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Post by Pony on Sept 28, 2006 15:58:06 GMT -5
i DEFINITELY don't like being on the sub side, but have played dom many times...not in the hurting, degrading way, just in control of the situation, or the girl's feelings. It takes total trust on the girl's part, and the dom, or guy, has to win that. i've never considered it BDSM, not that extreme, but i guess there's a very hot excitment when a girl surrenders, and she can't help how turned on she gets with me guiding her to areas she might not go with other dudes, or by herself. I love the idea of breaking down the girl's walls, making her feel things she doesn't get with others dudes. It takes patience, finding the buttons, and learning how to push em. Girls are complicated, but when the wall comes down - WATCH OUT!! I hate the idea of dom-girl over sub-guy...ugh!!
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Post by Pony on Sept 29, 2006 15:00:20 GMT -5
...i just wanna cast a spell over them and make em do things they'll feel terribly guilty about later!! hehe
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Post by devogirl on Sept 29, 2006 16:36:00 GMT -5
I hate the idea of dom-girl over sub-guy...ugh!! Ha ha ha, guess we were never meant to be, ha ha ha.
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Post by mrjefffurz on Sept 29, 2006 17:04:58 GMT -5
i would find being submissive a difficult leap unless my trust level w/ the woman had become major league,,,the simple logistics of cripsex, in my case, takes me way less in contro; than i want to be,,,altho i find aggressiveness in a woman very much a turn on,,,
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Post by BA on Sept 29, 2006 21:52:17 GMT -5
I like playing it both ways. A nice elk-hide leather flogger and my butt work nicely together. I am not heavily into BDSM, but have a friend who is a pro-domme and I do enjoy hearing about some of her exploits. I happen to like strong men.
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Post by E on Sept 30, 2006 10:09:59 GMT -5
I happen to like strong men. That's because men are meant to be strong. Otherwise, he's not a man. He just has a penis.
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Post by vivi on Sept 30, 2006 14:33:25 GMT -5
I have found out I enjoy BDSM too... I had cyber sex/camming with several guys over the summer and loved ii when they told me what to do.. I ended up learning a lot about myself and what I enjoy and what I don`t. I met a guy recently and we agreed to be f*uckbuddies, but sex is BORING!!! Turns out the guy is not as kinky as I wished. Pervy me even brought my toys the last time and he wasn´t even interested in them... So, I think he will get dumped if he doesn´t change his act. I don´t think I enjoy normal plain sex anymore...
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Post by vivi on Sept 30, 2006 14:34:34 GMT -5
I happen to like strong men. That's because men are meant to be strong. Otherwise, he's not a man. He just has a penis. So true...
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Post by vivi on Sept 30, 2006 15:05:59 GMT -5
I don´t have messenger without my laptop...
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Post by Triassic on Sept 30, 2006 23:13:24 GMT -5
Me not man. Me just penis.
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Post by Pony on Oct 1, 2006 15:50:36 GMT -5
I like playing it both ways. A nice elk-hide leather flogger and my butt work nicely together. I am not heavily into BDSM, but have a friend who is a pro-domme and I do enjoy hearing about some of her exploits. I happen to like strong men. hmmmm, nice hard spanking to spice it up can be fun. I've spanked a few in my time with the back of my quad hand...you really have to focus to make it smack evenly as to create that slap-sound. hehe Funny story...years ago, i answered a personal ad in the local weekly entertainment paper. She was lookin for a creative dom, and i thought 'ok, i'll experiment,' so i called. I told her about the chair, no big deal...anyway, she met me at my house. We talked for a while, then she said "Want me to get a weapon?" I said YEAHHH, but didn't know what she was talkin about. She went to her car, brought in the biggest dildo i ever saw and crop-whip. I caught on quick, talked to her in very slut terms, made her do things in very submissive terms, including fuckin that giant "weapon", but in the end, i knew i wasn't mean enough for her. She really wanted to be hurt, and i don't like hurting somebody. Hell, i couldn't do it physically anyway, but i was just playin the game. She was really into being hurt coz she wanted her nips burned with cigarette...i never saw her again!
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Post by spurs2000 on Oct 2, 2006 13:54:04 GMT -5
This thread had seemed to be dead for ages and interest me much as the story I have been writing and posting to paradevo "Dreams Can Come True" which very much encompasses BDSM and I often wondered if these thoughts were different to others. Obviously seems many people have such strange ideas, maybe not so strange?
I have no idea whether my writing style interests anybody and whether I should continue. If there are a few people enjoying it then I shall continue to post more.
What's everyone's thoughts?
Cheers
Spurs
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Post by BA on Oct 2, 2006 20:08:36 GMT -5
Please do write. All kinds of kinks are welcome here. So if you think you are an odd-fellow... please don't.
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Post by wheelie37 on Oct 4, 2006 0:40:33 GMT -5
This thread had seemed to be dead for ages and interest me much as the story I have been writing and posting to paradevo "Dreams Can Come True" which very much encompasses BDSM and I often wondered if these thoughts were different to others. Obviously seems many people have such strange ideas, maybe not so strange? I have no idea whether my writing style interests anybody and whether I should continue. If there are a few people enjoying it then I shall continue to post more. What's everyone's thoughts? Cheers Spurs I have had some kinky girlfriends , before and after my accident. I think you just have to be broad minded and make sex fun and be open to try new things. If you dont like it or they dont like it then dont do them or try to force your partner to do them physically or using emotional blackmail. At the end of the day everyone is different and it is our differences that make life interesting in my opinion
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Post by Pisti on Oct 4, 2006 14:50:57 GMT -5
Well, kinkiness is OK with me (oh yeh ), but it was not that what restarted this thread. According to my understanding "rape" is NOT a kink - it is a crime...
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