blindlover
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Post by blindlover on Aug 27, 2018 7:17:57 GMT -5
Aside from the appropriateness of this post, which I can't judge being a newbi myself, I just wanted to share that also as a blind person, this treat was really enriching for me to read through. While I don't have to deal with the struggles that are described here, it is still one of the first times I have come accross a discussion about this toppic. With the friends I have with different disabilities than mine, such issues are almost never talked aboutt, while I off course attempt to understand all aspects of the world they live in. So thank you from my side for sharing.
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808sollut
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Post by 808sollut on Nov 26, 2018 17:47:00 GMT -5
You all crack me up. I love when a bunch of kinksters look down their noses and clutch their pearls because a disabled guy brought up masturbation on a board about sex with disabled people. I guess if he posted some like relational drama and then some threads about crochet... then can we talk about sex without setting off alarms for the Internet Politeness Brigade? Are you all offended on behalf of yourselves or someone else? Have you tried... getting over yourselves? Maybe you all need to post a sticky about the topics you consider acceptable for first posts, because I can't figure it out. Not a very welcoming bunch, or some of us anyhow, but welcome to the party all the same NycGuy Now this is what I am talking about. Alrighty Aphrodite, show everybody how it’s done!!!!
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808sollut
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Post by 808sollut on Nov 26, 2018 17:55:18 GMT -5
How about just choose not to be offended. It’s just chatter on an Internet forum. I don’t care what anyone says or thinks. My happiness is my responsibility. In fact. I’m dying to hear a crippled joke, tasteless or otherwise.
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808sollut
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Post by 808sollut on Nov 26, 2018 18:01:54 GMT -5
There are some who are enhanced by their disability as well. Who enjoy more pleasure than an AB has. I feel really bad for those who can’t have an orgasm. Or ejaculate. It’s an unfair injustice. Every person should be able to enjoy orgasms as often as the want.
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nofacue
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Post by nofacue on Nov 26, 2018 20:19:16 GMT -5
NYC2018 — you can always grab a sock....my friends call it “ pulling a 1960’s “ IDK.....no muss no fuss ....they say... But I don’t hangout with them anymore....so.....yeah good luck strokin
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Post by FlyingBert on Nov 26, 2018 21:11:14 GMT -5
Nobody here with mind-power masturbation? Am I weird?
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Post by Braced4Impact on Nov 26, 2018 21:34:00 GMT -5
Nobody here with mind-power masturbation? Am I weird? If you mean can I get off without touching myself? Yes, yes I can do that. Can I use telekinesis to make others masturbate? No...not yet...
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gimpygay
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Post by gimpygay on Nov 27, 2018 4:47:17 GMT -5
The important thing about this site is that people can post about anything Dev and Disability-related. I'm all in favour of masturbation whether flying solo or even better, with a friend.I hope you find a solution to your problem.
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Post by PacMan on May 17, 2019 21:01:02 GMT -5
Thank god I can crack one off when I like.
What I basically mean is I’ve known so many disabled guys throughout my life that have not been able to use their arms which has meant they can’t masturbate. I can’t even begin to imagine the frustration and perhaps unhappiness this must bring to some people.
Yes okay I have to admit my situation is far from perfect and I’d much rather have a normal sex life with someone but its not happing for me and to be honest I don’t think it ever really will, however at least when the pipes need cleaned I can do this myself.
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Post by britishtetra on May 18, 2019 2:36:00 GMT -5
Well I have to be honest, I haven’t masturbated since my accident t, or had someone do it for me. So that’s thirty years next year! I think it’s because I cannot use my hands and when I was in my youth, I went through an “experience”. My dad caught me, and gave me a smack … wanker😊 (Hope I can swear) although recently I have been watching YouTube videos,about the quadriplegic who can orgasm through stimulation of the head. I too have sensitive areas on my scalp, but alas no partners fingers to explore. Don’t get me wrong, I do think of it, but perhaps I won’t be “arriving” 😂 at that conclusion soon.
Pete,
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Post by Sir Paul on May 18, 2019 12:33:44 GMT -5
Wow, this thread got res-ERECT-ed!
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Post by dave78 on May 25, 2019 1:52:37 GMT -5
I don’t think anyone was offended, just a little surprised to see it with no introduction or anything. I actually posted almost the same question when I was a new member myself, it’s a legit topic that PWDs think about and have little to no outlet to discuss. Nonetheless, it is still an unusual way to introduce yourself On here you could say it's as good as a handshake. Also, "posting a sticky"! Makes me think of a single guy that is out of sticky notes, but has tons of scrap paper, and an idea. Welcome to the party NYC guy!
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Post by wonk on May 25, 2019 3:50:01 GMT -5
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