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Post by damedevo on Jan 15, 2006 12:25:37 GMT -5
Gosh, why do so many discussion threads get dropped, just when the intrigue starts to peak?
Leilia, I hope you've been managing OK--your situation sounds quite heart-rending.
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Post by damedevo on Jan 16, 2006 2:53:07 GMT -5
Thanks for the update, Leilia!
Now, maybe there are cultural issues I don't grasp, but I'm wondering why your BF allowed his mother into the house, if she was unkindly disposed toward you. Did he really need someone there, during the day? And if so, I wonder why she wasn't merely glad to be of assistance, but rather had to indulge in blaming. All such territorial disputes are best settled before marriage, that's for sure!
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Post by V on Jan 16, 2006 3:09:55 GMT -5
All such territorial disputes are best settled before marriage, that's for sure! Maybe so, but they never are. In-laws are just something you have to live with and deal with the best you can. I don't think it's crucial to get along with them fabulously. |
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Post by Corinne on Jan 16, 2006 4:16:04 GMT -5
Yup, that sounds like typical in laws behavior to me! My sister is still grumpy about when her husband's parents came to visit last week and found fault with everything she did.
Leilia, thank you for the update! I think we're all on the edge of our seats waiting to see what happens with James.
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Post by Quad787 on Jan 23, 2006 0:33:47 GMT -5
How goes the circus these days? Still a balancing act, with lots of juggling? Like walking a tightrope?
I'm sure there are plenty more applicable double-entendres.
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Post by vonvon on Feb 21, 2006 20:20:15 GMT -5
i hope you went off on her!!!! and i would have told her to get the heck out of my house.
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Post by wheelie37 on Feb 22, 2006 2:58:21 GMT -5
Last week his mother had set him up with some Jewish elderly Jewish lady for a lunch (i was most upset), but i couldn't say much as i do after all have a boyfriend and it wasn't by his own choice that he had to meet her! He just arrived at his house for lunch and his mom had invited some random lady he never knew and was trying to push them together sort of thing? He made it into a joke eventually after he saw my reaction but i wasn't prepared for the fact that at any time he could find someone(available unlike me) to have a permanent relationship with (even though he insists that after his divorce he never wants anything permanent again.[/quote] It was nice his mum is trying to fix him up and religion is important to some people when looking for a partner  she was out of order turning up without asking him first, shows disrespect ive told him i find guys in chairs sexy and have for ages, then he asked me if id ever been with a guy in a chair before and i said no. He said that maybe i was finally getting to try out what it was like with a guy in a chair and thats why i was with him!!! Without me explaining about Dev's he came up with that on his own....I hated the way he said it! It was like i was using him to fulfill a fantasy..And thats NOT true since i really think he is a super person and i find myself enjoying his company NOT just the fact that he is disabled , even if he was AB id look twice at him ! I told him that it wasn't true and that he was taking it the wrong way...but even though he joked about it there was no convincing him! I think this all stems from the fact that i have a boyf and that he knows we will get married. .[/quote] It sounds like he is a bit jealous and was using the "oh i am just fulfilling your fantasy" as a bit of a sympathy ploy also I would suspect your boyfriend suspects there is trouble between you, even though he may not suspect you are seeing someone else, and is he is trying to work on your relationship  |
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Post by vonvon on Feb 23, 2006 1:48:15 GMT -5
oh he has done something wrong if he senting u flowers lmao ;D
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Post by wheelie37 on Feb 24, 2006 3:08:05 GMT -5
It could be! Either he is trying on the relationship or he is feeling guilty about something , or there is a flower sale nearby  |
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Post by vonvon on Feb 24, 2006 9:19:31 GMT -5
 sounds like wheelie has done some of that himself eh? 
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Post by vonvon on Feb 24, 2006 15:10:14 GMT -5
sweetie the only thing i have to say do what ya heart tells ya. we are your friends we love u reguardless of what u do. its not me to judge u. all i can do is be there to pick up the pieces when something happens. |
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Post by wheelie37 on Feb 27, 2006 3:21:04 GMT -5
sounds like wheelie has done some of that himself eh? Yes have done in a relationship when we have had a bad argument about something really stupid Maybe he is doing it for the same reason. realises maybe thigs arent right and he thinks he may have done something wrong (even though he doesnt know what) Or maybe he has met someone while running! Thing is he is making an effort and only time will tell. Good luck  |
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Post by Pisti on Feb 27, 2006 5:29:38 GMT -5
... or maybe he senses that you are disturbed by something, and he thinks that it is your future marrige and that you've got scared for this or that reason and tries to reassure you that he is there and will be there for you...  |
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Post by vonvon on Mar 18, 2006 22:57:58 GMT -5
;D glad to see you happy hon!!!!
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Post by wheelie37 on Mar 19, 2006 3:30:16 GMT -5
shame james didnt want to continue to be friends, but that is his loss hope things go well leilia, and maybe keep devo as a fantasy only |
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she was out of order turning up without asking him first, shows disrespect 
sounds like wheelie has done some of that himself eh? 
