ichbin
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đź’•found my paraplegic prince
Posts: 235
Gender: Female
Dev Status: Devotee
Relationship Status: In a relationship
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Post by ichbin on Jan 25, 2023 9:20:08 GMT -5
Ive been wondering how many of us devs are currently in a relationship with a pwd ? For the ones who arent, is it something you would like to happen? I have always dreamt of it and now I am. It's been half a year now. Gets better everyday.  |
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Post by lilyinblossom on Jan 25, 2023 10:41:17 GMT -5
Ive been wondering how many of us devs are currently in a relationship with a pwd ? For the ones who arent, is it something you would like to happen? I have always dreamt of it and now I am. It's been half a year now. Gets better everyday. Congrats! It must be good Btw, does he knows about your devness? Or do you handle this so naturally that it is not a concern? I've always been curious on how I would handle my devness (freely but without suspicion) if was in a relationship with a pwd. |
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ichbin
Full Member
đź’•found my paraplegic prince
Posts: 235
Gender: Female
Dev Status: Devotee
Relationship Status: In a relationship
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Post by ichbin on Jan 25, 2023 17:01:51 GMT -5
I have always dreamt of it and now I am. It's been half a year now. Gets better everyday. Congrats! It must be good Btw, does he knows about your devness? Or do you handle this so naturally that it is not a concern? I've always been curious on how I would handle my devness (freely but without suspicion) if was in a relationship with a pwd. Yes, he knows. Has known from the beginning. If I hadn't explicitly written in my "online dating personal info" that I am looking for a guy with acquired paraplegia TH level, he said he would never have contacted me (he would have thought he's not "good enough" for me) |
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Post by feelsunshine on Jan 25, 2023 18:10:55 GMT -5
So, what exactly do you mean by “small dating pool”? Is there something very special that you are attracted to, that not many AB guys have? Dev-wise of course, there are usually not enough guys around who fit with what we’re looking for. I wouldn't say "very special" but when it comes to AB, I have some things, some qualities that I look for in a man, unfortunately when he has one, he doesn't have the other and I look for the "perfect mix of everything". I'd rather being alone than being with someone and have the feeling that I could wait more and find someone even more special. Maybe I romanticize things too much. I don't blame anyone, it's my fault too, I don't go out very much and my circle of friend is small. For pwd, I want the same qualities, features, that I want in a AB but I'm also very specific when it comes to my preferred disability - it's like finding a needle in a haystack (but this part I guess I'm not alone and some devs can relate too). Oh I can totally relate. a while ago I decided that I won’t go into a relationship with an AB man again. At least I’m not searching for it. If I ever go into any kind of relationship again, it should be a wheeler. Currently l’m really happy with what I have, it’s a really good friendship to a wheeler, which gives me so much that I don’t miss anything actually. |
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