hillary
New Member
Posts: 11
Gender: Female
Dev Status: Devotee
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Post by hillary on May 1, 2022 11:19:27 GMT -5
Oh haha complete
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Post by hannah0 on May 1, 2022 18:24:03 GMT -5
Your answers and thoughts are very interesting and if I am more of a reserved dev and don’t post a lot, I’d like to give my opinion on this. I have been into complete SCIs for a long time but recently I discovered I tend to have a better liking for incomplete injuries. To me it is not related to sex (erection wise) but more like a discovery process and sensitivity feelings. As a lot of devs claim, it has to do with touching and exploring disabled bodies, finding erogenous zones and a way to give pleasure. With a complete SCI the sensations are limited but I kind of liked the idea of being the dominant and being in charge. It is all a fantasy though because I never had a relationship with a para but I kind of like it that way. Dreaming, imagining and writing play an important part in my appeal. Usually fantasies are not meant to be fulfilled and I might be disappointed. As I am also into braces and crutches (Abasophylia is the technical term) I revel in the fact an incomplete wheeler can also stand and do a few steps. I find it veeeery devy! I feel exactly the same
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Post by lilyinblossom on Jan 7, 2023 18:10:34 GMT -5
I go for complete because I'm attracted to both ideas of permanent paralysis and the extreme opposite: total recovery. I don't care about movement coming back slowly. When total recovery is not possible, which is the reality for most cases, the idea of something "broken" that cannot be fixed is really intriguing for me. Psychologically, I think the diagnosis of a complete injury also makes the guy become well-adjusted with his disability and resigned faster to focus more on moving on and get himself together than wasting time trying an impossible recovery.
While an incomplete injury is better when it comes to feeling/sensation during intimacy, I tend to put emotional/mental satisfaction over physical satisfaction, then I'm not concerned if the "snake" will work or not because the idea of finding solutions to compensate the lack of sensation (and erection) is a huge turn on for me.
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