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Post by dolly on Mar 23, 2011 0:00:42 GMT -5
A wheelchair can go a long way toward making someone good looking! (How is that for a sound bite?) having said that ... if im going to have a wank its always about a guy in a chair ... (just thought i would share ) both of these statements cracked me up.
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Post by wonk on Mar 23, 2011 4:05:19 GMT -5
having said that ... if im going to have a wank its always about a guy in a chair ... (just thought i would share ) Stop it your making me blush
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Post by ruthmadison on Mar 23, 2011 9:20:08 GMT -5
im picky ... just cos the guy is in a chair dont mean that im all about him. the chair helps ... but its not everything for me. having said that ... if im going to have a wank its always about a guy in a chair ... (just thought i would share ) Yes, this exactly. If I want a relationship, then I want a guy who is compatible, and has a good personality, etc. I'm not that picky on looks, average looking is usually pretty cute to me. But some guys (in wheelchairs) are so freaking hot I just want to sleep with them, even when they are jerks. And I do, given the opportunity.
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Post by Emma on Mar 23, 2011 10:11:39 GMT -5
So if we are just talking about looks (because we all get it by now that it's not JUST about looks)........
I had the opposite situation with AB guys. I was only attracted to AB guys who I considered super hot and had a very specific look It really cut down on the number of guys I'd be willing to date. When it comes to guys who are amputees I have more typical standards in terms of looks. So maybe it's like Wonk said put a guy in a chair/make him an amputee and his attractiveness goes up for me.
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Post by nightstar80 on Mar 23, 2011 11:56:59 GMT -5
Aw duuuuuude, I did NOT want to see that! Eccckkkkghh!!!!
..Well, I guess to some women, monetary power is where it's at.
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Post by ~Z28gal~ on Mar 23, 2011 14:52:59 GMT -5
... at least a good, noticeable limp! Hahahah... cracked me up! lemons: I'm the same way! My reasoning is that I'm not *actually* attracted to AB guys, so to even THINK I am attracted to him, an AB guy has to be super hot (or at least what I'd consider super hot!). Any attraction to a hot AB guy is more an appreciation of masculine beauty than being turned on by them though, in my case anyways.
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Post by E on Mar 23, 2011 23:29:41 GMT -5
A woman once told me she doesn't like men with money because they have money. She likes the kind of man that's capable of earning money, who possesses the sum total of skills, traits, emotional maturity, relationship handling, etc. that allow him to bring in a good income.
That made sense to me.
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Post by Emma on Mar 24, 2011 1:30:39 GMT -5
Any attraction to a hot AB guy is more an appreciation of masculine beauty than being turned on by them though, in my case anyways. I totally agree and LOVE the term masculine beauty, it fits well.
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Post by ruthmadison on Mar 24, 2011 8:01:46 GMT -5
I'm not interested in "rich bastards" type, you know? I don't need a lot of money, I don't have expensive taste at all, but there's something deeply safe feeling about a man who can and does earn enough to be comfortable. I'd still rather be his first priority, though Sucks when he cares about work so much that he forgets you exist and you get stood up.
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Post by matisse on Mar 24, 2011 10:23:37 GMT -5
A woman once told me she doesn't like men with money because they have money. She likes the kind of man that's capable of earning money, who possesses the sum total of skills, traits, emotional maturity, relationship handling, etc. that allow him to bring in a good income. That made sense to me. Hmmm, I don't get it. Does she mean she doesn't want a guy who didn't have to work for his money? Or that she just wants to get the guy on his way up, instead of when he's already there. If that's the case, does she dump him when he does start to really bring in the bucks?
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Post by audrewsmith on Mar 24, 2011 13:15:23 GMT -5
deposit millions into my bank account and i will show you how happy i will be! money cannot buy one's total happiness but definitely will make one's life very comfortable and comfortable life is a kind of happiness we all seek for. if $100.000 in your bank account will make u less concern about your financial situation, a $1,000,000 will give you a smile. why people with money is attractive? because they feel confident and confidence is a kind of attraction. a pair of twins with some personality, appearance and loving u equally,but one is rich and other is struggling, which one you will choose?
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Post by E on Mar 24, 2011 16:45:01 GMT -5
A woman once told me she doesn't like men with money because they have money. She likes the kind of man that's capable of earning money, who possesses the sum total of skills, traits, emotional maturity, relationship handling, etc. that allow him to bring in a good income. That made sense to me. Hmmm, I don't get it. Does she mean she doesn't want a guy who didn't have to work for his money? Or that she just wants to get the guy on his way up, instead of when he's already there. If that's the case, does she dump him when he does start to really bring in the bucks? She means that she wants a competent, capable person -- not a loser. A person ABLE to earn an income. In order to make money, you have to have your act together in a few different areas.
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Post by Ray T on Mar 31, 2011 12:29:22 GMT -5
I feel that i must repeat "Money can't buy you Happiness, However it can rent it"
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Post by k8 on Apr 2, 2011 13:10:08 GMT -5
I was thinking the same thing all the time I was reading this thread. lol That being said, however, I have lived to experience where money can ruin a person, and make him lose all his peace of mind, humor and kindness because of money. My ex grew up poor, but was brilliant, and fairly driven to be rich. That is how he judged success. Money. Problem is...the more he made, the more he wanted, the more he worried. The more he worried, the more paranoid he became, and he started drinking more and more. Sad thing is, alcohol changed this sweet, caring guy into an unreasonable , jealous bully. I kept thinking the old Terry would come back, but it took him nearly beating me to death to see he is gone forever. He has his money, but he isn't happy. I do have to say it was nice going to a store and buying something if I liked it, but it wasn't worth that.
TMI?
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Post by Inigo Montoya on Apr 2, 2011 14:31:09 GMT -5
Hugs, k8.
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