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Post by cripple on Sept 22, 2013 9:39:43 GMT -5
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ladytee
Full Member
Posts: 210
Gender: Female
Dev Status: Devotee
Relationship Status: Single
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Post by ladytee on Sept 22, 2013 9:58:15 GMT -5
Welcome to the board cripple
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Post by Tek on Sept 22, 2013 10:29:20 GMT -5
First of all: Welcome!
Second: Nice post!
It must be hard to resent your father but I think that being angry at something that you had no control over is fruitless and will only eat away at you.
I know a few people with OI. Most of them are in relationships, some with children and some are trying. What I'm trying to say with this, is that relationships, sex, having healthy children are definitely possible. you just have to figure out the best way to do it, and find someone to do it with. Don't feel like you can never have a child because of how you feel about your father. There are ways to go through IVF treatments (like some people I know have done) and dramatically increase the chances of having a healthy kid.
The sex thing you mentioned... Just try, try and try again, it won't be as straightforward as just 'going for it' but I am sure that you can figure out a way for both of you to make it work.
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Post by Kiran on Sept 22, 2013 11:32:23 GMT -5
Put another way, I know not everyone draws inspiration or meaning from the Bible but here goes: The Lord God said, “ It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.” (Genesis 2:18) God basically tells us in Genesis that men should not be, and were not made to be, alone. The more I read about devoteeism the more it makes sense to me. God made suitable partners for everyone, and he made us all very different, so it is not a surprise that human sexuality is also so diverse. I totally agree with you at this point, Creep! Welcome to the board!
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Post by paulbe on Sept 22, 2013 11:59:09 GMT -5
Welcome,to the board. I hope this board will give you all the support you need.
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Post by tom60313 on Sept 22, 2013 12:24:26 GMT -5
Hi cripple I'm new here myself and it's so amazing to learn how the devs see us dis guys! Oh and welcome
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Post by Emma on Sept 22, 2013 12:39:42 GMT -5
I'm glad you posted an intro its always nice to know who people are when they show up in chat. Welcome to PD!
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Post by handcyclefool on Sept 22, 2013 15:09:24 GMT -5
Welcome!
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Post by jacksongirl on Sept 22, 2013 19:26:16 GMT -5
Hey, cripple! Welcome!
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Post by alexa2010 on Sept 23, 2013 1:27:45 GMT -5
Warm welcome cripple.
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Post by A££Y "Cuddles" Magoo on Sept 23, 2013 2:10:12 GMT -5
I totally agree with you at this point, Creep! Welcome to the board! Creep... kek. ditto, welcome.
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Post by Pisti on Sept 24, 2013 4:12:48 GMT -5
Welcome!
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Post by Deleted on Sept 24, 2013 16:16:55 GMT -5
Welcome to PD and even though your intro was interesting it was also depressing to me....I hope you find joy being here and learning about this board and its members....
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Post by blueskye101 on Sept 26, 2013 22:58:39 GMT -5
Welcome!
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