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Post by 20yoc5 on Jan 5, 2011 2:43:43 GMT -5
I recently started urinating without a catheter, though only immediately following sex. My urologists recommendation includes me receiving oral or having sex as much as possible to facilitate my recovery of bladder function. I had no idea that sexual stimuli would trigger normal bladder for me, but it has. So now I need to find a Good Samaritan in the Boston are who might be able to help me out with this. Any ideas?
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Post by BA on Jan 5, 2011 8:53:25 GMT -5
I recently started urinating without a catheter, though only immediately following sex. My urologists recommendation includes me receiving oral or having sex as much as possible to facilitate my recovery of bladder function. I had no idea that sexual stimuli would trigger normal bladder for me, but it has. So now I need to find a Good Samaritan in the Boston are who might be able to help me out with this. Any ideas? As a veteran medical professional I have to say you are full of crap. Hire a prostitute and use a condom. Do not solicit for sex on this board.
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Post by Dee Dee on Jan 5, 2011 10:40:32 GMT -5
I recently started urinating without a catheter, though only immediately following sex. My urologists recommendation includes me receiving oral or having sex as much as possible to facilitate my recovery of bladder function. I had no idea that sexual stimuli would trigger normal bladder for me, but it has. So now I need to find a Good Samaritan in the Boston are who might be able to help me out with this. Any ideas? As a veteran medical professional I have to say you are full of crap. Hire a prostitute and use a condom. Do not solicit for sex on this board. Yes, indeed, what a load of crap! Or should I say urine?! Seriously dude! Here´s my idea for you: I´m against prostitution, so use your hands or go back to using your catheter .
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Post by 20yoc5 on Jan 5, 2011 11:42:53 GMT -5
Maybe you're not as much of a medical professional as you think. I am being 100% honest. I'm also not soliciting for sex just for ideas. I just don't have any idea where else to look. My urologist works at MGH and specializes in neuro-urology. I don't think he is just making this up. Obviously I tried masturbation first; it had no effect. But sex with three different women all elicited the same response. I don't want to hire a prostitute for myriad reasons. I'm not a troll or a conman, I'm just in a weird circumstance. I thought if any place would be accepting it would be here, but maybe I thought wrong. And I will do whatever it takes to get off catheters. If you needed to use them like many of us here do you would understand exactly where I'm coming from. I never would have expected your reactions. Christ!
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Post by Inigo Montoya on Jan 5, 2011 12:31:55 GMT -5
We've got a guy here who's joined under a couple of different usernames and posts about pee and sex... and we're skittish and suspicious of this kind of stuff because of that. Tbh, that's who I thought you were (ah, it's pee/sex guy again... we normally get a longer reprieve...) but now I've gone back and seen that you actually joined back in 2009 and actually had a tiny conversation then. Also, honestly, your post made me want to make up some bullsh*t reason that I'd need sex. (Aside from just general horniness... ) Try to keep in mind, too, that women hear all kinds of reasons that men need NSA sex. So, well... try not to be too upset and best of luck with your, um, condition? Search? I DO hope you can recover bladder function...
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Post by Dee Dee on Jan 5, 2011 13:42:05 GMT -5
Now look here; 20yoc5! You MAY have the most valid condition in the world, but that does NOT legitimate you coming here automatically assuming that we as devotees are interested in helping a random disabled guy! Is this really the only place you could think of? How about doing what most people do - get a partner to have sex with? Or use a vibrator? I get so very upset because you - willingly or not - reduce us to disability-lusting prostitutes!!!
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Post by Ray T on Jan 5, 2011 15:21:31 GMT -5
You Gals should be a bit kinder to this guy... I to empty my bladder with a bit of stimulation to my penis (doesn’t have to be sex just a bit of stimulation) I only cath every few days to be sure there is no sludge build up in my bladder. It is a bit off putting for him to be asking for help with it, However it is a legit thing that penal stimulation causes bladder function. I know it freaked me out the first time I touched my penis and peed all over myself.
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Post by 20yoc5 on Jan 5, 2011 15:31:54 GMT -5
@inigo No problem, I totally get that. three weeks ago I'd have thought it was BS too.
@devodiva I get what you're saying, but I'm only asking for advice. I don't want to have to be in a relationship; I think it would place an unfair burden on the girl. Which is why I'm looking for something NSA. I have a relatively narrow window and don't want to miss it. And in now way am I "[reducing you] to disability-lusting prostitutes!!!" This is a forum where sex with disabled people is discussed. I think my question is perfectly valid, and in no way demeaning. I've tried every conventional method I could think of, and just hoped one of you might have some insight. But your hostility leaves a bad mark on what is generally a good community.
@rayt Glad to hear I'm not the only one ho experiences this. Clearly there are some "veteran medical professionals" that could stand to learn something.
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Post by Dee Dee on Jan 5, 2011 16:57:19 GMT -5
So now I need to find a Good Samaritan in the Boston are who might be able to help me out with this. Any ideas? "Just" looking for insight??? Yeah, right! This is a website for devotees - NOT an advisory board for people with disability-related peeing problems. Do not come here as a 20 year old with few posts and and tell long-term and respected members about leaving bad marks! Show some respect for this community and what it stands for. End of discussion on my part.
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Post by 20yoc5 on Jan 5, 2011 19:13:59 GMT -5
Of course I'm looking for more than just insight, but that's all I want from this site. Believe me or not, but I'm not begging you guys for sex, just trying to get ideas on how to find something peculiar elsewhere. The length of time you've been a part of this community is irrelevant to the fact that you have a lousy attitude towards me and my dilemma for no reason. I thought by opening a new discussion here I was respecting the community, but if the consensus is I'm just some creep, I'll get rid of my account and leave you alone.
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Post by E on Jan 6, 2011 2:00:13 GMT -5
Interesting that the penis stimuli has to be oral.
I didn't know bladders were so picky.
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Post by E on Jan 6, 2011 2:00:56 GMT -5
What about the three women you had sex with?
One of them might be a good start.
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Post by Triassic on Jan 6, 2011 2:09:25 GMT -5
i was wondering that myself...
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Post by brace4impact on Jan 6, 2011 6:28:31 GMT -5
LMAO. I wonder if this has been tried in bars?
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Post by wheelieInCali on Jan 6, 2011 10:43:28 GMT -5
Just flick the head like a syringe until the urine starts. Push like you're giving birth and I'm sure urine will flow. You're going to make some lucky lady very happy.
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