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Post by Braced4Impact on Dec 4, 2019 8:30:26 GMT -5
Hey everyone. So, I published a short book on Kindle at Amazon, but it's not like my other works if you're familiar with them. My other works were dev-PWD erotica with BDSM a common theme. This book is actually more of an opinion book where I share my thoughts on devs, the PWDs who interact with devs, the general public's perception on both communities, general observations from interacting over the past decade with the dev community and more. It's more of an introduction to devs, or a beacon to join this community for any devs or dev-friendly PWDs out there who haven't found us yet. Anyway, it's $0.99 USD and if you'd like to read it, it's over here: www.amazon.com/dp/B0829NLBT4 Thanks  Also a huge shoutout to DevoGirl for giving it a look before publication and some helpful advice! Super appreciated! |
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Post by Braced4Impact on Dec 6, 2019 14:18:39 GMT -5
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Post by britishtetra on Dec 6, 2019 15:15:44 GMT -5
I have just read your book, and I found it very insightful, thoughtful and I have a greater understanding of whom a devotee is.
It is well written, and it really should be read by both PWD’s and Dev’s alike.
Pete
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Post by Amee on Dec 6, 2019 17:12:29 GMT -5
I just bought and read it and I think you did a fantastic job! Thank you for putting a positive and realistic voice about us out there! |
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Post by Braced4Impact on Dec 6, 2019 19:44:10 GMT -5
I have just read your book, and I found it very insightful, thoughtful and I have a greater understanding of whom a devotee is. It is well written, and it really should be read by both PWD’s and Dev’s alike. Pete Thanks, Pete! It's really appreciated both that you read it and shared your thoughts. I will admit, I've never been with a dev IRL, but I've had the pleasure of interacting with so many wonderful people, both dev and PWD here, that while I won't consider myself an expert, I at least recognize a few patterns from observing over the years. Devs are a rare and wonderful group of people, and I think with all the negative or stereotypical information out there, something to counter that was a long time coming. I think it also may carry a bit more weight when coming from a PWD, because devs can defend devs all day long, but if a PWD is out there speaking good things about them, it may convince both devs and PWDs that this is normal and perfectly fine. |
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Post by Braced4Impact on Dec 6, 2019 19:46:02 GMT -5
I just bought and read it and I think you did a fantastic job! Thank you for putting a positive and realistic voice about us out there! Thank you so very much, Amee! I'm glad to see it resonates both with PWDs and devs here. Every PWD and every dev has a different story, but getting the word out there that there are so many positives on both sides is important. I also tried to temper it with the realism of hardships and expectations that sometimes fall flat, because it would be disingenuous to only write the positives without balancing with some of the problems both face. |
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Post by blueskye101 on Dec 6, 2019 21:57:33 GMT -5
@braced4impact, have to say that my first thoughts were, whoa, very cool and very needed but felt a bit exposed too and was hoping we would not be trolled here. But then, I realized, what a book like this and a place like PD would have meant to me when I was a young dev. Thank you for doing this for us. ( might be a small ulterior motive 😉). As always, your writing skills are on point and easily understood for the lay person. Bravo for bringing your writing talent to a much needed, positive glimpse into the pwd, dev relationship. I’m sure it will shed some much needed light. And here’s to hoping you get some amazing “fan” mail 😀
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Post by Braced4Impact on Dec 6, 2019 22:29:25 GMT -5
Thanks Blue! If anything, I did it for two reasons. The first is obviously to bring any new devs or open-minded PWDs to PD. Even though one can google devs and perhaps find this place on their own, some might only read the first few articles about devotees and be presented a negative view. They might think there's something wrong with them and live in shame based on those articles or websites. I'm hoping that if they're perusing Amazon and find the book, and it's their first exposure to the idea, they'll gain a positive vibe and be more comfortable in their own skin. The second reason I wrote it was as a bit of a thank-you to the devs here. I've had some great conversations, both public and private, have had my preconceived notions challenged and changed, and have made some strong friendships.
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Post by Amee on Dec 7, 2019 4:58:18 GMT -5
Unfortunately, this is very true. I also remember that the acceptance of PWDs played (and still plays) a gigantic role to me in coming to terms with my devness. There's something particularly cruel and heartbreaking about being condemned and labeled a freak for finding a group of people attractive by the people you find attractive. This element makes our experience quite different from, for example the experience of gay people (at least I would assume so). I still very clearly remember the first time I saw a Youtube video of a PWD talking about devs in a positive way, defending them and explaining that it is absolutely okay. I cried with relief So, even though your view is of course a limited one, I think it's also a very important one. So, thank you again! |
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Post by linda on Dec 7, 2019 8:14:11 GMT -5
That’s amazing!!! Even though I haven’t read it yet, it’s so great to have someone advocate for us and offer a dev friendly perspective. Thank you so much!
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Post by linda on Dec 7, 2019 8:19:19 GMT -5
There's something particularly cruel and heartbreaking about being condemned and labeled a freak for finding a group of people attractive by the people you find attractive. (having problems quoting again I have to write here...) That is such an important point you are mentioning here, Amee! Even though I‘ve had that feeling so many times, it’s the first time for me to get it real clear here, since I read it so perfectly put in words by you. That opens a mind door for a lot more investigation... |
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Post by Braced4Impact on Dec 7, 2019 9:39:46 GMT -5
The positive words I'm getting here truly have touched me. I just wish I would have written something like this a long time ago. Hopefully, it encourages others who have the same trains of thought to find this place and get a lot more support from the group |
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Post by manicpixiememegirl on Dec 7, 2019 11:27:20 GMT -5
Unfortunately, this is very true. I also remember that the acceptance of PWDs played (and still plays) a gigantic role to me in coming to terms with my devness. There's something particularly cruel and heartbreaking about being condemned and labeled a freak for finding a group of people attractive by the people you find attractive. This element makes our experience quite different from, for example the experience of gay people (at least I would assume so). I still very clearly remember the first time I saw a Youtube video of a PWD talking about devs in a positive way, defending them and explaining that it is absolutely okay. I cried with relief So, even though your view is of course a limited one, I think it's also a very important one. So, thank you again! You exactly summed up my feelings about this. The perception from the general AB population is one thing, but PWDs expressing disgust and fear of devs is far more difficult to deal with. |
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Post by manicpixiememegirl on Dec 7, 2019 12:01:18 GMT -5
I just finished the book and I have to say I've never felt so seen. Thank you so much!
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Post by feelsunshine on Dec 7, 2019 15:15:53 GMT -5
Braced4Impact I just read the book and I think it was a well written overview. Hopefully it brings more people to PD and helps to more open-mindedness. Personally, I had hoped to get to read some more in-between-the-lines-stories that actually happened here. Let's say some slight references to one of the best threads of PD like a reference to the Top ten list of dating a PWD. But on the other hand - people who are aware about the book and have general interest in the dev/PWD topic will follow your advice and just find us here and figure that PD is a great place to hang. The book cover reminds me of a late 70s self-help guide or psychological book. If I had only seen the cover and had not known a bit about the guy who wrote it, I would not have touched it. I'm sorry if you aimed for it to look that way, then it's just me who didn't get the hint, so don't worry too much about it. Keep going - I'm looking forward to read more stuff from you.
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Also a huge shoutout to DevoGirl for giving it a look before publication and some helpful advice! Super appreciated!
