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Post by Neffie on May 17, 2010 15:06:00 GMT -5
Gawd this is what this site is all about!!!
It's the only place in the world we get to express these feelings so you should never be shy darkie or lemons...or samantha who is still pretty new!
I spent my entire life feeling a freak until I realised what it was that I actually wanted/needed out of life.
I got in touch with an ex recently on FB and he was all flirty but I cannot fathom how he ever turned me on and he got closer than most!
The reason he got closer to me was because (I'm not even ashamed to admit) he had AMAZING upper body strength.
He could literally shag me standing up and I LOVED IT!
The only other way Iwould have sex with him is if he was sitting down.
Even though he was standing up it was all about his arms, neck, face....I loved his muscular arms. I can't say that I ever once thought about his abs, butt or legs.
To me the thrill wasn't that he could take me standing up it was the fact that nothing below the waist mattered.
I knew with that guy that I had a "thing" and that when my friends were looking at arses and abs I was the girl fixated on necks and ears and biceps.
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Post by Dee Dee on May 17, 2010 17:00:11 GMT -5
I spent my entire life feeling a freak until I realised what it was that I actually wanted/needed out of life. I got in touch with an ex recently on FB and he was all flirty but I cannot fathom how he ever turned me on and he got closer than most! The reason he got closer to me was because (I'm not even ashamed to admit) he had AMAZING upper body strength. He could literally shag me standing up and I LOVED IT! The only other way Iwould have sex with him is if he was sitting down. I knew with that guy that I had a "thing" and that when my friends were looking at arses and abs I was the girl fixated on necks and ears and biceps. Well; I´m a long-term member of the club of ladies who admire upper-body strength - just give me a pair of strong arms (err, on the RIGHT wheeler of course  ) ...  . I find it quite amazing, that we can have a discussion like this - serious and yet humourous  . P.S.: Neffie, weren´t you going to meet a wheeler? I thought you said (in a previous post): "In 52 days I´m going to fly out and meet him ..."? We never heard what happened, dear? |
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Post by lemons on May 18, 2010 13:21:27 GMT -5
It was interesting going through this thread...there's such a spectrum of responses. For me, I guess I'm at the 'mild' end of devoness. I can definitely be attracted to AB guys too, maybe not quite in the same way I can be attracted to guys in chairs/crutches...but for me, liking paras most certainly isn't at the expense of liking AB men.
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Post by ricanhavoc on May 18, 2010 22:26:45 GMT -5
Answer = 100% of the time
This thread made me think of a funny story, when an ex of mine and I were having sex and he stopped and asked me "Why do you have that funny look on your face?" My reply was, "I'm concentrating." I always laugh when I think of the perplexed look he gave me in return.
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Post by Neffie on May 21, 2010 18:07:31 GMT -5
P.S.: Neffie, weren´t you going to meet a wheeler? I thought you said (in a previous post): "In 52 days I´m going to fly out and meet him ..."? We never heard what happened, dear?
Yeah I was. He didn't show. I spent the week in New York alone.
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Post by laurasweetou on May 22, 2010 19:46:40 GMT -5
Neffie,
I am SO SORRY this happened to you. I hope other NYC PD members were able to see you!
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Post by Neffie on May 24, 2010 11:22:10 GMT -5
Neffie,
I am SO SORRY this happened to you. I hope other NYC PD members were able to see you!
Actually one of the gals on here was a great support to me but we couldn't meet in person .
I was ok though. My best friend from school lives in NY so instead of the romantic (and accessible) 5 star hotel I had booked, I stayed on her couch. I have another Facebook friend who lives in Boston and she came to collect me in her car and we went on a road trip for Valentine's Day. I REALLY didn't wanna be in NYC alone for Valentines.
It worked out ok but yeah, none of the wheelers have any right to bitch about rejection after I went through that 5,000 miles from home!
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Post by Inigo Montoya on May 24, 2010 21:42:39 GMT -5
Neffie, I am SO SORRY this happened to you. I hope other NYC PD members were able to see you! Actually one of the gals on here was a great support to me but we couldn't meet in person . I was ok though. My best friend from school lives in NY so instead of the romantic (and accessible) 5 star hotel I had booked, I stayed on her couch. I have another Facebook friend who lives in Boston and she came to collect me in her car and we went on a road trip for Valentine's Day. I REALLY didn't wanna be in NYC alone for Valentines. It worked out ok but yeah, none of the wheelers have any right to bitch about rejection after I went through that 5,000 miles from home! Amen!  |
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Post by lemons on May 25, 2010 4:38:48 GMT -5
Neffie! *hug* What an awful thing to go through, that idiot ought to be ashamed of himself! x
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Post by BA on May 25, 2010 5:24:37 GMT -5
Nefs - you were so brave during that period. I don't know how you did it really. You are one strong gal!
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Post by canadiandev on May 28, 2010 11:00:21 GMT -5
Neffie, that was a brutal thing to go through. Sorry it happened to you.  Did he ever contact you again or apologize? If he didn't, you can maybe get some solace from the fact that if he can't face you now, how the hell would he be able to deal with the big decisions, stress, changes, etc., that come with a long-term relationship? |
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Post by Devoblue on May 28, 2010 11:58:31 GMT -5
Such a shame. No one deserves that. Too bad he wasn't enough of a man to at least cancel directly with you if he didn't want to go through with it. Sorry you had to go thru that. |
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Post by Neffie on May 30, 2010 16:01:51 GMT -5
I should explain..
He let me know the night before I traveled so I knew he wouldn't be there when I arrived.
In my heart I knew about a week before then but didn't want to see it.
I went from Luxor to London and was sleeping on my parents' floor when I logged on and he told me he wouldn't be coming. In his defense the Eastern Seaboard had the biggest snow storm ever.
Either way he just told me he couldn't be there for health reasons. I then (shoot me now) tried to get a flight from NY to Denver because if Mohammed can't go to the moountain then...
In actual fact he said no.
He didn't want me to fly from NY to see him because he was too ill.
Soooooooooo my poor parents were looking at me and wondering why I wasn't excited about going to the States. My heart was broken and I spent 5 days walking through NYC until my feet bled. I walked until the battery in my MP3 ran out. IT SUCKED!!!!
We're still talking. I still want to see the guy but yeah, that was a SHIT week
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Post by BA on May 30, 2010 20:01:39 GMT -5
I totally <3 this girl. She was one brave soul.
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Post by Dee Dee on May 31, 2010 7:47:34 GMT -5
Nef - so sorry to hear that . If you´re still interested in him, then I hope that everything works out for you. Next time, let HIM travel to meet you. |
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