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Post by Dani on May 10, 2024 17:30:44 GMT -5
Well, I've chatted to many people over the years, is this also your FL name? I can go back and look at our convos, to see what we talked about.
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Post by Dani on May 10, 2024 18:00:50 GMT -5
Here, I give you that...BIID is a disability in itself but you can't expect to come here and be welcomed with open arms. Some PWD take real issue with this. Your honesty is appreciated because it has happened way too many times that people come here claiming they are something they are not. Unsuspecting devs fall for these people and to say the least, it can he very traumatizing and hurtful..been there, done that and that one person pretty much f..... me up bad enough that i have real trust issues. I'm also tired of lying/deceiving individuals or guys who are lurking like spiders in their nets to catch a dev. It's disrespectful and selfish. As devs we're making ourselves vulnerable and for some dudes to try to take of advantage of this...it makes me furious. I don't think PD is the right place for BIID folks. If all you're looking for is a woman who "gets" your deal, you may be better off on FL.
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jakeonwheels
Junior Member
Posts: 81
Gender: Trans
Dev Status: Disabled
Relationship Status: Single
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Post by jakeonwheels on May 10, 2024 22:44:11 GMT -5
You are not trans, you have not fought our fight or helped build our movement, you have not bled or cried with us. How dare you co port our experience to justify yourself without even using respectful language.
As a man and is both disabled and trans I am livid. Especially since you leaned on that old standard trans women are predators trope. Stop blaming trans women for the things that men actually do.
FFS
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kingcnut
New Member
M37 London BIID T10 complete para. Seeking Dev.
Posts: 26
Gender: Male
Dev Status: BIID
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Post by kingcnut on May 11, 2024 3:57:36 GMT -5
Here, I give you that...BIID is a disability in itself but you can't expect to come here and be welcomed with open arms. Some PWD take real issue with this. Your honesty is appreciated because it has happened way too many times that people come here claiming they are something they are not. Unsuspecting devs fall for these people and to say the least, it can he very traumatizing and hurtful..been there, done that and that one person pretty much f..... me up bad enough that i have real trust issues. I'm also tired of lying/deceiving individuals or guys who are lurking like spiders in their nets to catch a dev. It's disrespectful and selfish. As devs we're making ourselves vulnerable and for some dudes to try to take of advantage of this...it makes me furious. I don't think PD is the right place for BIID folks. If all you're looking for is a woman who "gets" your deal, you may be better off on FL. thanks Dani, I hear your point and I fully get it, I can see how frustrating that it and I feel the same about anyone who would do that too. I am not here to deceive or pretend im something im not, im not faking having a sci and trying to to deceive a dev, out of all th people you (devs) could tell. tbh I have the same disclosure on fetlife and some devs here are not there purely because it can be a bit intimidating, if they are not kinky too. So I really dont want to offend and PWD with my life choices and I dont want to offend any devs and pretend to be something im not, Im just a guy in a chair by choice who would like to meet with women who like that aspect and dont just tolerate it from seeing me as an AB. Im glad this has calmed down a bit here I really dont like confrontation and im genuinely not here to be a dick. AJ
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kingcnut
New Member
M37 London BIID T10 complete para. Seeking Dev.
Posts: 26
Gender: Male
Dev Status: BIID
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Post by kingcnut on May 28, 2024 7:20:17 GMT -5
D Day has happened, its been a crazy week but everyone who means something to me in my life now knows everything, and im no longer a closet wheeler. Thanks a lot to the support and encouragement of being able to talk to devs. Thank you ladies and especially one you know who you are,
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mswarrior1
Junior Member
Posts: 66
Gender: Male
Dev Status: Disabled
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Post by mswarrior1 on Jun 12, 2024 21:37:29 GMT -5
I am new here as well! It’s great to meet you!
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