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Post by jimmybruno on Mar 17, 2007 10:14:09 GMT -5
Hope I spelled it correctly!
I never had one, would love to try. My fantasy is two hot AB women! What about everyone else? If you are ab, would you want two disabled partners, or one of each? Two opposite sex, or one of each?
Lots of possibilities, what do you think?
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Post by E on Mar 17, 2007 12:18:54 GMT -5
Hope I spelled it correctly! I never had one, would love to try. My fantasy is two hot AB women! What about everyone else? If you are ab, would you want two disabled partners, or one of each? Two opposite sex, or one of each? Lots of possibilities, what do you think? It's fun, but honestly, it's not the amazing thrill you think it'll be.
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Post by Cake on Mar 17, 2007 12:59:03 GMT -5
What E said. It's overrated. There are much better things you can do than menages a trois.
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Post by matisse on Mar 17, 2007 16:51:31 GMT -5
Oh sure Eric and Cake, its no big deal, yeah right!! You are just rubbing it in.......I won't let you deprive me of my fantasy!!
Anyway it seems to me that this type of thing would vary a lot based on the people involved and their relationship. Perhaps this is one situation where knowing each other well doesn't work as well as knowing each other just enough to heighten the lust.......Or perhaps if the two women involved already have a sexual relationship.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 17, 2007 18:15:21 GMT -5
Nah it would be more fun to concentrate on one.
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Post by Pony on Mar 17, 2007 18:37:38 GMT -5
Well, i must confess, i LOVE a girl that really digs a girl, and only once was i present while two girls started making out and getting into it pretty heavy I was not involved in touching them, but i was very close to them, talking to them and they were kinda showing off for me, yet still very into each other. I thought it was hot as hell.
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Post by BA on Mar 17, 2007 20:21:24 GMT -5
I'd be into it. I enjoy such things, but the chemistry has to be right all around. I am not bi-sexual, but have enjoyed being one of two women focused on a man's total pleasure. But, if the guy is expecting me to perform cunniligus on another woman, he's in for a disappointment.
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Post by Pisti on Mar 20, 2007 16:13:03 GMT -5
I'm also rather into the two girls + one boy version. To have sex with someone I need to be in love with him and in my love I'm a desperately monogamous person. Bu if the beloved one would like to "enjoy" another woman, too, it's totally OK with me as long as I'm informed and involved and it doesn't ruin his feelings for me. If he has sexual dreams I cannot fulfil - because I'm not small enough or tall enough - I'd rather help him fulfil them with someone else than to leave him in frustration - that would just empoison a relationship that otherwise works fine. But of course it only works if noone of the tree (or four, or ten...) of us gets hurt emotionally or in any other way.
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Post by devogirl on Mar 20, 2007 16:43:38 GMT -5
Oh sure Eric and Cake, its no big deal, yeah right!! You are just rubbing it in.......I won't let you deprive me of my fantasy!! Well go right ahead and fantasize, but lest you all get too obsessive, it's one of those things that's rarely as hot in real life. Way too often, there's one person who's not quite as into it as the other two, or one who's getting all the attention. Human relationships are complicated enough with just 2; as soon as you increase the numbers, it gets increasingly emotionally complicated. One guy and two girls is probably the most common fantasy among straight men, though.
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Post by Pony on Mar 20, 2007 18:54:53 GMT -5
....i really dig the girls into exploring each other, and me exploring them together, but hey, you're right...complicated enough trying to make a duo work, it's just sexual fantasy stuff.
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Post by matisse on Mar 20, 2007 18:59:21 GMT -5
Well, I just don't understand why someone would conclude it's not worth it just based on one or a small number of experiences. Most likely, it didn't suck. Personally, I would be willing to work hard at this and try it many times to improve the experience. Practice makes perfect, no?
Unfortunately, it will remain fantasy for me. I don't think it would work with my wife because she would probably get jealous, and in addition she would demand reciprocity, and I don't want a threesome with another guy.
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Post by devogirl on Mar 20, 2007 19:32:30 GMT -5
I don't think it would work with my wife because she would probably get jealous Aha, you have hit on the problem. It's hard to find 3 people who are all equally willing to participate. Then there's the lingering jealousy and resentment that can surface afterwards. Of course, it's not impossible, those people are out there, but it ain't easy.
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Post by cabdy on Mar 20, 2007 21:25:59 GMT -5
once i have sex with 2 guys (we are very good friends) it was great !!!! they are not gay or bi-sexual, they just focus on me and we have a good time. but it's just for open mind people.
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Post by cunning69guy on Mar 21, 2007 4:26:55 GMT -5
It was a great experience before injury (though, ideally, the women must be bi-sexual, and if one is your girlfriend, comfortable with your interaction with the other woman). Since my injury, it certainly is a fantasy, but there is the reality of limitations that weren't there before injury and the anticipation that the fantasy might be better than in reality. Hell, at this point, compatible partners are a big enough fantasy and experiences don't always live up to expectations with just two people - but that's always the case, disabled or able-bodied. However, I find at times that disability seems to bring up comparisons to "normal" levels of function and positions, be they in your own mind, or your partners, that even prior communication and discussion doesn't avoid.
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Post by Triassic on Mar 21, 2007 8:33:47 GMT -5
I would'nt say a 3some has ever been a huge fantasy for me...not as such; but what I'm getting is that a 3-some might go best with 3 strangers, or near strangers.
And that's something that I've always thought of as pretty hot; anonymous sex...the hetero version of gay bathhouse sex. And not some dreary rule bound 'swingers' club, or regimented fetish thing...but something more organic, a bit scary, etc.
But I'm afraid that's too advanced for this wheeler guy. I can't see that situation working for a crip.
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