Post by problemlover on Apr 1, 2008 11:18:34 GMT -5
Hey everyone...I just really needed some advice. I've posted here a few times before as dibisai. It's been a looong time since I looked through in here to see what's going on.I hope there's still a lot of the old peeps who've really advised me well in the past.
I tried to log on as dibisai but I can't remember my password for nothing and I used someone else's pc and no longer have access to the e mail in my profile so I just wanted to clear that up just to keep things honest...
Ok, now on to my prob. I'm married. Have been for 8 yrs. Been a dev as long as I can remember. A closet dev if you will. Met someone on New Year's last yr had a thing,got caught,big fight,cops got involved,we lost contact...yadda yadda yadda.Long story short I'm in Puerto Rico the guy lives in Fla came back to the island Nov 17 of last yr. my husband was still in a halfway house from the first incident.Yep, we hooked up it was a really weird disfunctional relationship all the way through and finally ended when my husband walked out of the halfway home the 1st week of March allthough it was quickly going nowhere already.Still, a lot of time has passed and I understand he has a lot of commitment issues and whatever.Still we did live together for 5 months, so....He's leaving tommorow.We haven't talked since my husband showed up.Is it wise for me to call just to say goodbye?I don't want to figure things out or play any blame games.Just honestly say bye and have a good life.What's everyone's opinion?Please stick to the q ya'll can trash me later .I know I'm at fault on a lot of things I just don't know what to do.
I tried to log on as dibisai but I can't remember my password for nothing and I used someone else's pc and no longer have access to the e mail in my profile so I just wanted to clear that up just to keep things honest...
Ok, now on to my prob. I'm married. Have been for 8 yrs. Been a dev as long as I can remember. A closet dev if you will. Met someone on New Year's last yr had a thing,got caught,big fight,cops got involved,we lost contact...yadda yadda yadda.Long story short I'm in Puerto Rico the guy lives in Fla came back to the island Nov 17 of last yr. my husband was still in a halfway house from the first incident.Yep, we hooked up it was a really weird disfunctional relationship all the way through and finally ended when my husband walked out of the halfway home the 1st week of March allthough it was quickly going nowhere already.Still, a lot of time has passed and I understand he has a lot of commitment issues and whatever.Still we did live together for 5 months, so....He's leaving tommorow.We haven't talked since my husband showed up.Is it wise for me to call just to say goodbye?I don't want to figure things out or play any blame games.Just honestly say bye and have a good life.What's everyone's opinion?Please stick to the q ya'll can trash me later .I know I'm at fault on a lot of things I just don't know what to do.