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Post by Braced4Impact on Feb 28, 2023 14:08:02 GMT -5
I was thinking it's probably a good idea to have thread on how new members can navigate things easier here in the beginning.
1: If you're a PWD (person with disability) the Devs Only section is exactly that, don't post there, don't react to any comments there, and don't bring up any topics from there into other sub-boards; it's for devs only, and you get strikes on your name if you violate it. 2: There are two ways to reply to a thread; the quick reply which automatically populates on the bottom of the screen or the "Reply" button that it's the text field on the far right. If you click that, you get a more advanced way to post including adding images. The little menu above shows a little button that looks like a landscape, that's the "insert image" link. Click that and a text box will open. Paste the image URL (right click on the image you want and copy image location) and it automatically does the HTML stuff for you. You can also change your font color, size, italics, bold, add links, YouTube videos, etc.
3: Speaking of images, this site has a data limit, so don't attach pictures, even though it's an option. Host them on a sharable place like IMGUR or something like that and use the insert image link as mentioned above. Facebook or places with logins won't work usually. Make sure they're safe for work images, no nudity, hate, offensive stuff.
4: Be civil and polite; you can disagree without getting into insults and personal attacks. Also keep talks of an adult nature to a reasonable minimum, these boards are monitored by the company that owns the service and we don't want to get in trouble with them.
5: If you're new here, you cannot send a personal message to anyone until you hit 10 posts or replies. People who are able to send messages can send it to you though. 6: If you find an old thread about the chat room, it no longer exists. 7: Try not to spam the board with the same posts; if you want an old post to get attention, try bumping it up by replying to it. 8: No one owes you anything here. You may be a PWD who thinks a devotee will swoon at your very existence, but it might not happen. Same goes for a dev and PWD. We're all regular people with preferences, desires and interests that are unique and not everyone will be a match just because you're a PWD or dev. 9: If you have a problem with someone, don't air your dirty laundry in the public. If someone is harassing you, message the moderators like devogirl or dolly 10: English only, please. Though the site is international, the mods speak English and it's impossible to moderate in all different languages to make sure the rules are being followed.
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Post by ayla on Feb 28, 2023 18:12:34 GMT -5
Great idea braced!
Some more subtle ideas and tips:
Like many things in life, with this community you get out of it what you put into it.
-If everyone waits for someone else to start a good topic, then no topics get started and the board goes dead. This isn't like newer social media platforms where you "follow" a content creator who entertains you, and participate mainly via likes or reacts. On message boards, you create the content. I know it can be intimidating, but get the ball rolling and see what happens.
-Take the time to build trust with others if you want to have a real connection (meaning, don't overshare too quickly or ask too many personal questions too soon). This is obviously pretty subjective as one person's "overshare" is another person's "casual conversation," but basically just be mindful about how this is a sensitive topic for many and there are catfish and worse on both sides of the dynamic. At the same time, if you don't share information about yourself don't expect that others are going to feel comfortable sharing in return. Some ways to build trust are: participate regularly and respectfully, make personal connections in DM (again, respectfully), ask thoughtful questions, join video or voice chats if they are available (or offer to host -- I have done this and can offer advice).
-It's okay to disagree. In fact I'd say some level of disagreement makes for an interesting topic! Otherwise it's just a list of people saying "me too" or "I agree" (which is sometimes super important and much needed, but if things are always like that it gets a little boring). I think in recent years people have generally gotten less willing to engage with people outside their echo chamber, which is a shame. We can have different viewpoints and still respect one another. Try to read people's comments with a neutral or generous tone rather than feeling attacked or called out, and when you disagree do it without personal attacks. We deal with some tough issues around stigma, ableism, sexuality, discrimination, human rights/disability advocacy, social supports, family planning, relationship issues, personal insecurities... this could be an amazing place to talk about all of that. Try to make it so!
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Post by eewee on Mar 5, 2023 14:30:28 GMT -5
Thank you for these posts. I've just joined and am not at all active on social media. I had one question:
What is the benefit for "friend"ing someone?
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Post by Braced4Impact on Mar 5, 2023 14:46:13 GMT -5
Thank you for these posts. I've just joined and am not at all active on social media. I had one question: What is the benefit for "friend"ing someone? Other than showing them you appreciate them, I honestly don't know. |
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Post by eewee on Mar 6, 2023 15:57:40 GMT -5
Thank you for these posts. I've just joined and am not at all active on social media. I had one question: What is the benefit for "friend"ing someone? Other than showing them you appreciate them, I honestly don't know. Ok, that's what I thought. Thank you |
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Post by Braced4Impact on Mar 8, 2023 8:30:08 GMT -5
Very cool, thanks devogirl Of course, whether people choose to read or follow the advice is an entirely different animal. |
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Post by Braced4Impact on Mar 8, 2023 8:33:12 GMT -5
I made #1 slightly...more noticeable.
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Post by infinatedreams on Mar 8, 2023 8:35:41 GMT -5
I made #1 slightly...more noticeable. just a touch đđ |
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Post by Dani on Mar 8, 2023 23:11:37 GMT -5
Thank you for that!
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Post by atlwheelin on Mar 9, 2023 5:27:15 GMT -5
*pats myself on the back*. Who am I kidding? I can't physical do that at all!
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Post by loveonaroll2 on Mar 9, 2023 8:59:56 GMT -5
Lol đ
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Post by eewee on Mar 9, 2023 15:08:01 GMT -5
I made #1 slightly...more noticeable. just a touch đđ maybe a little  |
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Post by eewee on Mar 9, 2023 15:08:52 GMT -5
*pats myself on the back*. Who am I kidding? I can't physical do that at all! Me neither |
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Post by atlwheelin on Mar 9, 2023 15:45:29 GMT -5
*pats myself on the back*. Who am I kidding? I can't physical do that at all! Me neither Another similarity goes on the list! |
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Post by AlrightyAphrodite on Mar 9, 2023 16:36:01 GMT -5
Also post links, don't embed photos pls
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