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Post by Hopper on Dec 2, 2017 1:12:07 GMT -5
Apologies for any feathers ruffled.
Does him being a dev creep me out?
Absolutely not.
It was the possible infantilism that put me on edge.
Again, just to clarify, him being a possible dev did NOT weird me out.
The diaper/urination stuff did and that appeared to be his primary interest.
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Post by Emma on Dec 2, 2017 2:21:54 GMT -5
I think if you are a PWD who makes youtube videos you need to be ready for lots of weirdos. Just being okay with devs watching your videos won't cut it. I have learned a lot about other fetishes through youtube when checking out what other people like and follow.
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Post by dannyboy95 on Dec 2, 2017 5:25:18 GMT -5
It really puts me off when I can't have a normal and open conversation with somebody, when people hide behind empty sentences and try to lie to me and think I wouldn't notice that. What does that mean? I don't follow. Well if you have been a bit active in this community you will have hopefully noticed that many people are not who they claim to be. And some simply are too shy or whatnot to have a real open conversation. So if you try to have any more deeper conversation with them other than just small talk they will start to try to ship around the answer or make up lies. And then they start to give really contradicting answers so it is pretty obvious that they're playing some sort of game with you.
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Post by Hopper on Dec 2, 2017 6:06:18 GMT -5
I think if you are a PWD who makes youtube videos you need to be ready for lots of weirdos. Just being okay with devs watching your videos won't cut it. I have learned a lot about other fetishes through youtube when checking out what other people like and follow. That's true. Besides, this guy just subscribed, something that whilst unexpected was nevertheless a harmless act. It's not as if he'd sent messages. I'll admit to overreacting. It could've been worse.
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Post by shape on Dec 2, 2017 6:31:21 GMT -5
I think if you are a PWD who makes youtube videos you need to be ready for lots of weirdos. Just being okay with devs watching your videos won't cut it. I have learned a lot about other fetishes through youtube when checking out what other people like and follow. That's true. Besides, this guy just subscribed, something that whilst unexpected was nevertheless a harmless act. It's not as if he'd sent messages. I'll admit to overreacting. It could've been worse. It's still creepy... 😳
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Post by Hopper on Dec 2, 2017 7:37:57 GMT -5
Yeah, but we have to be thankful for small mercies, right?
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Post by devogirl on Dec 2, 2017 8:01:11 GMT -5
The guy did nothing wrong. Let's not kink shame him. There are quite a few devs who also into diaper/urination to some degree, even members of this board. Most of them are too ashamed to talk about it openly but I have heard from them privately, which is why I dislike the shaming tone in this thread. It's not all devs, but it goes together more often than perhaps we would like to admit. If you don't like the idea of people with various kinks watching you, then stop posting videos. And devs of all people should be more understanding of other people's kinks and not be so quick to label them creepy.
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Post by shape on Dec 2, 2017 8:41:21 GMT -5
Well, I admit I have been judging... Still I don't feel comfortable with those kinks... But yes, they deserve respect as well as it do, so...
My apologies if anyone got offended.
But in my comment of people being insane... As I consider myself as not very sane in many senses... I didn't mean to be that mean.
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Post by straycatsnperiodpads on Dec 2, 2017 9:01:18 GMT -5
The guy did nothing wrong. Let's not kink shame him. There are quite a few devs who also into diaper/urination to some degree, even members of this board. Most of them are too ashamed to talk about it openly but I have heard from them privately, which is why I dislike the shaming tone in this thread. It's not all devs, but it goes together more often than perhaps we would like to admit. If you don't like the idea of people with various kinks watching you, then stop posting videos. And devs of all people should be more understanding of other people's kinks and not be so quick to label them creepy. Yeah, not personally into it but lots of the people that are into diapers are doing stuff with consenting, adult partners and not necessarily hurting any children or watching illegal porn. Besides a fetish isn't even something you can control, you just sort of have it. The only thing you can control is your actions.
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chivos
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I'm a quadriplegia from SiChuan China. C2-7.
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Post by chivos on Dec 2, 2017 9:03:23 GMT -5
maybe stop be interested in me(╯︵╰)
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Post by lucretia on Dec 2, 2017 9:50:10 GMT -5
I admit, coming across a kink you're not familiar with can be jarring. But I agree with devogirl. No matter what you put out on the internet will attract things you don't expect or want. You have to be pretty thick-skinned to maintain a public presence.
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Post by Hopper on Dec 2, 2017 10:07:15 GMT -5
Again, I'd like to apologise for being so judgemental.
It was rash, stupid and out of character.
If I've offended anyone then I'm sorry.
I can'try and defend what I've said, because there is no defence.
Stripping things back to the simplest of forms. I was judging someone for being 'different'.
This is one of the worst things anyone can do and to say I'm ashamed of that would be an understatement.
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Post by elbs on Dec 2, 2017 10:59:28 GMT -5
Again, I'd like to apologise for being so judgemental. It was rash, stupid and out of character. If I've offended anyone then I'm sorry. I can'try and defend what I've said, because there is no defence. Stripping things back to the simplest of forms. I was judging someone for being 'different'. This is one of the worst things anyone can do and to say I'm ashamed of that would be an understatement. I'm impressed with your maturity.
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Post by Hopper on Dec 2, 2017 11:06:46 GMT -5
Thanks elbs, that means a lot.
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