gay guy who's back again

[newmn]

I signed up on here back in 2009 and then forgot all about this site....not sure why, but I'm back to see where things lead.

For as long as I can remember, I've always found guys with a disability more interesting...not sure why, but it just feels like a closer connection for me. I've made some great connections and the affirmation I've received from my disabled friends that my feelings and intentions are perfectly normal and acceptable to them has made me feel better about myself. I truly am a good guy....or so I've been told! Just wanted to introduce myself here and see where it leads....one can never have too many friends after all.

[Max]

Welcome (back) !

[dolly]

Jan 17, 2013 13:55:54 GMT -5 newmn said:

I signed up on here back in 2009 and then forgot all about this site....not sure why, but I'm back to see where things lead.

For as long as I can remember, I've always found guys with a disability more interesting...not sure why, but it just feels like a closer connection for me. I've made some great connections and[orange] the affirmation I've received from my disabled friends that my feelings and intentions are perfectly normal and acceptable to them has made me feel better about myself.[/orange] I truly am a good guy....or so I've been told! Just wanted to introduce myself here and see where it leads....one can never have too many friends after all.

this always makes me happy to hear.


welcome back. hopefully you'll stick around and get involved in some of the discussions here.

[newmn]

Thanks Dolly, I will.

Now if we could just get some of the other guys to stick around too. Seems they leave a post or two and then they're gone. I think BA may be right when she says it's more of a guy thing to "get to the point" and try and get some sort of one to one convo going. Most disabled gay men I meet have had very negative experiences when it comes to devotees because too many of them get to the point and don't take the time to know them beyond their disability.

And although I don't see signs of it happening on the message board, there's always the fear of making the disabled straight guys uncomfortable just having us around.

[Deleted]

Welcome back and hope you enjoy being back!