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Post by ayla on Jul 13, 2023 9:23:41 GMT -5
ichbin that is horrific. It's so easy to hear something like that and think, "devotees are sick!" One thing that helps me put it in context is to remember this is a MAN expressing his desires. I don't mean to stereotype men but I think the effects of testosterone on the brain are pretty well established, and most men experience a more intense sort of sexual drive as a result. When this is coupled with devness, and with the privilege men have in society and the entitlement so many of them feel, the cultural attitudes they absorb about women, etc., we can get disgusting results like the comments this guy made to you.
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Post by dutchdev on Jul 14, 2023 3:44:58 GMT -5
Maybe it is the difference between men and women, (and yeah percentages of creeps among men are higher, than among women) but I honestly don't think it is fair to most men. Being able to see someone more as a "thing" and leave out the person, shuts down empathy and creates really no barrier for horrific action
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natewelsh124
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Post by natewelsh124 on Jul 14, 2023 6:53:23 GMT -5
I never was interested in role play. I did it once with a male Dev. I "played" the female disabled counterpart. It was a message chat back and forth. I was pretty shocked by his way of thinking .... afterwards I told him if he is really wondering why no disabled woman is interested in him. He saw all of them as just a means to fulfill his devoteism as a fetish. He literally said "I do not care about the person at all, I just want the disabled body" I will say roleplay like that does absolutely nothing for me. I prefer to develop characters and their relationship with one another, which may or may not be romantic. The same thing that gives devotees a bad name also give devotee roleplay a bad name. My offer stands for anybody who is interested in exploring it, provided our interests align  |
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