sciguyeu
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Post by sciguyeu on Feb 2, 2014 14:09:08 GMT -5
Hi. If you're out and about and see a disabled guy/girl in a bar who you think is attractive, what do you actually do? Introduce yourself, look longingly, ignore...
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Post by lookingfor on Feb 2, 2014 14:51:47 GMT -5
Normally, I would just look at them longingly, give them my bedroom eyes, smile at them and find excuses to keep walking by them.
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Post by blueskye101 on Feb 2, 2014 18:36:28 GMT -5
Normally, I would just look at them longingly, give them my bedroom eyes, smile at them and find excuses to keep walking by them. Me too  Probably too shy to go up to some one even though would want to. What are bedroom eyes anyway?  |
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Post by janebluelightning on Feb 2, 2014 19:12:01 GMT -5
Normally, I would just look at them longingly, give them my bedroom eyes, smile at them and find excuses to keep walking by them. Why not just sit in their lap? Ok, to much? ?? How about dropping a phone number on them? I'm a fan of bedroom eyes. I've noticed they can also be a "front seat of the truck"eyes as well |
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Post by jetguy on Feb 2, 2014 19:14:16 GMT -5
I would smile if they smiled back I would go over and say hi. Honesty best policy it always works:-) I dont think any need to get tongue tied just because they use a chair and you find them attractive I would focus on other features nice eyes, hair, arms and compliment them etc etc hope that helps. Tony
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Post by janebluelightning on Feb 2, 2014 20:18:06 GMT -5
What are "front seat of the truck" eyes? How come this honesty and forthrightness is lacking today... "Front seat of the truck eyes" are the same as "spread me out on the couch" or "it's your lucky night" eyes. You're telling me you have not seen them for awhile? You might have to go to So Cal, there's apparently this woman there..... |
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Post by Emma on Feb 2, 2014 23:03:45 GMT -5
Its a tough question for me to answer because I'm married. Before I was married I would have never had the guts to go talk to a hot disabled guy because I was in a different place with my devness then. Now I'm much more comfortable with it and if I were single I'd definitely go talk to him. I'm probably terrible with pick up lines, bedroom eyes or whatever I'd need to do but I'd figure out a way to make it happen and hopefully there would be alcohol around to smooth the awkwardness away.
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Post by alexa2010 on Feb 3, 2014 1:51:14 GMT -5
There are no wheelers in sight in the small town I live in. Let alone attractive ones. But I am ready to make the first step! Definitely. ;-)
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Post by gaydev on Feb 3, 2014 16:35:04 GMT -5
As long as it was a gay bar and I found the guy somewhat attractive I would definitely try to start a conversation.
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Post by hanabanana on Feb 4, 2014 23:52:31 GMT -5
If I wasn't already taken... hmmm.
I don't know how to make a first move, but if I gathered enough courage, and really wanted to get to know the person...
Here's the plan I just came up with.
I'd probably attempt to express the "you're attractive please come talk to me" vibe(I hope this is real, if it's not then I apologize to everyone I have ever given this signature look to). If this fails, then I would strategically place myself in close proximity. While doing so, I'd try to think of something to say, or hope that they say something first.
This has many flaws, one being that if they catch me just staring at them and creeping closer, they would probably be scared. And I'd feel like a stalker. If I don't think of anything to stay, I would also just be staring. Pickup lines must be memorized to drop on these unsuspecting beings.
I need to compile pick up lines.
If I used the "Did it hurt? (Did what hurt?) When you fell out of heaven?"
one, would they be offended?... I'm tempted to use it... to see if they find humor in my terrible pickup lines.
But I don't want to be run over by a wheeler... or anyone... Or punched.
There's a quad on campus who uses a manual... I think he would punch me. He's angry all the time.
but ooohhh the way he moooooveeeesss. goddamn.
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Post by lavly on Feb 5, 2014 2:26:15 GMT -5
i would trip over or spill a drink while trying to take side glances ( you know like the creep ppl that look at disabled ppl and just stair , thats me)... and if by some miricule if he talk to me ... i would do something hella weird and then walk off. yup im smooth |
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Post by sciguyeu on Feb 5, 2014 7:39:37 GMT -5
At my tender age I'm still generally oblivious, even if a guy was to be fairly blatant.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 5, 2014 8:30:38 GMT -5
If I wasn't already taken... hmmm. I don't know how to make a first move, but if I gathered enough courage, and really wanted to get to know the person... Here's the plan I just came up with. I'd probably attempt to express the "you're attractive please come talk to me" vibe(I hope this is real, if it's not then I apologize to everyone I have ever given this signature look to). If this fails, then I would strategically place myself in close proximity. While doing so, I'd try to think of something to say, or hope that they say something first. This has many flaws, one being that if they catch me just staring at them and creeping closer, they would probably be scared. And I'd feel like a stalker. If I don't think of anything to stay, I would also just be staring. Pickup lines must be memorized to drop on these unsuspecting beings. I need to compile pick up lines. If I used the "Did it hurt? (Did what hurt?) When you fell out of heaven?" one, would they be offended?... I'm tempted to use it... to see if they find humor in my terrible pickup lines. But I don't want to be run over by a wheeler... or anyone... Or punched. There's a quad on campus who uses a manual... I think he would punch me. He's angry all the time. but ooohhh the way he moooooveeeesss. goddamn.
If you ask a guy with SCI "if it hurt", he might not answer the way you expect. |
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Post by KatieMan on Feb 5, 2014 9:38:32 GMT -5
If I used the "Did it hurt? (Did what hurt?) When you fell out of heaven?" one, would they be offended?... If you ask a guy with SCI "if it hurt", he might not answer the way you expect. Well, Bananas, they would definitely think you're forward if you used that one  |
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Post by KatieMan on Feb 5, 2014 10:27:40 GMT -5
Weirdly, the ability to form coherent sentences and the rate of attractiveness seem to correlate in a non-exponantial way. If I don't care too much I'd most likely strike up a more or less normal conversation. If I care a lot, however, I'd probably go with lavly's approach after all. I've noticed though, that I seem to have a tendency to overcompensate so that I'll end up talking to the person I least want to talk to just so they won't think I dislike them which, of course, I do - but by then it's too late anyway and I'm stuck listening to a play-by-play of their last trip to the orthodontist... |
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Probably too shy to go up to some one even though would want to. What are bedroom eyes anyway? 
