small town with a loving family who weren't weirdos, and I've had this attraction to disabled men ever since I can remember, just like a lot of other girls I've read about on here. I was born with it, I guess, because I can't pinpoint what might have caused it.
I am smart, attractive, and self-confident, and I'm not someone who you should ridicule or scorn.
I don't get off on seeing you struggle or seeing you in pain, and if there were any way in the world I could make it go away for you, I would do it in a heartbeat. I do, however, find you physically attractive, and it's the man I find attractive, not the chair. I don't want to have sex with an empty wheelchair (or lick its footplate, as I read in one of the books recommended on here--ew!).
I would never be attracted to a guy solely because of his chair. He would have to have a great sense of humor, be intelligent, open-minded, and have things in common with me, just like any other relationship, and, if by some miracle, he were someday cured, I would still love him as an AB person.
I'm not into the domination/submission thing. I don't want to feel superior over a guy, nor do I want to be somebody's nurse, for that matter. The wheelers I find attractive are the ones who are self-actualized and don't feel sorry for themselves, who have moved on with their lives and live it to the fullest. Your strength of character is what attracts me, and I find it makes you more of a man than most AB guys (my hubby excepted, of course).
I am posting this because, from what I've seen so far, there are some really interesting, funny people on here, and I can't reply to anything unless I join, so here I am!
And, in case any of you guys are wondering, I find all wheelers attractive--quads, paras, whatever. You are all gorgeous in my book.
I don't know if this is the right place to post this, but I want to introduce myself, even though I'm not looking for a hook-up. I am married to an AB male, who I'm perfectly happy with, but I just discovered this attraction I've always had to wheelers has a name and that there are others like me.
Basically, I'm interested in making friends who understand where I'm coming from. And for all you wheelers out there lurking, wondering what the whole dev thing is about, I just want to let you know that my parents were normal, I grew up in a small town with a loving family who weren't weirdos, and I've had this attraction to disabled men ever since I can remember, just like a lot of other girls I've read about on here. I was born with it, I guess, because I can't pinpoint what might have caused it.
I am smart, attractive, and self-confident, and I'm not someone who you should ridicule or scorn.
I don't get off on seeing you struggle or seeing you in pain, and if there were any way in the world I could make it go away for you, I would do it in a heartbeat. I do, however, find you physically attractive, and it's the man I find attractive, not the chair. I don't want to have sex with an empty wheelchair (or lick its footplate, as I read in one of the books recommended on here--ew!).
I would never be attracted to a guy solely because of his chair. He would have to have a great sense of humor, be intelligent, open-minded, and have things in common with me, just like any other relationship, and, if by some miracle, he were someday cured, I would still love him as an AB person.
I'm not into the domination/submission thing. I don't want to feel superior over a guy, nor do I want to be somebody's nurse, for that matter. The wheelers I find attractive are the ones who are self-actualized and don't feel sorry for themselves, who have moved on with their lives and live it to the fullest. Your strength of character is what attracts me, and I find it makes you more of a man than most AB guys (my hubby excepted, of course).
I am posting this because, from what I've seen so far, there are some really interesting, funny people on here, and I can't reply to anything unless I join, so here I am!
And, in case any of you guys are wondering, I find all wheelers attractive--quads, paras, whatever. You are all gorgeous in my book.