Stud of a Quad in OzLand

[ProudRealist]

Ok, i've been on this board for a while now (not too long though:) but I never actually thought of posting in the "personals" section I tried posting a thread searching for potential friends and lovers in Australia a while back, but that thread was hijacked and it eventually went way off topic

So I thought maybe its time to introduce myself formally in the hope that someone somewhere might be interested in hooking up...who knows

So here goes...

I'm 28 years old, and I live in Sydney Australia. I've been a quad for about 10 years now - a real quad though, so i can't move the arms:) I work fulltime as a Technology Architect and i'm into some property development on the side.

What do I want out of life? Nothing more than what i'm getting right now - a great time! Be it work or play, I always make things fun...I hate negative ppl who whine about their problems...I guess I've never understood how or what could every make life less than perfect ;D If i'm breathing i'm alive, and as long as i'm living I want to enjoy every second of it!

Whilst the good times keep rolling in, I must admit I do miss not having someone special in my life ...not that i'm blaming my physical condition, but it does create an impediment when trying to meet women - it's the whole first impression thing.

Admittedly, up until a year ago I hadn't been privileged to know about the world of Devo's...that there are actually women out there who are pre-disposed to look beyond a wheelchair from the very outset - someone from whom there's no need to hide things because of some misguided idea of 'embarrassment', I mean let's face it, quads are a lot more complex than other people and at the end of the day we will always need that little extra help from others.

What am I looking for? I'm 28 years old and i've NEVER had a real and steady relationship , its easy to satisfy raw physical desires...there are more brothels in Sydney than McDonalds! But for once I want the whole deal, to share a timeless passion with a women I truly know. It's not purely about the 'physical' either, i would love to have a deep a lasting friendship with someone...someone who would know me through & through!

So, there it is...where we go from here is up to yuu?

[jordsbaby]

Come to Adelaide, better than Sydney but still a shithole.

[ProudRealist]

Adelaide huh...never been. I do luv my city though, it'll take quite a bit to convince me to leave:)

[wonk]

Oct 21, 2010 5:32:58 GMT -5 @jordsbaby said:

Come to Adelaide, better than Sydney but still a sh*thole.

I actually like Adelaide, it has a big country town feeling, and it is one of the flattest cities I have been to, great for pushing around, It had good access to most places years before other Australian cities.

It also hosted the best Grand Prix on the calender, much much better than Melbourne.

whoops, sorry about the thread hijack, just ignore and get back to finding someone for him

[jordsbaby]

Oct 21, 2010 6:21:41 GMT -5 wonk said:

Oct 21, 2010 5:32:58 GMT -5 @jordsbaby said:

Come to Adelaide, better than Sydney but still a sh*thole.

I actually like Adelaide, it has a big country town feeling, and it is one of the flattest cities I have been to, great for pushing around, It had good access to most places years before other Australian cities.

It also hosted the best Grand Prix on the calender, much much better than Melbourne.

whoops, sorry about the thread hijack, just ignore and get back to finding someone for him

It's quite flat for the majority, but it can get rather steep around the edges of the town and in the outer suburbs. I live in the south end near the beach and there are some quite large hills around my area.

[ProudRealist]

WARNING WARNING IMMANENT HIJACK - BRACE YOURSELVES!!!:-)

Just kidding...hijack all you want - just wait a while though, give me a grace period till i find ms right.

[jordsbaby]

So aDevosDream, whereabouts in Sydney do you live?

[ProudRealist]

Actually, I live in the inner west, a suburb called Croydon...nice and quiet location....

[jordsbaby]

Oct 22, 2010 1:35:27 GMT -5 ProudRealist said:

Actually, I live in the inner west, a suburb called Croydon...nice and quiet location....

Ah yeah, I know of Croydon. We have a Croydon here in Adelaide too, I do a few of my University units down there when practical stuff is needed.

[charlietuna83]

Hi dream boy. Wish I lived in Australia ( I would love to meet u

[Dee Dee]

ADevoDream; you seem like a nice guy and I wish you the best of luck!

I´m convinced that everybody here can understand the want and need to find that special someone - in the end, that´s what we all wish for

[Triassic]

i'm curious..in such a place where prostitution is legal, how are the sex workers viewd by the community in general? are the girls pariahs...or are they mostly accepted?

[E]

Stripping is legal here. How are strippers viewed?

[Inigo Montoya]

I want to know how you guys view them... I've only ever been to one strip club (it was not a particularly nice one) but I was surprised at how sad it was. I had expected more smiles from the guys.

Are they generally happy places? Do I need to visit more of them?

[Triassic]

e; i live in the tampa bay area...which is known for its plethora of strip clubs of all types; upscale to full on ghetto, nude and bikini, contact to no contact, large, medium and small, etc...

i would say the girls ARE looked-down upon by the public, yeah...especially by other women. most dancers would i think be very reluctant to admit how they make their living. thats why i'm curious about how actual hookers are viewed. cuz strippers are pretty much considered 'whores' by the folks who view the whole thing as immoral.

inigo; strip clubs, in my view, for the most part ARE places of sadness. to be fair tho, most BARS sad too-here i mean bar-bars, liquor bars; not music or places for dancing, or pub-type or restaurant/bars so much. alcohol is a depressant...so a bunch of people drinking in a dark room is, in itself, not a truly happy situation.

and in a strip club, the booze is combined w/chix who mostly don't want to be there and men who aint gonna get what they REALLY want-genuine intimacy. it can be ok if youre young, i geuss. the natural strength and positivity of youth can kinda counteract a largely negative environment.

sorry for the thread hijack, btw...