Post by medman on Jan 8, 2020 14:16:53 GMT -5
And now after going back through most of the post in this thread .
I really don't see that a dev is a "fetish" any more than guys like a woman with blond hair I feel that it would or might be compaired to someone who wants to meet or a relationship with a blond with a real small waist but short legs .
Not being too general but EVERYONE wants to be with someone that they are
1 attracted to
2 they are compatible with
3 and they would be able to fall in love with .
I am a little older than most and have actually had several girlfriends since before and after my accident .
And actually the girl i was dating when I had my accident came up to see me and I told her at that time if you can't handle the idea that I am now paralyzed then dont come back . I was 20 and it wasn't a serious relationship but She couldn't handle it and i never saw her again . Then have had women that didnt expect that I could even "get it up " .
Then I have also wore a few out when I took a blue pill.
But what i hope I get out there to understand is I believe that being a dev is not necessarily a fetish in my way of thinking its what or who you are attracted to .Because reading Dani post still no one here sounds like they would walk up and drag someone that happens to be a wheelchair use off to just have a fast roll in the bed .
I think everyone here would at least be attracted mind body and sole no matter how they meet .
Ok my thumbs are tired .
So please let me know if I have it right or not .
While I personally don't consider my devness to be a fetish, there are plenty of devs who:
DO think their attraction is mostly or fully sexual and/or
DO consider their devness to be a fetish and/or
ARE only looking for sex.
Note that all 3 do not necessarily occur within the same person, although they can.
The point is that we are a varied group of individuals and you shouldn't assume that just because we are all devs we all think the same way. Being a dev affects each one of us differently.
Maybe I do have it wrong and sorry if my definition is off key .
This is the first site that I have been to on this subject .
I didn't really know what a dev was until reading here on this forum . And I'm glad I found it because the people here are not judging anyone about any topic and thats why I joined as I said in a different post .
And Im not here to be judged BUT I do want people to be honest with me if I say something wrong or be corrected so I dont offend anyone here because as i have seen posted so far I am not judged in any way possible . But i do want to be corrected when Im wrong .
Thanks All