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Post by ruthmadison on Mar 13, 2011 22:03:04 GMT -5
Well, this weekend confirmed my suspicions that I can't get intimate with ab guys. So frustrating, but good to know...  |
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Post by ruthmadison on Mar 15, 2011 12:33:53 GMT -5
...and WELCOME back, Chan!! I'd wondered where you'd gone. Like you, I can go FOREVER without sex. YEARS even. I've done it... and never missed it. I do wonder what it would be like with a wheeler. I used to worry that my lack of interest would remain the same... I DID for the first time EVER see a wheeler in the town where I work about a month ago. He was freaking HOTT, long hair, sunglasses... I was moving my car from one parking space to another. I just stared at him, smiled, and almost ran off the road. I seriously considered ditching work to just follow him...  I didn't... but I really wanted to. I used to be indifferent to sex and then after I had slept with a wheeler, well, that changed everything! I came to crave it the way you always hear about. lol. Now I feel like I'm addicted, I hate going long spells without it (but it still doesn't work with non-disabled guys, I seem to have some more serious issues with that than just devness) |
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Post by ~Z28gal~ on Mar 15, 2011 13:37:37 GMT -5
Like you, I can go FOREVER without sex. YEARS even. I've done it... and never missed it. I do wonder what it would be like with a wheeler. I'm the same way, though I absolutely CRAVE physical contact sometimes. Not sex, just a hug!!! I have a sneaking suspicion all that might change if/when I get really comfortable with a wheeler though. Could be dangerous... @ruth:  That's rough. Sometimes I want sooo bad to settle, because it would be easier and because I'm a total cuddle-holic. |
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Post by Emma on Mar 15, 2011 18:54:43 GMT -5
I'm a cuddle-aholic too!
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Post by lavly on Mar 16, 2011 20:17:16 GMT -5
ok we all know that i have not read all of this thred yet but i did want to add my two sec in somewhere...lol cake ones said somthing that kinda stuck with me ... she said that her sexualty was splite in two. one was the normal ... the one every girl has. ( for me its would be liking tated up skiny white guys or nerdy black guys ) and then there was her dev side which had its own peticuler preferences ( for me it would be a para, a quad, a guy with cp or now blind guys thanks to devogirl) but they work simaltaniasly ... like there different but both can do the trick ... so for me liking an AB guy is just as good as finding a wheeler. having said that i have soooooooooooooo much more fun with a wheeler in bed  |
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Post by lavly on Mar 17, 2011 7:59:14 GMT -5
Some of my most beloved and erotic memories involve simply touching... quad touch .... yummy < goes red |
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Post by me on Mar 17, 2011 12:08:40 GMT -5
I find both AB and disabled men attractive, but wouldn't be with a disabled guy just because he had a disability, I'd have to find them attractive in other ways as well. However, I do find disabled men more attractive than AB men.
Oddly I am attracted to disabled women but don't feel the desire I'd need to do something about it, which I think is due to my devness...
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Post by ruthmadison on Apr 4, 2011 19:24:21 GMT -5
Felt the need to share... :-) I've learned something about myself recently. The desire I've felt for AB guys, that "OMG I want to have sex RIGHT NOW!" feeling that I've had those rare few times... that I thought was the end-all-be-all to desire and thank god for it because at least it meant I COULD feel it... and I wasn't just this cold, asexual being... well. That feeling has NOTHING on the instant and insatiable rush of white hot desire that a wheeler can produce... for me. NOTHING. I can now say with absolute assurance... I don't think I will EVER be trolling dance clubs, malls, gyms, libraries... for an AB guy... I'm not saying I'll never date one again, or even have a relationship with one. But, now I know what real desire is... I just don't see it happening... and I'm not even in my full-on dev-cycle... I'd kind of hit a real low, dev-wise, lately. Oh.dear.lord... what will happen when it really kicks in? Buckle your seat belts... I guess.. LOL Congratulations! I remember well when I discovered that. I've never had much attraction at all for AB guys, maybe a tiny hint of desire every so often (every few years), so I thought I was "frigid." When I finally decided to make my fantasy a reality, I was so afraid that my fantasies would be better than reality. It was the opposite. The real experience of sleeping with a para was beyond my wildest dreams, more satisfying than I could have believed possible, and made me understand why it is people are crazy for sex. I'm so glad you got to see what that's like! |
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Post by Emma on Apr 4, 2011 22:21:07 GMT -5
That feeling has NOTHING on the instant and insatiable rush of white hot desire that a wheeler can produce... for me. NOTHING. I can now say with absolute assurance... I don't think I will EVER be trolling dance clubs, malls, gyms, libraries... for an AB guy... Yeah tell me about it. I totally agree with Ruth. I remember when I realized there was nothing wrong with me sexually and all I needed was to be with a guy who was an amputee. It was amazingly freeing to finally be a normal sexual being. |
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Post by ~Z28gal~ on Apr 8, 2011 21:39:39 GMT -5
I'll just say a MASSIVE DITTO on that. |
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Post by ichbin on May 31, 2022 7:43:53 GMT -5
Some AB guys are very, very hot. I "should" feel attracted to them! lol... But no matter how hot, or how sexy they are, there is none of that gut response... that sensation that comes when a good looking wheeler comes into the room. That twinge is immediate and is just a gut response and I have never had it with an AB guy, no matter how hot he is. Not even once. same for me! the attraction is on a different level or a "gut response" - as you put it! |
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Post by Dani on Jun 3, 2022 14:19:48 GMT -5
A resurrected thread and one I've never answered on...well, I guess I could do it now
I find AB men attractive too but I always imagine them disabled.
If I am out and about, I look only for guys in wheelchairs or any other disability affecting the legs. I mean I see hot AB guys but it doesn't interest me that much. I still check them out but it doesn't faze me like a sighting of an attractive wheeler would, which sometimes haunts me for days or weeks.
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Post by loreley on Jun 4, 2022 7:48:09 GMT -5
What you all said...There are AB men that I find very attractive, but never to the point that I would want to take them to bed with me...
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Post by Deleted on Jun 6, 2022 0:36:18 GMT -5
Add me to the list of attractive yes, sexy nope!
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Post by lexidee on Jun 19, 2022 0:27:33 GMT -5
I can find able bodied guys just as enticing and get just as excited about them as a guy with a disability.... Yes, yes, yes and yes. I agree with pretty much everything you just, except for the Tom Cruise part lol. |
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I didn't... but I really wanted to.
That's rough. Sometimes I want sooo bad to settle, because it would be easier and because I'm a total cuddle-holic.
