Compensation???

[Pony]

Good question, Charlene....I definitely have learned many ways to compensate for lack of sensation. For example, when I touch a girl's leg, or anything else i use the back of my hand for a smooth rub. Plus, I focus with my mind EXACTLY how it feels on her end. It takes more mental concentration than an AB dude's touch, but it puts my mind more into it. 2nd, I'm definitely more into my mouth on the girl, and I love exploring with it. 3rd, I also love mental teasing and little games.

I think those three things have definitely been magnified out of compensation. Probably more, but I'll stop there!

[pinkcrusader]

I don't think that there is any compensation. I still like the same things I always did. I think maybe I'm just more interested in the areas I can still feel. And That makes sense to me. I want to be able to feel and enjoy so of course I want to be touched where I have sensation.

As for fetishes well I don't think I have any. There are a lot of things I enjoy. But nothing as specific as a fetish. I like women, the female body is seductive and sexy. But I enjoy every bit of it not just their feet or their butts or their breasts I like the whole package. I do really really enjoy giving oral but that's because I like getting my partner off. So I guess the only fetish I have is women.

I honestly don't think you develop a fetish over night. I think most of the time they are hardwired into us just like sexual preference. So maybe he just never acknowledged the fact that he had a fetish until after he was disabled.

But who knows. I'm no expert.

[charlene]

pinkcrusader said:

I honestly don't think you develop a fetish over night. I think most of the time they are hardwired into us just like sexual preference. So maybe he just never acknowledged the fact that he had a fetish until after he was disabled.

But who knows. I'm no expert.

You're problably right... Well, he sais he realized liking unusual stuff just after his accident...
Thanks for the replies!!!