kingcnut
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M37 London BIID T10 complete para. Seeking Dev.
Posts: 26
Gender: Male
Dev Status: BIID
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Post by kingcnut on May 9, 2024 18:30:11 GMT -5
You claim to not want confrontation, but you resort to ableism while trying to be a part of the disabled community. Believe it or not what you said did not bother me. I've heard much worse, what really bothered me was how much of a hypocritical piece of shit you are. Also stop trying to lure Dev's into your DMs. im so ableist! Not having the balls to chat to a girl has nothing to do with being disabled. It just a lack of balls. I didn't call you out and mention your name, you stuck your head above the parapet. Do you know any other insults or words than piece of shit? Also please don't tell me what I can and can not do with your precious devs! You don't own them and you certainly don't own me. Anyone who wants to dm me is free to, i'm not luring anyone, they have free will so don't tell them what the can't do, its chauvinistic to tell a woman what she can't do.
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Post by Dani on May 9, 2024 18:50:52 GMT -5
Its a real babe magnet to be in a wheelchair! Its also not healthy to seek a pwd as a dev and not be interest in AB men as many devs do. Im not judging. Thank you for your reasonable way of expressing yourself though, better than insults and fake accusations. Wow...talking about fake accusations The comments above are definitely enough for me 👎🏻
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allison101
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Posts: 26
Gender: Female
Dev Status: Devotee
Relationship Status: In a relationship
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Post by allison101 on May 9, 2024 18:54:32 GMT -5
kingcnut , So I’ll ask you point blank- do you use handicapped spaces when/if you drive? If using public transport, do you decline when people move to accommodate you? Additionally, it’s certainly a choice to describe devs as unhealthy for being attracted to pwd…. On a forum specifically for devs who are attracted to PWDs….. you’re not doing yourself any favors here. Thankyou for your question / not assumptions even if they do seem a little belligerent, So im not sure how you think handicapped parking works, My car would be towed away if I parked somewhere I should not be parked, its not a car of well if you turn up and get a wheelchair out they let you park in a handicapped spot, not sure of a country where this happens? So why ask? I don’t rely on public transport, I own a car and drive, if I have been on public transport I have never deprived anyone of a space to sit, there are no seats in places for chairs so again why ask? I have however had an encounter with another wheelchair user, (special needs with carer) and yes I voluntarily offered my place and waited 1hr for the next service. Im not worried if I offend a dev, if you don't see my viewpoint and want to judge my life choices I can judge yours, my point exactly I dont believe its sick to like someone disabled, so why do others think its ok to say I am? any dev who can see this is the kind of dev I would like to talk to anybody who can't is a hypocrite and I wouldn't want to know you as a person or as a dev. So not sure what your looking for here, i’ve answered your questing, you probably still think I am the scum of the earth and a piece of shit like a few others here. So I feel like you know what I’m asking with respect to if you utilize handicapped transportation resources, but are deciding to be obtuse and condescending. Quite frankly, the way you’ve spoken to people on this thread reveals a lot about your character. Your BIID isn’t holding you back- your utter trash personality is doing that. Wishing you the best of luck on your journey to critical thinking and being a better person.
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Post by dutchdev on May 10, 2024 8:06:37 GMT -5
Also stop trying to lure Dev's into your DMs. Not sure, but can’t imagine that that is working.
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yupif
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Posts: 32
Gender: Male
Dev Status: Disabled
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Post by yupif on May 10, 2024 10:55:16 GMT -5
Hello, sorry for asking but I don't get it fully ! Are you disabled in a way (or not at all and just pretending to be one) ? Because if so, it reminds me of a movie and it was a guy pretending to be in wheelchair in order to seduce a para woman. I find it weird af but i'm not here to judge. If people ask me like : "Do you want to run or walk" ? I'd say no. I would just like my life to be more easier with less pain and also the world to be more accessible sometimes. I don't get the fact than some people would like to be in wheelchair on purpose ! But once, I spoke to a violonist whose dream was to have an amputation of her arm ... ![:-/](//storage.proboards.com/forum/images/smiley/undecided.png) Let's say that it takes all sorts to make a world! ![:)](//storage.proboards.com/forum/images/smiley/smiley.png) PS : When you do see how London is not accessible, (espesically the underground), if you're out in your wheelchair ... In order to climb down the stairs, do you run downstairs with the chair on your back ? (I'm joking) :-D
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kingcnut
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M37 London BIID T10 complete para. Seeking Dev.
Posts: 26
Gender: Male
Dev Status: BIID
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Post by kingcnut on May 10, 2024 12:31:10 GMT -5
Its a real babe magnet to be in a wheelchair! Its also not healthy to seek a pwd as a dev and not be interest in AB men as many devs do. Im not judging. Thank you for your reasonable way of expressing yourself though, better than insults and fake accusations. Wow...talking about fake accusations The comments above are definitely enough for me 👎🏻 Well Danni, you really dont get satire or sarcasm. "it's a real babe magnet" is self deprecating to myself, not how you see it literally, Being in a chair severely limits any prospect with many women, you should know this being a dev and chatting to pwds. My other point, is im not judging anybody for how they think just people who judge often have something wrong with them and judge others to mask their own faults. I left a nice comment of encouragement telling a member just go chat to a girl whoo looked at him,I got called a piece of Shit? And not sue what you mean by your last point. I didn't expect this from you having chatted to you in the past on fetlife. You seemed a decent human there.
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kingcnut
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M37 London BIID T10 complete para. Seeking Dev.
Posts: 26
Gender: Male
Dev Status: BIID
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Post by kingcnut on May 10, 2024 12:38:49 GMT -5
Thankyou for your question / not assumptions even if they do seem a little belligerent, So im not sure how you think handicapped parking works, My car would be towed away if I parked somewhere I should not be parked, its not a car of well if you turn up and get a wheelchair out they let you park in a handicapped spot, not sure of a country where this happens? So why ask? I don’t rely on public transport, I own a car and drive, if I have been on public transport I have never deprived anyone of a space to sit, there are no seats in places for chairs so again why ask? I have however had an encounter with another wheelchair user, (special needs with carer) and yes I voluntarily offered my place and waited 1hr for the next service. Im not worried if I offend a dev, if you don't see my viewpoint and want to judge my life choices I can judge yours, my point exactly I dont believe its sick to like someone disabled, so why do others think its ok to say I am? any dev who can see this is the kind of dev I would like to talk to anybody who can't is a hypocrite and I wouldn't want to know you as a person or as a dev. So not sure what your looking for here, i’ve answered your questing, you probably still think I am the scum of the earth and a piece of shit like a few others here. So I feel like you know what I’m asking with respect to if you utilize handicapped transportation resources, but are deciding to be obtuse and condescending. Quite frankly, the way you’ve spoken to people on this thread reveals a lot about your character. Your BIID isn’t holding you back- your utter trash personality is doing that. Wishing you the best of luck on your journey to critical thinking and being a better person. Again what is it with you people, you call me a piece of shit and utter trash. I would not even call someone that sitting outside a shop wit hither legs folded under them pretending to be a war veteran. You are the ones that are Vile human beings. How you think thats ok is beyond me. I haven't been disrespectful to anybody here who hasn't been an instigator or sworn at me. Ive not sworn at anybody here or called you trash. You ask stupid questions. and when I put you in your place you resort to ad hominem arguments. What exactly is it you would like to know , im not sure what handicapped transportation resources are. What do you mean. I dont park in handicap spaces if im not entitled to be in one by law, my car would be towed! im not being obstructive, your asking stupid vague questions. And it told you I have a car and drive everywhere so what are these transportation resources?
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kingcnut
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M37 London BIID T10 complete para. Seeking Dev.
Posts: 26
Gender: Male
Dev Status: BIID
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Post by kingcnut on May 10, 2024 12:52:27 GMT -5
Hello, sorry for asking but I don't get it fully ! Are you disabled in a way (or not at all and just pretending to be one) ? Because if so, it reminds me of a movie and it was a guy pretending to be in wheelchair in order to seduce a para woman. I find it weird af but i'm not here to judge. If people ask me like : "Do you want to run or walk" ? I'd say no. I would just like my life to be more easier with less pain and also the world to be more accessible sometimes. I don't get the fact than some people would like to be in wheelchair on purpose ! But once, I spoke to a violonist whose dream was to have an amputation of her arm ... ![:-/](//storage.proboards.com/forum/images/smiley/undecided.png) Let's say that it takes all sorts to make a world! ![:)](//storage.proboards.com/forum/images/smiley/smiley.png) PS : When you do see how London is not accessible, (espesically the underground), if you're out in your wheelchair ... In order to climb down the stairs, do you run downstairs with the chair on your back ? (I'm joking) :-D Hi, yupif, I m sorry for how you feel about your disability, im not here to offend any pwds and I appreciate how you feel and feel your pain. Unlike that movie I have no interest in duping or using my chair to seduce anyone. If a dev is seducd by the fact im sitting in a chair then they know why I am and thats ok by me, im not going round telling anyone I am. So short answer to your question, I see my body as a paraplegic and I would like to be one. its that simple. Its not unreasonable to wonder why an ab would want to a paraplegic. I would tell you if I knew why either! Being in a chair has enlightened me to the things a pwd has to deal with, If im in my chair I experience everything as a chair user, I do not just get up and walk if something is difficult. I dm you regarding one of your other questions, I do not wish to post it here. Any questions feel free to ask. All the best with your journey. AJ
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Post by ichbin on May 10, 2024 12:57:05 GMT -5
My (stupid?) question is:
What did you expect from your participation on this forum?
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kingcnut
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M37 London BIID T10 complete para. Seeking Dev.
Posts: 26
Gender: Male
Dev Status: BIID
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Post by kingcnut on May 10, 2024 13:03:13 GMT -5
My (stupid?) question is: What did you expect from your participation on this forum? Thats not a stupid question at all, I didn't expect everyone to be thrilled with my life choices. But there are some lovely devs I have spoken to here who are interested in my deal. I didn't expect to be sworn at and called a piece of shit for commenting a supportive comment on a users post. I would never talk to anyone like that. I kind of did expect it actually, but I doesn't make it right. If people don't like my life choices then they do not talk to me, they don't have to be vile.
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allison101
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Posts: 26
Gender: Female
Dev Status: Devotee
Relationship Status: In a relationship
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Post by allison101 on May 10, 2024 13:51:30 GMT -5
kingcnut: so super duper simple question. Do you have a handicapped placard on your vehicle? This is a yes/no.
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kingcnut
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M37 London BIID T10 complete para. Seeking Dev.
Posts: 26
Gender: Male
Dev Status: BIID
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Post by kingcnut on May 10, 2024 14:06:34 GMT -5
kingcnut : so super duper simple question. Do you have a handicapped placard on your vehicle? This is a yes/no. no, happy!
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kingcnut
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M37 London BIID T10 complete para. Seeking Dev.
Posts: 26
Gender: Male
Dev Status: BIID
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Post by kingcnut on May 10, 2024 14:07:41 GMT -5
kingcnut : so super duper simple question. Do you have a handicapped placard on your vehicle? This is a yes/no. no, happy! I hear they just hand them out to anybody!. So yes still kind of a stupid question.
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Post by sy on May 10, 2024 14:09:40 GMT -5
My (stupid?) question is: What did you expect from your participation on this forum? Thats not a stupid question at all, I didn't expect everyone to be thrilled with my life choices. But there are some lovely devs I have spoken to here who are interested in my deal. I didn't expect to be sworn at and called a piece of shit for commenting a supportive comment on a users post. I would never talk to anyone like that. I kind of did expect it actually, but I doesn't make it right. If people don't like my life choices then they do not talk to me, they don't have to be vile. This guy is seriously playing victim. I'm going to go do something else before I have a conniption.
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allison101
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Posts: 26
Gender: Female
Dev Status: Devotee
Relationship Status: In a relationship
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Post by allison101 on May 10, 2024 14:16:17 GMT -5
I hear they just hand them out to anybody!. So yes still kind of a stupid question. Lol. I had a response typed out but you honestly are doing the work to make yourself look terrible on your own. You don’t need my help for that. (See previous comment about utter trash personality).
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