Roleplay as an outlet

[natewelsh124]

Do any devs here use chat-based roleplay as an outlet? I'm going through a heavy dev patch now and would love to roleplay a male para for anybody who would find that enjoyable...

[TotalBias]

I do chat based roleplays, but only with partners. Best of luck to you.

[lucretia]

No.

I did once, with a fellow dev and a pretender (we were still figuring him out) to kind of mess with him.

Other than that I haven't had any desire to role-play.

For me, and maybe for others, pretending isn't something I enjoy.

Writing and reading is where most of my devness gets it's "outlet".

I also think it's different for men vs. women. Men often feel they need an external source. Women typically find internal fantasy more fulfilling.

Just my two cents.

[Emma]

Not me either. One of the fakes I met years ago was really into role-play. At the time I thought he was really disabled he always wanted to role-play as someone more disabled than he initially described to me. Once I found out he was not disabled at all he still wanted to role-play with me. So now I somewhat equate it with what fakes/pretenders do, the only difference is in role-play you tell the person you are making it all up. Personally I'm only interested in the real thing disability-wise.

[Deleted]

I have sexted online (not really role played) with a real para, a para pretender, and a like minded fetishist. I do need a connection though before I can take a "thing" to this level. I can't just do that with anyone. I need a type of trust/friendship I guess before I open up that way.

[natewelsh124]

Thanks all for your responses. I'm disappointed, tbh, but I get it!

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Jun 15, 2018 0:08:02 GMT -5 natewelsh124 said:

Thanks all for your responses. I'm disappointed, tbh, but I get it!

Honestly, I think it would be very difficult for you to find someone that will just go for that without knowing you. Maybe you can try a place like FL or something. Your interest is basically pretending to be a para and with that to saturate your longings. Do you consider yourself a dev though? Because I don't all the way understand the connection. You want to pretend for a dev I assume?
There is one thing though that I personally feel strongly about; I basically have no problems with pretenders but I always feel that honesty about it is super important.

[natewelsh124]

TBH, I'd consider myself first and foremost a dev of paraplegic women. And in my real life AB relationships, I consider myself straight. But when it comes to paras, I find I'm more bi. So I enjoy roleplay in all sorts of scenarios as the AB or para character, either male or female. They all work for me with regards to my devness.

[elbs]

I haven't done much role-play but I like it. Honestly I'm a bit unusual among devs since I am about as interested in pretenders as I am into actual disabled people. So the idea that it's not real doesn't really take away from the fun for me.

[pam]

Jun 24, 2018 18:57:07 GMT -5 elbs said:

I haven't done much role-play but I like it. Honestly I'm a bit unusual among devs since I am about as interested in pretenders as I am into actual disabled people. So the idea that it's not real doesn't really take away from the fun for me.

I've never done any, but if I would I would want the real thing. I would not be interested in my husband pretending and he would not want to anyhow.

[natewelsh124]

Bumping this thread to see if anyone new around here might be interested in chat roleplay? (Or anybody who might have dismissed it before might be open to it now?)

I'm very much into slice-of-life and/or romantic situations, not primarily smut (although I'm open to that too if it's set up right).

I tend to look at it more like collaborative story writing (having some kind of a plot arc in mind, writing in third person, etc.)

If this interests anybody, or you think you might be curious, feel free to message me.

[Deleted]

Jan 16, 2022 15:03:12 GMT -5 natewelsh124 said:

Bumping this thread to see if anyone new around here might be interested in chat roleplay? (Or anybody who might have dismissed it before might be open to it now?)

I'm very much into slice-of-life and/or romantic situations, not primarily smut (although I'm open to that too if it's set up right).

I tend to look at it more like collaborative story writing (having some kind of a plot arc in mind, writing in third person, etc.)

If this interests anybody, or you think you might be curious, feel free to message me.

Gay dev here, intrigued about this! Can’t DM yet but maybe hit me up

[natewelsh124]

Bunping this thread, to see if any new members might be interested?

[bostongaydev]

Apr 22, 2023 6:34:21 GMT -5 natewelsh124 said:

Bunping this thread, to see if any new members might be interested?

Hi Nate, I’m new so I can’t message you but I’d be open to some rp

[ichbin]

I never was interested in role play. I did it once with a male Dev. I "played" the female disabled counterpart. It was a message chat back and forth. I was pretty shocked by his way of thinking .... afterwards I told him if he is really wondering why no disabled woman is interested in him. He saw all of them as just a means to fulfill his devoteism as a fetish. He literally said "I do not care about the person at all, I just want the disabled body"