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Post by mrjefffurz on Nov 1, 2005 15:17:45 GMT -5
ummm,,how to begin,,,im a dude,,,sci (t-5)/23 yrs post/divorced/50 yrs on the planet/livin in northwestern NM........all the usual cliches...never done this kind of thng b4,,,what is a fem devotee?....yadda yadda yadda...became interested in this forum after a thread i started @ new mobility about an encounter with a woman who MAY be an admirer-type was replied to by a couple of ladys from here...since im not very good @ just typing a bunch of stuff about me if there's anyone who wants to know more just contact me and get to know me that way,,,anywayz,,,hi ya'll......jeff
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Post by BA on Nov 1, 2005 17:18:14 GMT -5
Welcome Mr. Jeff. So that was YOUR thread! Some of us just happened to see that thread and had to chime in. Hang around, post some stuff and you'll soon find out what we're all about. Since you already know Carpenter, I am sure he'd be more than happy to give you a heads up!
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Post by devogirl on Nov 1, 2005 20:22:20 GMT -5
Hiya Jeff, welcome to the board! Hm, what's a female devotee? I think you know what we are: women who think disabled guys are sexy. I'm going to take a guess that your real question is, are we as creepy some people say? You'll just have to judge for yourself on that one, but all I can say is this board is as a whole much more interesting, intelligent and respectful than some older, now defunct devo groups. And hey, if you want to post some photos of yourself, we all would be very, uh, admiring ;D
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Post by BA on Nov 1, 2005 22:06:22 GMT -5
Jeff, like Devogirl says, we are a pretty open group of women who (for whatever reason ie. personal experience, life choices, circumstance or no reason at all) think disabled guys have alot more to offer us than able-bodied guys. You might ask why is that? We could probably all give you a different answer.
I can tell you for starters that I have been in 2 relationships with guys w/ disability. It just so happens that both these men put the previous "boys" in my life to shame. Now, maybe I just "lucked out" with the two afore-mentioned guys and shouldn't generalise.
I think overcoming adversity (blah, blah) makes some people idiots and some people really amazingly self-aware and incredible. I happened upon two of these amazingly incredible people in my life-time and am still very involved with one of them (the other, sadly passed away 4 years ago).
So, here I am and as far as I am concerned, I'm as creepy as the next upstanding citizen.
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Post by Triassic on Nov 2, 2005 0:15:12 GMT -5
AB, was your ex's demise disability related? How old was he?
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Post by BA on Nov 2, 2005 17:29:42 GMT -5
Triassic, he died at 33 from a non-disability related cause. He had leukemia. He was SCI (T-10) from age 16 and a motor vehicle accident. I met him when we were in our early 20's. We parted "friends" from our relationship after a number of years because we just kind of drifted in separate directions and interests. We remained friends.
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Post by mrjefffurz on Nov 2, 2005 18:02:05 GMT -5
thanx 4 the welcome...creepy seems to be a recurring theme,,,lemme tell ya, i have dated some creepy women who, as far as i could tell, had never heard the term "devotee"...and im sure we are all creepy to somebody at some time & in some place...i will be happy to send a pic to them whats wants one,,,or post one,,,soon,,,i took a bunch @ my fave niteclubs "pimp & ho costume ball" and,,,perhaps,,,those pix will convey my bestest qualities,,like,,,sense of humor,,,personality...good fashion sense...adrmirable qualities all....jeff
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Post by AB on Nov 3, 2005 0:33:45 GMT -5
AB, didnt you say that you used to date a guy with some neuro problem? And this guy you're having a fling with now-he's ambulatory? What's his disability?
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Post by Triassic on Nov 3, 2005 0:35:30 GMT -5
OOPS, OOPS! That last one was from me! Sorry...
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Post by devboy on Nov 3, 2005 4:16:58 GMT -5
Triassic, are you trying to impersonate AB? how naughty ...
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Post by Mini on Nov 3, 2005 22:07:23 GMT -5
Yeah, that's a pretty weird mistake to make, calling yourself AB.
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Post by Triassic on Nov 3, 2005 23:31:09 GMT -5
No it isn't a weird mistake at all: I normally click on Name first to type Triassic, THEN I click on message to write my text. 'AB' was the first thing I had in mind to type in my message, as you can see...but I accidentally typed it where Triassic usually is. Jeez louise, I corrected it immediately...
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Post by BA on Nov 4, 2005 18:29:08 GMT -5
I didn't date a guy with a neuro problem. I have a cousin with a neuromuscular disease problem tho'. I never dated him. Our relationship consists of fighting over who gets the turkey wings at Thanksgiving dinners.
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Post by Oved on Nov 24, 2005 4:15:51 GMT -5
Hey Jeff! Is that your pic that was recently added to the board? If yes, you're just as much a cutie as Rolln. You can tuck your jealousy away.......you have my attention, too! I like your pic and posts as well. I've never been to NM which is why I never said anything to you before. But, since your recent reply in Rolln's Personals post which I found entertaining, I wanted to say hello to you, too! Happy gobble-gobble day!  |
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Post by Oved on Nov 24, 2005 4:21:18 GMT -5
P.S. Where are the pics from the "pimp and ho costume ball?" ;D
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