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Post by ruthmadison on Jul 11, 2011 11:24:54 GMT -5
DG, was Mr. OnlyAGirlFromTheInternet an ass the whole time? Or had he been saving up?  Oh, definitely the whole time. My friends kept telling me to leave him, and I knew he was no good for me, but hey, he was a cute wheeler so I hung on to the bitter end, to my regret. It was a nasty breakup, and that was just one of many hurtful things he said. How terrible! |
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Post by devogirl on Jul 11, 2011 12:24:11 GMT -5
Yes, it was fairly terrible but this all happened a very long time ago, long before this message board was formed. I'm over it now.
I guess the moral of that story for those of you who are still dating is don't stick around in a bad relationship just because he's a wheeler and you're afraid you'll never meet anyone better. I made that mistake so many times.
Also I really believe the number of true con artists out there is relatively small. However, there are a lot of people (male and female) who will put a lot of effort into initiating a relationship only to give up, lose interest, or disappear, out of insecurity, flakiness, whatever. It happened to me several times with guys I met online, AB as well as disabled.
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Post by darkie on Jul 11, 2011 13:34:06 GMT -5
Ladies, please don´t get me wrong. I just wanted to know if...all that happened because I am a dev and he was a wheeler. It had just happened. I am hurt. But that´s my problem, not his. I wanna thank you all for being that supporting and understanding. I am just new to all this...and I promise..I will learn  |
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Post by lavly on Jul 12, 2011 3:12:29 GMT -5
man im so sorry darkie ... god man can be shits !
i just want to say one thing ... IF ( that is an if cos he could just be an ashole) he left cos he thinks your a dev and that makes you a freak or something in his eyes ... then well its his loss. the way i see it is a dev can give and offer stuff to a wheeler that an non dev could not even image. to me that ovese ... if you think about a subject long enough do reaserch about it and are hyper awear of it then ofcorce your going to be more informed.
most of the time i have gult about being a dev but im always sure that the the way i can love a wheeler as dev is so much more intence then an avrege women, poit blank peariod!
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