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Post by lucretia on Oct 6, 2018 15:50:41 GMT -5
Advice: please delete your posts in this section.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 6, 2018 15:55:58 GMT -5
Was it ok to point that out to him ? Im not sure of the 'etiquette' ?
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loreley
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Post by loreley on Oct 7, 2018 4:25:57 GMT -5
I have been in long-term relationships both with ABs and PWDs and relationship-wise, there was really no difference. But with ABs, my sex life was virtually non-existent after a short while. For several years now,I have been in a happy and fulfilling relationship with a PWD and I hope I never have to date again for the rest of my life...
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Post by Emma on Oct 8, 2018 1:24:10 GMT -5
Was it ok to point that out to him ? I'm not sure of the 'etiquette' ? You are not supposed to quote guys who post in devs only, just click report post and if you want you can also send them a PM explaining it. Quoting them and discussing it always gets a thread off topic. |
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devotee87
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Post by devotee87 on Oct 15, 2018 10:09:09 GMT -5
I’m engaged and my fiancé is a PWD. When I first joined here (4.5 yrs ago) I was married, my ex-husband is AB. After having multiple AB relationships, an AB marriage, and two PWD relationships: I can say that, for me, the relationship dynamics are pretty similar. There are up’s and down’s, struggles and growth in both. The sex, however, is drastically different. As in, I cringe to think about my pre-PWD sex life.  I'm in a relationship with a PWD (quadriplegic). I have broken my "AB marriage" too. I don't want to live that life again. I love my life with a PWD. |
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AndreaK
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Post by AndreaK on Dec 16, 2018 0:35:14 GMT -5
Ive been wondering how many of us devs are currently in a relationship with a pwd ? For the ones who arent, is it something you would like to happen? I’m not in a relationship currently. But I’m interested. And I’ve been looking. Harder than I thought. |
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katdob
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Post by katdob on Dec 16, 2018 14:07:38 GMT -5
In a relationship with AB but still fantasies about PWD. A very hot para or low level quad.
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Post by TotalBias on Dec 18, 2018 0:18:23 GMT -5
At the time of the OP I was, now I’m not. It’s hard for me to say if I want to or not right now. I don’t try and filter my relationships by AB or PWD; I just date whoever seems like the best fit/has the most potential at the time. I prefer to date guys with disabilities becusss I think the relationships are more intimate and also because we have more in common/to talk about since my research is in disability studies. That being said certainly not all disabled people are interested in that and plenty of AB people are. For me right now, I’m just hoping the next person I decide to date is practical for my life. I can be a bit of a hopeless romantic and I’m really hoping I can resist throwing myself into a relationship that’s doomed by difficult to overcome factors (like the guy living in another country).
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feelingroovy
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Post by feelingroovy on Jan 16, 2019 0:18:25 GMT -5
Married to an AB, past relationship with a PWD, and all I can say is in the end, it's all about falling in love and connecting.
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Post by TotalBias on Jan 19, 2019 22:23:56 GMT -5
2019 update (Lol): I’m not looking to date in general right now. I don’t know if I will date a PWD in the future or not. I’ve recently come to realize that I need to take a lot of time to focus on myself at this point in my life, and any relationship, but especially one with a PWD takes a lot of energy and effort.
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savannahgirl
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Post by savannahgirl on Feb 1, 2019 14:56:20 GMT -5
In a relationship with AB but still fantasies about PWD. A very hot para or low level quad. This is me. I am happily married to an AB man, for 21 years in June, but I defiantly still have fantasies about PWD. |
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ella97
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Post by ella97 on Sept 20, 2020 15:20:59 GMT -5
I have been in a friends with benefits situation with a C4/5 quad for about 3 years now. If the situation ever arose for a relationship with a pwd I would say yes.
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Kahanah
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Post by Kahanah on Sept 21, 2020 4:26:55 GMT -5
I am new to this board.. But I’ve been struggling with my uncommon sexuality my whole life and when I met my PWD partner my life has changed drastically. I’ve been married twice before to a very very attractive men and didn’t want to be intimate with them. It’ was a TORTURE!
Now my boyfriend thinks I’m always sexual.
Absolutely the best relationship I’ve ever had
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Post by Deleted on Sept 29, 2020 16:44:24 GMT -5
I have been in a friends with benefits situation with a C4/5 quad for about 3 years now. If the situation ever arose for a relationship with a pwd I would say yes. Can I ask why you’ve stayed friends rather than being in a relationship? Is it a choice or just the situation ? |
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Post by Deleted on Sept 29, 2020 16:47:19 GMT -5
I am new to this board.. But I’ve been struggling with my uncommon sexuality my whole life and when I met my PWD partner my life has changed drastically. I’ve been married twice before to a very very attractive men and didn’t want to be intimate with them. It’ was a TORTURE! Now my boyfriend thinks I’m always sexual. Absolutely the best relationship I’ve ever had I completely agree, I was married to a man who (on the outside) seemed ideal.....handsome, intelligent, wealthy etc etc but only with my pwd partner have I been truly satisfied. |
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