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Post by MarineAmp on Dec 15, 2010 12:58:52 GMT -5
Do most or all devs in here choose to initiate contact with potential disabled partners through the computer only or do you any of you actually go out into the real world to try and do this? If you don't go into the real world why not? Do you just not know where to look or is it a scary concept for you?
I was just thinking the other day that I go to a bunch of events throughout the year and there is always a wide spectrum of injuries there. And there are even more events that I don't go to with the same results.
If any dev or wheelie in here is curious or wants to know more about the events I can go into more detail about it if there is an interest.
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Post by sittingbull on Dec 15, 2010 15:38:37 GMT -5
I think the question is more if they WANT to find a disabled partner or if they are happy living their fantasies without trying to get in serious contact with a potentional disabled partner. And the next question is why it is so. Maybe a good fantasy is better than a bad reality? And i am sure you will not get one specific answer on that question, all people here hAve just different personalities, which is so great!
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Post by coffeeftw on Dec 15, 2010 15:42:52 GMT -5
I think the question is more if they WANT to find a disabled partner or if they are happy living their fantasies without trying to get in serious contact... Maybe a good fantasy is better than a bad reality...? Ding ding ding! Give that man a prize!
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Post by MarineAmp on Dec 15, 2010 16:02:19 GMT -5
I think the question is more if they WANT to find a disabled partner or if they are happy living their fantasies without trying to get in serious contact with a potentional disabled partner. That is an interesting theory, I'm curious to know what prompted you to think that? What percentage of women would you estimate that would fall into that category? Coffee you seem to agree with sittingbull, so feel free to chime in on this one too.
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Post by Dee Dee on Dec 15, 2010 16:13:56 GMT -5
I think the question is more if they WANT to find a disabled partner or if they are happy living their fantasies without trying to get in serious contact with a potentional disabled partner. And the next question is why it is so. Maybe a good fantasy is better than a bad reality? No, for me it is not that I want to "just" fantasise. It is not about "just" finding a disabled partner either, it is about finding the right one.
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Post by BA on Dec 15, 2010 20:23:13 GMT -5
Exactly Devodiva. That was right on the money. Maybe for some it is just a fantasy, but many of us can and have lived the long term and would again with the right person.
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Post by wonk on Dec 15, 2010 20:36:37 GMT -5
I think the question is more if they WANT to find a disabled partner or if they are happy living their fantasies without trying to get in serious contact... Maybe a good fantasy is better than a bad reality...? Ding ding ding! Give that man a prize! OMG!!!!!! Sorry dude but are you serious? Please reread your previous threads!!!
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Post by wheelieInCali on Dec 15, 2010 21:04:57 GMT -5
OMG not this again. Just because you happen to be a wheeler doesn't automatically mean that a dev from this site is going to deliver a relationship. They are still girls, and girls will always have that elusive quality. Get over it already that you didn't hook up with a dev simply because you registered on this site. If I remember correctly, wasn't there an apology placed not so long ago about a certain wheeler standing up not one but two girls because things got too real?
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Post by coffeeftw on Dec 15, 2010 21:26:05 GMT -5
What are you talking about? I'm not bashing anyone nor am I getting snarky. The ladies have themselves stated that the men have fallen short of the fantasy. What am I doing other than restating this?
Let me tell you something. The two of you like to jump on my shit. That's cool. I'll be giving it back.
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Post by Emma on Dec 15, 2010 21:27:01 GMT -5
Thank you Wheelieincali
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Post by coffeeftw on Dec 15, 2010 21:33:30 GMT -5
Ding ding ding! Give that man a prize! OMG!!!!!! Sorry dude but are you serious? Please reread your previous threads!!! I'll tell you what I'm rereading - the above statement. Each time I reread it I hear a different petulant teenager's voice. One time from the valley of southern California, now from Fargo, North Dakota. Thanks.
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Post by Inigo Montoya on Dec 15, 2010 21:34:13 GMT -5
OMG not this again. Just because you happen to be a wheeler doesn't automatically mean that a dev from this site is going to deliver a relationship. They are still girls, and girls will always have that elusive quality. Get over it already that you didn't hook up with a dev simply because you registered on this site. If I remember correctly, wasn't there an apology placed not so long ago about a certain wheeler standing up not one but two girls because things got too real? Ding ding ding! Give that man a prize! OMG!!!!!! Sorry dude but are you serious? Please reread your previous threads!!!
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Post by coffeeftw on Dec 15, 2010 21:36:35 GMT -5
OMG not this again. Just because you happen to be a wheeler doesn't automatically mean that a dev from this site is going to deliver a relationship. They are still girls, and girls will always have that elusive quality. Get over it already that you didn't hook up with a dev simply because you registered on this site. If I remember correctly, wasn't there an apology placed not so long ago about a certain wheeler standing up not one but two girls because things got too real? What straw man are you throwing up at me? You're defending the ladies honor when I haven't slighted it in the least bit. Who the fuck said I'm entitled to a devo? That's what you're throwing at me right?
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Post by Inigo Montoya on Dec 15, 2010 21:40:50 GMT -5
It's another old refrain. The men claiming that... and normally kinda pissy about it... us only wanting fantasy instead of the reality of a relationship with a disabled guy.
Like over and over-ish.
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Post by BA on Dec 15, 2010 22:04:16 GMT -5
Did Coffee really delete his account?
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