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Post by Deleted on Nov 7, 2016 12:59:08 GMT -5
Malibu thank you for the apology. I too apologize for getting out of hand.
Legoless: who are you to tell anyone how they should identify themselves or live their lives? The things women have said to me RE: my arm are more than enough to dissuade me from trying to date. I have a litany of screenshots if you want, not to mention the things said to my face.
I really couldn't care less if you believe why I came here. The truth is the truth. I met a dev. I had never heard of that kind of thing before. I googled and somehow found this forum. I did not come here to date. Look back at my other posts where I ask devs to talk about their devness.
I wrote the story, again, because I had read there was a lack of dev erotica. It was a Saturday night, I was home, I'm a writer. It was a type of writing I'd never done before - I usually stick to personal essays. I took a chance and I don't regret doing so. I had fun writing it.
As for Malibu and the disability thing: I used her language back at her. Pretty typical in formulating a response.
And all of the things you listed I can't do with one hand I do on a daily basis...
Everyone has his own experiences. Clearly yours have been different from mine and that's great. I'm happy you've had no problems dating. But just because you haven't doesn't mean that I should have the same experiences that you do. And it certainly shouldn't negate any experiences I have had - I've had some success with dating, online and off, but as a whole I have found it to be negative. I can't imagine anyone else here hasn't had similar experiences.
Thanks for chiming in...
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Post by jalapeno on Nov 7, 2016 16:26:05 GMT -5
Hey Tony, Don't take criticism from the internets too seriously. At the end of the day, you know who you are, and you know why you do the things you do, and only you know the experiences you've experienced in life and what you've gone through. Additionally, I want to thank you, and commend you for writing the story, you have exercised your muscles as a writer and your creativity, that's what a true writer does; they write and write! Also, I want to say I literally LOL'ed at the whole "salivating at the smell of a penis" thing. I don't think such a thing has ever happened since the dawn of mankind. I'm not entirely sure you have a wonderful understanding of the female perspective -- but this is how to understand it; you write and write, and you share it with others, and you get feedback, and you talk to people men and women alike. You live, you learn. you write, you learn. Same principle. The internet is a good place for that. Finally, regarding why you have been dissuaded from pursuing dating -- let that not deter you. Shitty experiences are just that; shitty experiences. Life is wonderful and there's a lot of people in the world, and I know its cliche but its true; there really is someone for everyone out there. All you can do is keep living your life, volunteer, sign up to some meetup groups, and just LIVE -- and you will find someone who loves you for you, missing hand or no missing hand. just keep being you  so, yah, don't take things too seriously, in the great legendary words of Mr Joker; why so serious? |
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Post by MarineAmp on Nov 7, 2016 18:38:35 GMT -5
I'm not telling you how you should identify yourself, I was pointing out your contradictory statements of saying you're not disabled and then saying you are disabled.
I'm sure you don't care what I believe but others are probably not believing you either.
Your very first post says you are open to dating as well. Then your biggest posts have been about dating, or at least your struggle to date. I like to call it the pity party.
I didn't actually say you couldn't do those things. I just know I can do them better than you. I actually happen to know quite a few hand/arm amputees and I wouldn't say it has made dating easier, but they seem to be doing well for themselves. I find that your physical appearance does have an affect on your "date ability", but personality and confidence are always the key to landing the second date.
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Post by blueskye101 on Nov 7, 2016 19:40:57 GMT -5
I guess that's as close to an apology as you're capable of... On the internet it's nearly impossible to find a legitimate sincere apology, especially when you don't really deserve one. I would strongly suggest you edit that post to something less instigative and perhaps be a little more respectful. I normally try to avoid these controversial threads but decided to chime in for one thing... TAKE AN L. Not everyone liked your story. That's fine. Either take their advice and use it for the next story, try writing for a different purpose, or give up writing all together. There's no shame in any of those options, but the longer you try to defend yourself and continue to argue with a group of people that you do not belong to, the bigger the hole you're digging yourself into. I honestly believe with a well thought-out and sincere response, addressing most of the concerns of this thread, you can get out of this mess without making a whole ton of enemies, but if you continue doing what you're doing, it's imminent. I hate seeing new members go down that road and hope you'll stop and take a step back to re-evaluate things. How did you get so smart and insightful so young? Love your post |
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Post by Deleted on Nov 7, 2016 19:51:04 GMT -5
This has been the most bizarre experience of my life. Asking for feedback, trying to engage tonunderstand the subject matter more, and getting attacked for it. I am deleting my account. This is not why I came here.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 7, 2016 21:21:30 GMT -5
I enjoyed this.
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Post by midwestguy on Nov 7, 2016 22:04:27 GMT -5
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Post by newjess on Nov 8, 2016 0:19:37 GMT -5
Damn it... I wanted to send Tony "Love Fist". Thought he'd enjoy it. Guess it's too late now
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Post by Hopper on Nov 8, 2016 11:13:20 GMT -5
I wasn't going to comment on this at all, but I just have to get something down.
No woman would be 'salivating from the scent of cock' as it were. That's what dogs do when they meet each other for the first time.
That aspect of the story was almost comical.
Right, carry on.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 8, 2016 11:27:56 GMT -5
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Post by Hopper on Nov 8, 2016 11:50:53 GMT -5
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