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Post by weaponx on Mar 31, 2011 4:39:54 GMT -5
I just thought I would see if there's anyone out there that just might be interested in a fat para guy,virgin, around the Great Lakes area?? I'm in W MI. I'm not to horridly picky, I'll entertain anyone of any gender that might be interested. If anyone is let me know here, or better shoot me a email @weaponx126@gmail.com. Thanks for looking at the least. hehe
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Post by Inigo Montoya on Mar 31, 2011 20:22:09 GMT -5
Welcome.
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Post by Emma on Mar 31, 2011 20:29:02 GMT -5
Yes, welcome weaponx. I don't mean to offend or me mean but I don't understand why you posted an intro like that. Women are into confidence whether they are into disabled guys or able bodied. Why don't you list some attributes other than being a para that the people here would find attractive about you.
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Post by Lord Chatterley on Apr 1, 2011 10:16:43 GMT -5
I just thought I would see if there's anyone out there that just might be interested in a fat para guy,virgin, around the Great Lakes area?? I'm in W MI. I'm not to horridly picky, I'll entertain anyone of any gender that might be interested. If anyone is let me know here, or better shoot me a email @weaponx126@gmail.com. Thanks for looking at the least. hehe Let me guess...you don't work in sales? LC
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Post by ruthmadison on Apr 1, 2011 10:22:16 GMT -5
I would also add that saying that you're not picky and will take anyone doesn't make a girl want to leap at the chance!
You sound sweet, but like Emma said, have some confidence!
If someone thinks that you are desperate to be with anyone no matter what, that doesn't do anything for their self esteem. We want to be wanted for ourselves, for our unique quirks, to really be seen and understood. No one wants to be the best that someone with no standards can do. That's just depressing.
Someone recently gave me the advice that on a first date you should talk about topics that make you both happy, stick to the positive. There's time later for the negatives. I think that's true in introductions too. Talk about what you love, what makes you happy in life, and someone will want to be around that happiness.
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Post by Phil on Apr 1, 2011 10:33:59 GMT -5
Could it not be that he's being honest and not setting himself up as being something he's not? Or he's being self deprecating? Or indeed maybe he just wants to get what he perceives to be the negatives out of the way and everything else about him is amazing? ;D WeaponX welcome, and I hope you find some happiness from this forum
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Post by Pony on Apr 1, 2011 10:44:15 GMT -5
Look, i'm so fuckin horny, i'll take ANY sex, race, age....don't have to be human!! Hit me baby one mo time...
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Post by g on Apr 1, 2011 20:18:19 GMT -5
good luck, sex is overratted so youre not really missing much buddy. and on another note..... so many seem to preach confidence on here, if we are so confident why r we even here. im just saying
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Post by Emma on Apr 1, 2011 20:46:08 GMT -5
gmboy, people are here to discuss devotee things. This is not a dating site. There are plenty of those out there if thats what you want. Sorry to be like this but I hate when people think this site is for dating.
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Post by wonk on Apr 1, 2011 22:55:07 GMT -5
good luck, sex is overratted so youre not really missing much buddy. and on another note..... so many seem to preach confidence on here, if we are so confident why r we even here. im just saying Sex is just like Oxygen, it only seems important when you are not getting any
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Post by g on Apr 2, 2011 0:08:54 GMT -5
gmboy, people are here do discuss devotee things. This is not a dating site. There are plenty of those out there if thats what you want. Sorry to be like this but I hate when people think this site is for dating. i never said this was a dating site........... the board does say personals so it might be a bit misleading to some.
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Post by wheelieInCali on Apr 4, 2011 2:16:26 GMT -5
Just bad wording. I know I'm not here for a lack of confidence.
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Post by ruthmadison on Apr 4, 2011 7:01:19 GMT -5
I'm not here for lack of confidence either.
I have a post in personals because, why not? I keep my opportunities open in as many arenas as I can, since the guys I want are hard to find. I'm certainly not desperate, though. I'll develop a relationship if the chance comes along, and if not, that's okay too.
I wasn't trying to beat up on the new guy, I hope he doesn't run off because of this. Emma and I just wanted to help him tweak his intro to have better luck. I mean, I could describe ice cream in a way that you'd never want to touch it and it seems to me like that's what's happening here, none of the good stuff is on display, none of the stuff that makes girls interested, so I wanted to be helpful. Maybe it wasn't, though.
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Post by faith on Apr 4, 2011 18:40:39 GMT -5
Weaponx- Welcome. I have not been here too much lately so I may be late to this conversation.
I know everyone is mentioning YOUR confidence...but when you introduce yourself you may want to consider the confidence of the woman.
This is what a woman reads when someone writes "I am not too picky"... she reads "I am not picky so you will do." It immediately puts her in a place of "you are average or less" .... and I'll even consider you.
You WANT her to feel special. Wonderful. Sexy. How about "I would love to talk with any of you and can not wait to meet that one beautiful and special girl that fills my heart." Or something like that....
You don't want her to feel average do you?
And.. good luck to you!
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Post by matisse on Apr 5, 2011 21:51:22 GMT -5
Plus, there's the fear of being *rejected* by this guy.......!!!!
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