Post by feelsunshine on Jan 25, 2023 18:10:55 GMT -5
Jan 25, 2023 8:30:35 GMT -5 @lilyinblossom said:
Dev-wise of course, there are usually not enough guys around who fit with what we’re looking for.
I wouldn't say "very special" but when it comes to AB, I have some things, some qualities that I look for in a man, unfortunately when he has one, he doesn't have the other and I look for the "perfect mix of everything". I'd rather being alone than being with someone and have the feeling that I could wait more and find someone even more special. Maybe I romanticize things too much. I don't blame anyone, it's my fault too, I don't go out very much and my circle of friend is small.
For pwd, I want the same qualities, features, that I want in a AB but I'm also very specific when it comes to my preferred disability - it's like finding a needle in a haystack (but this part I guess I'm not alone and some devs can relate too).
Oh I can totally relate. a while ago I decided that I won’t go into a relationship with an AB man again. At least I’m not searching for it.
If I ever go into any kind of relationship again, it should be a wheeler.
Currently l’m really happy with what I have, it’s a really good friendship to a wheeler, which gives me so much that I don’t miss anything actually.