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Post by kivic on Oct 6, 2014 22:30:46 GMT -5
I remember it wasn't my SO and it was hot
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Post by jrm on Oct 7, 2014 17:29:48 GMT -5
Wow. I'm green with envy. I rarely remember my dreams, and don't dream about wheelers. I've never had a sleep orgasm. And I don't have a para (or a quad, or a guy with CP, or ...) for a kiss and cuddle. All I've got right now are my fantasies about an imaginary wheeler. Sigh.
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Post by Valkyrja on Oct 7, 2014 22:59:49 GMT -5
Now, when I remember my dreams, I am totally nuts fighting my kid so... no dev at all. But when I was Young, long time ago, I did orgasm in my dreams too; but believe me Inkdevil... I'd have changed all that dreams for your mornings!! jajajajaja So... think of that: what's the best of that 2 possibilities?
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Post by alexa2010 on Oct 8, 2014 0:59:53 GMT -5
I'm a bit late here... I regularly dream about wheeler guys and often remember my dreams when I wake up. My feelings go from total happiness to loneliness and most often sadness in a second after realizing that it was only a dream. I'm also often aroused from my dreams and then feel frustrated that it's over.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 9, 2014 20:35:32 GMT -5
I'm a bit late here... I regularly dream about wheeler guys and often remember my dreams when I wake up. My feelings go from total happiness to loneliness and most often sadness in a second after realizing that it was only a dream. I'm also often aroused from my dreams and then feel frustrated that it's over. me too ;-) especially the last line but I don't have those dreams very often or at least not as often as I'd like
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Post by BA on Oct 9, 2014 23:47:59 GMT -5
Sometimes I dream about a wheeler 'ex' from many years ago. In the dream we are both in our prime and having foreplay to sex. I sometimes have a sleep orgasm, sometimes wake up feeling guilty (sleeping next to my husband) and other times just annoyed that this dream has continued to eat at my brain for so many years. Oh well. You can't just casually drop into a post that you have a sleep orgasm. SLEEP ORGASM!!! Needs to be in capital letters for everyone to see and be insanely jealous of. Let me clarify to rid you of jealousy. SLEEP ORGASM = (only orgasm?)
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I love a man on wheels...
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Post by littlesparkle on Oct 10, 2014 6:29:02 GMT -5
When I dream about my ex-bf, he's always in his wheelchair. But not when I dream of other guys, weird.
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Post by tori on Oct 24, 2014 10:51:11 GMT -5
I dream about various disabilities, depends on how much of a "dev high" I've been on. Sometimes it's random men, sometimes it's my husband (AB Male) with the disability, and sometimes its myself. I have no control over my subconscious, if I did I think I'd dream about it more if I could!
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Post by queenjane on Oct 27, 2014 15:48:00 GMT -5
I've had lots of dreams about guys in chairs (both dis and ab men I know as well as people I invented), the tenor of these dreams is essentially always one of unsatisfied desires. I finally meet a guy in a chair and we're into each other, it feels wonderful and I'm the luckiest girl in the word, and then... it's revealed that he can walk. Thanks brain.
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Post by Inigo Montoya on Nov 4, 2014 8:14:05 GMT -5
Cheese can be a psychedelic asshole.
I hope your friend is better soon. Give him a hug from me, too, next time you see him.
(And it can be so, so scary when they're sick. Hugs to you too.)
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Post by kivic on Nov 4, 2014 9:34:34 GMT -5
I often wonder if dreams are a reflection of what we really feel emotionally and don't recognize it in our conscious minds.
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Post by Inigo Montoya on Nov 4, 2014 9:50:14 GMT -5
I'm really glad he's on the mend.
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Post by Inigo Montoya on Nov 9, 2014 9:06:12 GMT -5
Well, counseling is, for real, not a bad idea in your situation. I've certainly done it plenty.
That's a crazy dream. So specific. Hang in there.
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Post by kivic on Nov 9, 2014 11:52:06 GMT -5
Would it be such a terrible idea to tell your husband of your devness? Then hiding yourself wouldn't place so much guilt on your conscience? I realize our situations are different, but it has been a huge relief not feeling the urgency and anxiety hiding my Dev material as much. It's been liberating; I've been able to embrace my devness. It certainly wasn't an easy road, but it's looking like it's not going to be easy for you either way you go.
I weighed the outcome before I told my guy. It could have gone one of two ways: He stays with me, or he can't accept it and leaves. I was fully aware of the consequences, yet I needed to "come clean" for my own mental well being. I also thought it fair to tell him because we had been in a relationship (with 2 children) for 13 years at the time, and that he was a part of my devness and attraction.
I know you've got another thread about telling your para bf about your devness, but one thing at a time is a good way to go, especially when it's such a highly emotion subject matter. You've got to prioritize.
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Post by kivic on Nov 9, 2014 22:41:50 GMT -5
Ugh, you're stuck between a rock and a hard place. No easy way.
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