wildcard
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Post by wildcard on Jun 24, 2016 15:31:48 GMT -5
hahaha actually, i dont remember too much about my dream except for the fact that he made an appearance and was cuter than i thought in my dream, i was thinking "OMG i gotta tell strawberrybubblegum about it... it definitely made me watch some youtube videos too and i found a great one!
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Post by Paradise on Jun 26, 2016 13:07:40 GMT -5
I can't recall ever having dreamed about wheelers before, at least none that I remember. But ever since I've come here, and also found my person-of-interest here (ahem, boyfriend), I dream of him pretty frequently and I love it! Sometimes we're doing a menial task together in my dreams, and everything feels perfect and normal as if we'd always been doing that together (in fact, we even talk about the weather in my dreams, haha). And in some dreams, we're actually having a grand adventure together! I do love those. My adventurous dreams have a touch of scandal to them; we may be running away together after leaving behind our rich, elderly, ailing spouses, or doing things we shouldn't be doing with other people nearby. I always consider dreaming about him to be a gift until we can be together. In my dreams, my boyfriend often appears as half-AB, half-"himself" - as in, he keeps many of the traits of his disability that make him unique and interesting and attractive to me, but in dreams, for whatever reason, I'm missing a few key ingredients of the things that go along with him in his day-to-day life. In my dreams, it is understood that he uses wheels when we are out and about, but these wheels NEVER make an appearance. In my dreams, the focus is on him, and he appears to be his actual, beautiful self, but there are no wheels, no special equipment around, no accessories. Just he and I being together. I guess my subconscious mind wants to get to the good stuff and doesn't need to "review" how to load or unload a van, and it would take far too much time for us to get him comfortably in his chair and run away and be lovers in my dreams, so, my dreams skip out on the necessary parts of our REAL lives and in dreams, we are free to have any adventure we choose. Well, he just has to go along with it, since he's in MY dream.
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Post by Julia on Aug 11, 2016 21:50:01 GMT -5
Had a dream about my ex and he was randomly a para last week. I was totally thrilled, it wasn't like he just become one in the dream, in the dream I knew he was injured quite awhile ago.When I woke up I almost threw my lap out the window in frustration.
Then last night I had a dream about a random dude who was in a wheelchair, I don't remember what actually happened though.
Won't be surprised if this is the beginning of a dev high XD
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Post by Deleted on Aug 12, 2016 13:56:19 GMT -5
A resurrected thread... well, I usually don't dream about wheelers but about three weeks ago I actually dreamt of a guy who was doing an externship at my workplace and we talked at work and stuff, I had to show him things and I thought he was cute... So I somehow dreamt of him and in the dream he somehow became/was paraplegic and he was super shocked and I was all excited and told him how it is okay and that I like it, I saw him in a wheelchair and all... I woke up and I think I had had a "wet dream"...LOL When I saw him at work the next time I looked at him totally different and it was nice to think about the dream, evil me.... He was a hottie, unfortunately now he is gone again.
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Post by Nia on Aug 15, 2016 7:49:11 GMT -5
I woke up this morning with such a strong emotion after I had such a vivid and hyper realistic dream... This is not about wheelers though .... But I had to share with someone... I was in a hospital room near the bed in which my BF was lying. The room was like ones in Hollywood movies - only one bed, flowers, intimate, cozy light and expensive knitted blanket over the white sheets... So NOT even close to how in reality hospital room look (especially not in Serbia....). The dream (as far as I remember) started at the moment when he was waking up. Even though I was looking at his face at that moment somehow we both knew that his injury (and the reason why we are where we are) was loss of both his legs. I was not suppose to tell him that - we were pass that moment. This was some moment several days upon he was first told. It was unclear in my mind what happened but I was a dev, he knew that so everything was weird as you can imagine it would be if this happened in reality. I remember I was devastated, tired (I actually felt fatigue while sleeping?! it was that real?!?), concerned about what will happen that moment on and I could not believe twisted fate that brought us to the situation like that. As he woke up he was suddenly uncovered (the blanket was moved even though none of us did that) so I could see his body - he was naked only in underpants and his legs were almost completely gone. He only had hardly 6-9cm long 2 perfectly symmetric stumps wrapped in thick white bandages. As he was more sitting then lying (bad back was lifted up) he reached for me with both his arms and we ended up hugging. He started crying. As I wrapped my arms around him I felt strange feeling of a body that is at least twice lighter then it was before and I literally pulled him to check if I am tripping - and I was not. I pulled his whole body towards the bed edge easily - totally effortless. He was not complaining at all and I remember that the moment of realization how light he is caused shock but also I thought to myself that it is good that I will obviously be able to help him during the recovery and carry him until he figures how to transfer himself. This all lasted no longer then 2 minutes but the sensations and emotions I felt were incredibly realistic... At the end, as were hugging and as I have been observing his body over his shoulder he asked me "Are you happy now?". The tone of his voice was so strange. Sad and flat... And I woke up. I was so confused that at that moment I wasn't sure where I was... Of course I didn't share this dream with him... And even though at least 7 hours passed I still feel shaken... I know this dream is patchwork and projection of all that is going on in reality over the past couple of months but still - I can not believe how my brain made this dream for me to make me what??? Die from quilt in realization how badly I (in darkest depths of my mind) want this to happen... No.. I don't know... One more topic for my therapy tmw...
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Post by Nia on Aug 31, 2016 3:45:54 GMT -5
Again I had a devy dream but this time semi funny LOL The dream was about my BFs best friend who is (very) handsome AB guy in real life and in my dream we were suppose to meet for the first time - we invited him to our place. Just, unlike in reality he was a double leg amp and he was in wheel chair. Needless to mention that he was even more handsome as PWD in my dream LOL. He didn't know that I was a dev. And one more important "detail" he is gay - both in reality and in my dream LOL. So, he arrived and we had a lovely evening. As a dev I was totally cool about his disability not paying any attention to it, treating him as any other person, I was not asking weird questions or assuming that by saying something I would offend him etc. To cut the story short he by the end of the evening, he was so amazed by my attitude that he decided to ask me out LOL. So he explained to my BF that since his injury no one ever treated him like I did, that he, after so many time, felt "normal" in my presence and that even though it is obvious that I am not only female but also his best friends GF he will ask me out o a date since he wants to be with me. My BF advised me to accept so I did (he was more having a good time then being jealous) and I remember being super nervous about how to dress Last scene before waking up was me standing on the street and waiting for him. He arrived in a taxi and opened the back door. He was sitting on the back seat and he asked me to have patience since he will need some time to get in the wheel chair and join me. And I remember being super happy for having the opportunity to see all that in real life. All in all nice and weird dream and all would be fine if I was not meeting him today after work to help him with some documents LOL We don't see each other much but today he is coming our place and most probably we will be alone LOL. So help me God not to die from shame LOL
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Post by Julia on Sept 18, 2016 10:29:48 GMT -5
Last night I dreamt I was dating this cute guy who was a RAK and LAE amputee. He wasn't a wheeler but I think it still goes here lol. He was totally defying the laws of physics by not using a chair or crutch to get around in the day long dream, and running/hopping great distances. After our second date he wanted to "do it" and normally I wouldn't want to do that so soon, but omg was he gorgeous! I woke up before anything physical happened and needless to say I was pissed it was all a dream.
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Post by parashoot on Oct 3, 2016 16:28:48 GMT -5
I had my first wheeler dream the other night! Clearly it was prompted by my current dev high and PD obsession.
Do you ever have a dream about someone real and then have a crush on for a bit, even though you didn't have any feeling like that before the dream? I once had a month long crush on Seth Rogan after a dream and I've twice had little crushes on coworkers after dreaming about them...
Anyway, the other night I had a dream where I was hanging out with friends and a boyfriend in a basement. I was bored, so I went upstairs and there was a guy up there I realized I really liked. We cuddled or something, and then my "boyfriend" came up from the basement. I realized he had long greasy hair and no teeth. The upstairs guy I realized was a super hot low quad.
Now I feel like fantasizing about this hot quad, even though I have never been into quads before.
Haha I think I take dreams too seriously.
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Post by Emma on Oct 3, 2016 18:10:19 GMT -5
I distinctly remember something like that happening in high school. I had a dream I was dating this guy Ian, who went to my school but was a grade below me. I wasn't friends or anything with him though. After that I had a real life crush on him.
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Post by parashoot on Oct 3, 2016 18:54:55 GMT -5
I distinctly remember something like that happening in high school. I had a dream I was dating this guy Ian, who went to my school but was a grade below me. I wasn't friends or anything with him though. After that I had a real life crush on him. My fantasy men are ALWAYS named Ian. Haha!!
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Post by elyse on Oct 4, 2016 14:16:09 GMT -5
Do you ever have a dream about someone real and then have a crush on for a bit, even though you didn't have any feeling like that before the dream? I once had a month long crush on Seth Rogan after a dream and I've twice had little crushes on coworkers after dreaming about them... On a similar note, but not really about dreams... Curious if anyone else gets a crush on disabled characters in fantasy? Some devvy characters in movies/tv I get a huuuge crush/ completely obsess over the character and then by extension the actor too... even though they are AB irl or other roles
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Post by bowlergrl0524 on Oct 4, 2016 20:32:26 GMT -5
On a similar note, but not really about dreams... Curious if anyone else gets a crush on disabled characters in fantasy? Some devvy characters in movies/tv I get a huuuge crush/ completely obsess over the character and then by extension the actor too... even though they are AB irl or other roles MEEE!!!!! LOL. This totally happened with me when I was younger with Jason Ritter in Joan of Arcadia. Then it also happened with Covert Affairs and Christopher Gorham. I still see Auggie Anderson, I don't care what his role actually is LOL.
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Post by dolly on Oct 4, 2016 21:16:28 GMT -5
On a similar note, but not really about dreams... Curious if anyone else gets a crush on disabled characters in fantasy? Some devvy characters in movies/tv I get a huuuge crush/ completely obsess over the character and then by extension the actor too... even though they are AB irl or other roles MEEE!!!!! LOL. This totally happened with me when I was younger with Jason Ritter in Joan of Arcadia. Then it also happened with Covert Affairs and Christopher Gorham. I still see Auggie Anderson, I don't care what his role actually is LOL. michael weatherly will always be 'logan cale' to me... sigh.
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Post by Emma on Oct 5, 2016 0:42:20 GMT -5
On a similar note, but not really about dreams... Curious if anyone else gets a crush on disabled characters in fantasy? Some devvy characters in movies/tv I get a huuuge crush/ completely obsess over the character and then by extension the actor too... even though they are AB irl or other roles Yup I have had that too. I'm not that big on disabled movies and fiction but went through a HUGE Daredevil phase where I was totally obsessed with Ben Affleck. That was back when he was single and I went so far as to write him a letter and send it to all the addresses I could find online for him. I was on a message board for him even! The thing that made it even worse was that he went to the same sleep away summer camp as I did - we weren't there at the same time, but still it was a special place to me and knowing he was there a few years before me made things more intense for me. It's kind of embarrassing to talk about this all now but I also recognize that the obsession was mostly fueled by my devness and the disabled character he played.
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Post by Julia on Oct 5, 2016 7:22:54 GMT -5
I once had a dream about the character Danny Messer in CSI NY when he was a para in the show
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