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Post by Max on Jun 25, 2012 12:34:41 GMT -5
What?? Surely I haven't startled you with my confession? And to think I've even censored myself *sigh* Still gotta learn a lot here
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Post by Emma on Jun 25, 2012 13:00:29 GMT -5
Your post was fine Max. Don't worry about looknohands. So I'm a little confused are you both disabled and occasionally attracted to guys with disabilities?
Regardless welcome.
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Post by Max on Jun 25, 2012 13:31:50 GMT -5
Your post was fine Max. Don't worry about looknohands. So I'm a little confused are you both disabled and occasionally attracted to guys with disabilities? Regardless welcome. We'd been friends for a long time, but didn't know about eachothers interests. At one point I blurted out to him that I very possibly might be attracted to guys. He then admitted the same. Both surprised but also interested, but so far without any experience. We didn't really were in love or anything, but the interest was sparked. Somehow one of us made the suggestion that we might try something to see if we were indeed interested in guys. After some chatting and talking we agreed to experiment. And so it happened. We tried things, I came to the conclusion I indeed fancied guys, he decided he did like the occasional physical contact, but preferred girls otherwise. But, since we're both guys with urges, and single, we'd been having fun every once in a while. He has nothing special with guys w disabilities, just with me because we're good friends and trust eachother. I do not consider myself a 100% dev but I do like to have fun with my friend, and the disability is just an extra. It's familiar because we both have cp, but it's sometimes not so handy because of the physical limitations. We take that for granted though .
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Post by Dee Dee on Jun 25, 2012 15:27:15 GMT -5
Max, thank you for sharing your nice story with us One thing you should know about this place is that we tend to tease each other a little from time to time - so now you are just part of the gang!
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Post by Max on Jun 26, 2012 1:27:16 GMT -5
Max, thank you for sharing your nice story with us One thing you should know about this place is that we tend to tease each other a little from time to time - so now you are just part of the gang! That's it. *backspaces link to private collection* How dare you all, picking on the guy in the wheelchair... On a different note: bring it on Happy to share, it's nice to be able to share these kind of stories with people who can appreciate the subject. If there's anyone who wants to ask more, eithere public or in pm, be my guest.
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Post by Pisti on Jun 26, 2012 5:05:15 GMT -5
Welcome, neighbor! Enjoy your stay on this board.
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Post by Max on Jun 26, 2012 12:15:55 GMT -5
By now I feel very welcome here, thank you very much everybody . I've perused the board as much as I could, but I haven't found specifics about devs that are attrected to a guy with cp. Are there users on this board, either straight or gay, that prefer cp over para? Not that I'm looking for a date, but I am intersted in talking about it, picking each others brains, sharing thoughts. On a totally different note: Blue!
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Post by Ximena on Jun 26, 2012 13:03:06 GMT -5
There are devs of all types on the board, not just those attracted to paras . And glad you're feeling welcome already !
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Post by Dee Dee on Jun 26, 2012 15:55:58 GMT -5
Max, thank you for sharing your nice story with us One thing you should know about this place is that we tend to tease each other a little from time to time - so now you are just part of the gang! That's it. *backspaces link to private collection* How dare you all, picking on the guy in the wheelchair... On a different note: bring it on Happy to share, it's nice to be able to share these kind of stories with people who can appreciate the subject. If there's anyone who wants to ask more, eithere public or in pm, be my guest. You can always send that link to me in a PM And hey! No special treatment just because you are in a wheelchair - so you get to be picked on just as much ;D Regarding your question; yes, I could date someone with cp. Also inclined toward paras and quads
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Post by Max on Jun 27, 2012 9:08:37 GMT -5
That's it. *backspaces link to private collection* How dare you all, picking on the guy in the wheelchair... On a different note: bring it on Happy to share, it's nice to be able to share these kind of stories with people who can appreciate the subject. If there's anyone who wants to ask more, eithere public or in pm, be my guest. You can always send that link to me in a PM And hey! No special treatment just because you are in a wheelchair - so you get to be picked on just as much ;D Regarding your question; yes, I could date someone with cp. Also inclined toward paras and quads Let's keep that video mythical, shall we? Maybe it exists, maybe it doesn't... ;D
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Post by gaydev on Jun 27, 2012 10:36:21 GMT -5
I'm attracted to and have dated men with many disabilities including paras, amputees and polio. Haven't dated any men with CP but have seen many that I certainly would be interested in checking out if they were available and interested.
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Post by Deleted on Jun 27, 2012 10:48:07 GMT -5
Hello and welcome Max. I'm European also, I think we are a growing posse. Just found your post and it is a bit mind boggling. A wheeler and a dev all in one package (I know not 100% dev but its a start). I dated a guy with CP. It wasn't very servere his hand was affected and a leg so he walked with a limp. He wasn't at all comfortable in himself and hid it as much as he could. He was very imature as he was a fair bit younger than me. 6 years or so. It wasn't really a "relationship" as such just fun between the sheets. I burnt all the videos. I really hope that you do write a story as it sounds like you have some great material. I am certainly intrigued with your relationship with your friend and how that all came about. Wacky is good
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Post by Max on Jun 27, 2012 13:11:42 GMT -5
Hi Tabby. I'm an interesting case, I know, i confuse myself too . As far as being a (partial) dev, I really don't know yet. The whole devotee thing is fairly new to me, even though I've been roaming the net for ages. This website and board came across my path in the search of fiction/stories, and I stayed and read. A lot. The opinion I had about devotees has changed quite a bit, the people here, and their background and motivations made the whole thing so much more approachable. After that, I thought about my own experiences, and I've certainly asked myself if I considered myself a dev or not. Why did I have the experiences I had? The disability-part is familiar and feels safe, so thats a plus. Also, the feeling of not being able to live up to expectations ( either theirs or your own) is not nearly as great as with an AB. I would have to pick the brain of a dev here to get more input for my own evaluation, but at this stage I would consider myself maybe 10-15% dev, and > 80% just gay and wanting intimacy. Either way, I think I can enjoy myself here, in whichever role that may be. Regarding writing a story...well, that may take a while. English isn't my native language, so I might have to write it in Dutch first and then translate it, proofread it, edit it and only thén publish it. So far I've only written very short stories that were of a somewhat explicit nature, and I'm not sure this board is the place for that. Also, I'd need to get some more input about the dev-side of a story. I only know the other part, and it'd be nice to put some dev-experience in it too, for you all to enjoy. Last but not least, I have to come up with a story. Of course I can take my own experiences, but I don't want it to be an autobiography (and it needs to be more than just a description of funky stuff).
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Post by Deleted on Jun 27, 2012 14:14:14 GMT -5
80% just gay and wanting intimacy. Oh Max, Max, Max, you are such an inigma
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Post by Max on Jun 27, 2012 14:23:40 GMT -5
80% just gay and wanting intimacy. Oh Max, Max, Max, you are such an inigma Oh shoo...you're making me blush Reading back my previous post made me confuse myself...uhh...
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