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Post by Deleted on Sept 11, 2016 3:44:42 GMT -5
Nvm I missed the quotes
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Post by lars on Sept 11, 2016 4:55:49 GMT -5
If that quote was a poem, it's the worst excuse for dada that I've seen in a while. In the light of what you've been writing on here, on Reddit, and on WC, it looks a lot more like a confession to me.
There are so many wildly fantastical elements in your stories that it makes it difficult to figure out which elements are true and which are not. First there was the sadistic psycho dev with the needle, then there were the details about your injury and how, as a guy with a C-something to T-something complete injury, you made your dick work by the power of thought and meditation. Really? Now it doesn't work? Surprise, motherfuckers.
What I don't like is that some new girls might join the site and mistake some of your stories for something real. If I recall right, the last time you also went back on to delete some parts of what you've been writing. I don't think that you're a full-on fake, but I think that "poem" about lying and manipulating was one of the few truly honest things you've been writing online.
Just watch out.
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Post by Deleted on Sept 11, 2016 5:32:04 GMT -5
What a wicked thing to do
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Post by jalapeno on Sept 11, 2016 6:07:46 GMT -5
If that quote was a poem, it's the worst excuse for dada that I've seen in a while. In the light of what you've been writing on here, on Reddit, and on WC, it looks a lot more like a confession to me. There are so many wildly fantastical elements in your stories that it makes it difficult to figure out which elements are true and which are not. First there was the sadistic psycho dev with the needle, then there were the details about your injury and how, as a guy with a C-something to T-something complete injury, you made your dick work by the power of thought and meditation. Really? Now it doesn't work? Surprise, motherfuckers. What I don't like is that some new girls might join the site and mistake some of your stories for something real. If I recall right, the last time you also went back on to delete some parts of what you've been writing. I don't think that you're a full-on fake, but I think that "poem" about lying and manipulating was one of the few truly honest things you've been writing online. Just watch out. First of all, I find it funny that "Wonk" likes all your posts, instantly. It's kind of cute. You guys are funny. Besties 4 Lyfe! Second of all, I find it hilarious that I've met a few female devs, and chatted with more than a few, and every single one has been completely respectful, understanding, and accepting of me. Whereas, more than a few of the males here think it's a dick-measuring contest and try really hard to make me feel unwelcome and have to defend myself. If the mods needs proof of who I am, what I am, I even have medical reports I am willing to send (only to the mods) to shut you haters up once and for all. third of all, I never said it was a poem. But if it was, you have no right to call it "the worst excuse for dada" who are you to judge my writing? I used that as an example. It's a stream of conscious output that I posted during a difficult time in my life when I broke up with a woman for the sole reason of her having kids. So I had to question myself and wonder if I ever really cared about anyone. I'm not afraid to admit I've been through severe bouts of depression, and I'm not afraid to say I've traversed the internet, chat rooms, message boards, in order to pour my feelings and my thoughts -- no matter how dark they were. You're saying you've never had dark thoughts? Fourth of all, that quote was taken out of context, and it was on a reddit account that I only used when I was feeling down on myself. You didn't see that quote, you saw the quote of the quote posted on this forum by someone else whose username I cannot remember. what's the difference between what I said and people who have "cute aggression" and wanna squish a cute kitten or a baby? it's just human nature, we have these thoughts going through our heads, we ignore them, some of us write them down, and some yet also post them for others to see -- it's psychology 101. Fifth of all, if anyone's comments are put under the microscope and taken out of context they can look bad FOR EXAMPLE:
- You've called yourself a "Douchebag" as well as an "asshole" numerous times -- looking through your previous post history. - you've also admitted how you felt about devs as "the shady concept of devotees seemed absurd" am I suppose to judge you for something you thought when you were 19 and still dealing with thoughts about your injury? Do you still think devs are shady and absurd? should the devs here feel offended over something you thought when you were having a tough time in life? - You've also said youve done "plenty of judging"- you've also said you "have that same need for competition" so you think this forum is a competition between the men for the attention of the female devs? I see this as a community for like-minded people to get together. It's not a competition. And Any man who views life as a competition is clearly compensating for many insecurities. So I find your little disclaimer at the end for "any devs" to take caution is funny. - you've also said "I did my share of catfishing as well as a coping mechanism, just pretending to be my old AB self." so you're guilty of lying to women, hiding your disability, and lying to yourself and pretending. that's just a quick example of how things can be misunderstood/taken out of context, but I'm not judging you, even though you're judging me. >>>> also you have a story about a random girl coming up to you (out of the blue) and writing you a love letter -- ENTIRELY IN HER BLOOD -- I don't care enough about you to dissect your story, but honestly? do you think that's believable at all? in this day and age, a random girl came up to you, to profess her love, instead of chatting or saying anything, hands you a letter -- no, a LOVE letter, written ENTIRELY in her blood? and all you did was say it won't work out? that's the type of person you help find a mental institution, inform her parents, her family, the local police, that's a serious mentally ill person who could be harmful to herself and others; assuming any part of that is true, which it is clearly not, in what fantastical world do you think anyone would believe that? I know you're a student, as am I: So I will offer you an easy $350! prove to me that actually happened, and I will send you the money via paypal, or any other method you prefer. Whatcha think? can you prove your wild tale? Here's a link to the post in question: paradevo.proboards.com/post/158551/threadanyway, this is getting boring, but you know what? I will not leave this forum. No matter how some of the males try to make this an unwelcoming and hostile place, I will continue to post and be myself. I will be the champion of the newbies you guys try to run out of here. Because this is a forum that's open to anyone who wants to join, and if anyone has any doubt as to who I am -- contact the mods. The mods will then contact me and we can arrange a skype session, I have also recently unearthed some old documents from my accident which say exactly the fact that I have a spinal cord injury and confirm exactly where on my spine. I've not lied about anything. And every spinal cord injury is different. I used to have erections which I could maintain; now I do not. I used to have very little spasms; now I have so much I take pills for it. I used to not have any pains; now I take opiates to control neuropathic pain. Things change over time with SCI. So you can feel free to keep doubting whatever I say, it makes no difference to me, I'm still here, and I'm still gonna talk to my dev friends here and the last thing I will add is, this is a direct quote from you in the thread "what are your hobbies on PD" you said "I bully people on PD."ahhhh.... makes sense :-) thanks for participating in my thread! cheers, buddy.
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Post by Lee on Sept 11, 2016 7:43:15 GMT -5
Well, things have escalated to the point where Devogirl asked me to step in.
I read over jalapeños story. Does it have some inconsistencies? Maybe. Could be exaggerated? Possibly. So somebody on the Internet exaggerated a story about themselves. Anyone who says they have not told a lie or exaggeration on the Internet in their lifetime is lying.
Look, all we can do here is call out people who are very obviously lying. Who are clearly posting under multiple identities, stealing photos that are not their own, and blatantly fooling people. As for people who are exaggerating details about themselves or telling harmless lies, it's not something we can possibly police. It would be ridiculous for me to tell everyone that they have to be 100% honest or else.
Keep in mind that there are plenty of women here who have no intention of meeting the love of their life here. If Jalapeño tells a woman like that some exaggerated stories, what is the harm?
Wonk, Lars, I understand your concerns. You don't want an innocent Dev to get deceived and hurt. I get that. You have duly warned the women on this board that the stories may be exaggerated. Your job is done. You don't need to persistently harass Jalapeño, because that is what it is turning into. If this were happening to my kids at school, it would be called bullying and everyone would be in the principals office.
If anyone has solid evidence that a person on this board is being deceptive and harmful, please let the mods know. Don't take it upon yourself to persistently pick apart every single post they make. And both PWDs and devs should be aware that anyone you talk to on this board or on the internet could very possibly be deceiving you, and always take steps to protect yourself.
I'm not going to give any more warnings at this point. We are all adults here and I trust that the issue is now resolved. Whatever the veracity of jalapeños story, he certainly brings up some good points worth discussing.
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Post by newjess on Sept 11, 2016 9:49:23 GMT -5
Have you ever tried chilies on your willie? Perhaps a... jalapeno ?
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Post by Mets on Sept 11, 2016 11:29:02 GMT -5
You could probably channel all of this anger and frustration into a different area... Might do the trick
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Post by fallinginreverse on Sept 11, 2016 14:12:39 GMT -5
this thread gave me diabetes
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Post by Pony on Sept 12, 2016 18:21:19 GMT -5
Before this thread spiraled downward there was some interesting, rare, discussion. Girls are so diverse in what turns them on, and what they like sexually. i find it interesting, each woman has her own buttons, but I think society, in general, thinks they all need intercourse, or they will be unsatisfied. Most of us realize there's other ways to make a girl cum, especially the girl herself. lol but there's no denying some girls want D, some like rough fuckin doggystyle. Hopefully they aren't devs, or they might find themselves very frustrated. In fact, makes me wonder how a girl could a dev if getting pounded is their thing, but maybe i'm wrong.
God made toys for us dudes...they open doors to things D can't do! nipple clamps, anal plug, vibrators can really be tools of great fun, but it's the chemistry between dev n chairdude that REALLY makes it all work. Now, if she still wants D, then a decision has to be made. I might be open to her getting it, depending on our relationship. It's weird, but some girls you're more jealous about than others. Some girls couldn't care less about D, and i would think it would be hard to be with AB guys that, you know, that's their thing.
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Post by jalapeno on Sept 13, 2016 6:43:17 GMT -5
Before this thread spiraled downward there was some interesting, rare, discussion. Girls are so diverse in what turns them on, and what they like sexually. i find it interesting, each woman has her own buttons, but I think society, in general, thinks they all need intercourse, or they will be unsatisfied. Most of us realize there's other ways to make a girl cum, especially the girl herself. lol but there's no denying some girls want D, some like rough fuckin doggystyle. Hopefully they aren't devs, or they might find themselves very frustrated. In fact, makes me wonder how a girl could a dev if getting pounded is their thing, but maybe i'm wrong. God made toys for us dudes...they open doors to things D can't do! nipple clamps, anal plug, vibrators can really be tools of great fun, but it's the chemistry between dev n chairdude that REALLY makes it all work. Now, if she still wants D, then a decision has to be made. I might be open to her getting it, depending on our relationship. It's weird, but some girls you're more jealous about than others. Some girls couldn't care less about D, and i would think it would be hard to be with AB guys that, you know, that's their thing. I agree - there are a lot of ways to give a woman pleasure, but society (And media) has narrowed it down to one -- and, thereby, has convinced many people, men and women alike, that PiV sex is the end-all be-all of sex. Thankfully, in recent years, in television and film; it has become more common to see a man going down on a woman. I'd argue that pre 90's, it'd be rare to find a film or TV show that shows a man performing oral sex on a woman. Furthermore, you bring up a good point. One of the reasons I originally made this thread. I wanted to know; how can a female Dev reconcile these feelings? does that mean all Dev's have accepted the fact and resigned themselves to no longer getting the D? or do Devs naturally not enjoy the D? I'd love to hear from Devs on this forum who DO enjoy the D but have accepted lack of real D due to their attractions to disabled men. Of course, there are alternatives, such as sex toys, dildos, and more.
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Post by Emma on Sept 13, 2016 10:21:47 GMT -5
does that mean all Dev's have accepted the fact and resigned themselves to no longer getting the D? or do Devs naturally not enjoy the D? I'd love to hear from Devs on this forum who DO enjoy the D but have accepted lack of real D due to their attractions to disabled men. Of course, there are alternatives, such as sex toys, dildos, and more. This is a discussion board for devs attracted to men with all types of disabilities, not just SCI. There are lots of disabled guys here who do not have erection issues. Also don't assume the devs here are only into SCI.
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Post by jalapeno on Sept 13, 2016 10:42:45 GMT -5
does that mean all Dev's have accepted the fact and resigned themselves to no longer getting the D? or do Devs naturally not enjoy the D? I'd love to hear from Devs on this forum who DO enjoy the D but have accepted lack of real D due to their attractions to disabled men. Of course, there are alternatives, such as sex toys, dildos, and more. This is a discussion board for devs attracted to men with all types of disabilities, not just SCI. There are lots of disabled guys here who do not have erection issues. Also don't assume the devs here are only into SCI. relax. I'm aware of that. Perhaps I should have been more specific, but I thought it was obvious -- as this is an SCI issue and this entire thread was me talking about my SCI and the issues that arise from it. I didn't say all Dev's are only into SCI men. so specifically my curiosity is with the female Dev's who are attracted to SCI, or even other disabilities that tend to come with ED (Erectile Dysfunction) -- do you go in knowing that it may be an issue? do you tell yourself if it is you are willing to look past it? do you worry about it? is it even a concern?
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Post by Inigo Montoya on Sept 13, 2016 14:45:57 GMT -5
I was adamant that I never wanted dick when it came to having relations with para guys, but ironically I ended up dating the biggest, thickest dick in England. Made me chuckle.
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Post by Pony on Sept 13, 2016 15:48:33 GMT -5
There truly are a LOT of big dick paras n quads...figuratively AND literally! lol My roommate in rehab had the biggest one, literally, i ever saw. And there were many big Ds, figuratively.
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