j
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Hold on .. If it's A good thing baby!
Posts: 83
Gender: Male
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Post by j on Aug 26, 2023 9:35:11 GMT -5
Being paralyzed can sometimes feel like a prison sentence I can feel like a sick freak who just wants sex I understand other guys have much more to offer and look beyond that but I see a hot girl with her tits out acting sluty I feel like Ivar the boneless Viking 'You all had her I want to have her too' Yeah it's an ego thing but I cant deny how I am formatted nor do I care
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Post by wheelzoffortune on Aug 26, 2023 18:47:44 GMT -5
Can't speak about issues for being complete because my injury was incomplete, but with that said, though I am incomplete I still have a ton of trouble ejaculating. It was more common with my most recent partner than ever before, but still not nearly as often as it would be for someone without an SCI. Maybe like once out of every 10 times or so with my last g/f. Before that it only ever happened 2 times in like 20+ years.
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Post by Experimentalist on Aug 27, 2023 12:33:43 GMT -5
It's quite easy to guess what most guys want on a dating app no? 😂
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Post by someonerandom on Aug 27, 2023 16:39:50 GMT -5
It's quite easy to guess what most guys want on a dating app no? 😂 I’m looking for a nice lady to hold hands with and look at star constellations.
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Post by blueskye101 on Aug 27, 2023 19:24:40 GMT -5
It's quite easy to guess what most guys want on a dating app no? 😂 I’m looking for a nice lady to hold hands with and look at star constellations. 🤣😂🤣 Or as my son says “ Reading bible verses”
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Post by dutchdev on Aug 29, 2023 10:19:03 GMT -5
It's quite easy to guess what most guys want on a dating app no? 😂 maybe not be to “honest” about that.
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Post by Experimentalist on Aug 30, 2023 3:49:48 GMT -5
It's quite easy to guess what most guys want on a dating app no? 😂 maybe not be to “honest” about that. No, I think honest and direct is good as long as you keep it classy and respectful 😎
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Post by dutchdev on Aug 30, 2023 4:04:40 GMT -5
maybe not be to “honest” about that. No, I think honest and direct is good as long as you keep it classy and respectful 😎 How do you say “I want to get laid” in a classy and respectful way? I know that is not the only thing that all guys want, but for some definitely.
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Post by Experimentalist on Aug 30, 2023 4:47:30 GMT -5
No, I think honest and direct is good as long as you keep it classy and respectful 😎 How do you say “I want to get laid” in a classy and respectful way? I know that is not the only thing that all guys want, but for some definitely. You say: I’m looking for a sweet and caring woman to connect with on many levels. To spend time exploring each others minds and bodies, to discover what we both really enjoy and make each other feel wonderful xx
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relladev
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Gender: Female
Dev Status: Devotee
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Post by relladev on Aug 30, 2023 9:17:31 GMT -5
How do you say “I want to get laid” in a classy and respectful way? I know that is not the only thing that all guys want, but for some definitely. You say: I’m looking for a sweet and caring woman to connect with on many levels. To spend time exploring each others minds and bodies, to discover what we both really enjoy and make each other feel wonderful xx ewwww I'd recommend having a female friend take or pick your profile photo, would help you score I don't know why but lots of not bad looking guys prefer their ugliest photo...
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Post by greeneyedvillan on Sept 22, 2023 8:58:51 GMT -5
Communication and openness are the key for sex, at least for me. Find out what you like, find out what exactly you can do, find an open minded partner,and yes absolutely find someone to suck on your neck, if you can feel it. Its amazing lol
None of that is easy, so be patient and try your best not to compare yourself to "regular " or " normal" guys. Be yourself, and be strong about it. If you believe, others will believe it too
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Post by PacMan on Dec 26, 2023 18:12:37 GMT -5
How do you say “I want to get laid” in a classy and respectful way? I know that is not the only thing that all guys want, but for some definitely. You say: I’m looking for a sweet and caring woman to connect with on many levels. To spend time exploring each others minds and bodies, to discover what we both really enjoy and make each other feel wonderful xx I think this mindset with PWD comes from a lifetime of rejection isolation lack of confidence and self-belief because you’ve had pretty much a lifetime without any kind of intimacy you’ll settle for anything as something is better than nothing, and perhaps of having little self-confidence you might think no woman is going to hang around for the long-hall so again a quickie is better than nothing? I don’t know its just my thoughts on this and why PWD might think this way, well I guess there’s a lot of my own thoughts and feelings in that reply.
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kwhi13
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Post by kwhi13 on Jan 1, 2024 17:19:24 GMT -5
Dude, I have major ED, but complete sensation. Again, a bit of a non sequitur in the PD world… I have not been in an intimate relationship in many, many years, so I can’t testify as to the effectiveness of current ED MEDS, but papavarin seems to work well. Being able to please a partner is not limited to a hard on, so there’s that. But, women able to see outside the box, seem glad to have a caring, communicative man, disability or, not. ciao
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