Post by blue on Oct 16, 2005 4:54:42 GMT -5
I am new to this site and thought I’d say hello. I am 36, live in South Africa and have been into guys in wheelchairs for as long as I can remember. The fact that I am not the only person on the planet with such ‘bizarre’ feelings was an amazing discovery for me which I only made a few years back when I started surfing the net.
I’ve been in a relationship with an AB guy for the past 2 yrs and have never had the courage to tell him about me being a dev. Hiding this part of myself from him has felt increasingly wrong and incongruous with the rest of our relationship though.
After an exchange with some of you in this forum recently, and some very understanding and supportive feed back I’ve finally had the courage to ‘unpack’ yesterday. And of course it was fabulous and he’s totally cool and even fascinated and intrigued, curios and very open to it all.
What a kick, though, to ‘speak the unspeakable’ and be heard and accepted!!
And I really have you unknown guys and gals in this online community to thank for nudging me into owning who and what I am and getting over myself and my fears. Very liberating and empowering indeed.
All of you sharing in such an open way has given me the courage to do the same, and it feels fantastic. So, big thanx to everyone and here’s to overcoming fears, breaking down boundaries and opening ever more to this weird pattern we call ‘self’!
I’ve been in a relationship with an AB guy for the past 2 yrs and have never had the courage to tell him about me being a dev. Hiding this part of myself from him has felt increasingly wrong and incongruous with the rest of our relationship though.
After an exchange with some of you in this forum recently, and some very understanding and supportive feed back I’ve finally had the courage to ‘unpack’ yesterday. And of course it was fabulous and he’s totally cool and even fascinated and intrigued, curios and very open to it all.
What a kick, though, to ‘speak the unspeakable’ and be heard and accepted!!
And I really have you unknown guys and gals in this online community to thank for nudging me into owning who and what I am and getting over myself and my fears. Very liberating and empowering indeed.
All of you sharing in such an open way has given me the courage to do the same, and it feels fantastic. So, big thanx to everyone and here’s to overcoming fears, breaking down boundaries and opening ever more to this weird pattern we call ‘self’!
van waar in suid afrika is jy van?
I hope he finds the site of interest if he see it.